Ok can i have peoples veiws...important?!
Question: Ok can i have peoples veiws!.!.!.important!?
Ok when i was 5 i was sexually abused by a 15 year old, he forced me to have sex once and then he made like do stuff to him!. But when i was 12 i started going with boys and i had sex for the first time at 13, i know it was ery young, but i thought it was sort of!.!.!.normal i dunno!.!.!.!. but ive had sex with like 9 people and im only 15, majority of them drunken unprotected one night stands!. I dunno why im posting this, just very confused!.!.!.!. peoples veiws would maybe help me see sense, i dunno!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I think that your sexual abuse at 5 years old may have confused you into thinking that sex is a normal thing that people participate in!. It IS, however, not at such a young age; in fact it is illegal since you were only a child!.
You were not given a choice and you were not mature enough to understand the subject or what was happening to you!. As you got older I assume the same held true: you were still not properly informed about sex and its consequences when not taking proper precautions and educations on the subject!. I suggest that you speak to a trusting adult or counselor so you can be much more informed on the subject!. If the state where the abuse happened doesn't have strict statutes of limitations on this type of crime, you might still be able to press charges if you can point out your attacker!.
Also, realize that the abuse was and is not your fault!. You have brought this up to us because you now realize that you were in fact taken advantage of!. Take back what is yours!!! Get educated about what sex should be about and what is considered criminal/abusive!. Know that you have a choice about who you want to share this type of intimacy with!. You might still be confused so I think seeking counseling would only benefit you at this point!. I feel bad that this has happened to you and I hope you find the help you need to get past it and live a happy and positive life!. Good Luck!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You were not given a choice and you were not mature enough to understand the subject or what was happening to you!. As you got older I assume the same held true: you were still not properly informed about sex and its consequences when not taking proper precautions and educations on the subject!. I suggest that you speak to a trusting adult or counselor so you can be much more informed on the subject!. If the state where the abuse happened doesn't have strict statutes of limitations on this type of crime, you might still be able to press charges if you can point out your attacker!.
Also, realize that the abuse was and is not your fault!. You have brought this up to us because you now realize that you were in fact taken advantage of!. Take back what is yours!!! Get educated about what sex should be about and what is considered criminal/abusive!. Know that you have a choice about who you want to share this type of intimacy with!. You might still be confused so I think seeking counseling would only benefit you at this point!. I feel bad that this has happened to you and I hope you find the help you need to get past it and live a happy and positive life!. Good Luck!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think you need to see a counsellor, what happened when you where 5 is wrong and he shouldn't be able to get away with it and possibly do it again to other children! You can get your life normal if you do what is right! I think you should see a counsellor or even talk to some at Child line or Connextions and sort yourself out and then go and meet someone who will treat you right and not just after one thing and then get this sad loser that wrecked your childhood to pay!. You certainly need to stop the unprotected sex now or else you will either get pregnant or catch a STI!. You should also get a STI test done, better to be safe than sorry!
Please hun get yourself sorted before it gets worse and too late!
Hope i helped :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please hun get yourself sorted before it gets worse and too late!
Hope i helped :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's totally normal for girls who were sexually abused to begin our sexual experiences earlier in life!.
Masturbation and 1st times always seem to come sooner if a girl has been sexually abused!.
Not going to rant about you having had multiple partners but
You should be using protection EVERY TIME!.
Being drunk
Being young
Being "ill-prepared" is not an excuse!.
If you're not up to the responsibility for you to carry protection OR if you're not up to the challenge of saying no to someone who doesn't want to wear protection, I would suggest avoiding those situations!.
Dont stay out late!.
Don't drink with those people
And maybe just stay away from them all together!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Masturbation and 1st times always seem to come sooner if a girl has been sexually abused!.
Not going to rant about you having had multiple partners but
You should be using protection EVERY TIME!.
Being drunk
Being young
Being "ill-prepared" is not an excuse!.
If you're not up to the responsibility for you to carry protection OR if you're not up to the challenge of saying no to someone who doesn't want to wear protection, I would suggest avoiding those situations!.
Dont stay out late!.
Don't drink with those people
And maybe just stay away from them all together!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm sorry you were abused!.
I feel it's wrong to have sex with guys you don't know or are going to break up with!. It's not normal to see somebody who's 15 to have had sex with 9 different guys!. The people in our society see it as wrong!. I think it's fine to have sex at an early age if you both feel strongly for each other, and know you're going to be with each other forever!. But I don't feel it's right if they're drunk and you won't be staying with them forever!.
What I see as an early age is about 14-15, not 12!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I feel it's wrong to have sex with guys you don't know or are going to break up with!. It's not normal to see somebody who's 15 to have had sex with 9 different guys!. The people in our society see it as wrong!. I think it's fine to have sex at an early age if you both feel strongly for each other, and know you're going to be with each other forever!. But I don't feel it's right if they're drunk and you won't be staying with them forever!.
What I see as an early age is about 14-15, not 12!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You should definitely talk to your parents about this because many kids who go through this make the problem work by not telling the parents who love and care about them and who could have helped them and it seems like the reason you're having sex so early is because what hap pend to you when you were five definitely seek counseling and talk to your parents you don't need to be having sex this early!. Hope i have helped!. =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
You know yourself you're being silly by living like this!.
You could blame it on you be sexually abused at such a young age and do nothing about it!. Or take action for yourself and stop this self-destructive behaviour!.
Maybe seek help in a psychologist!? That would definitely help, but you've got to want to change your life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You could blame it on you be sexually abused at such a young age and do nothing about it!. Or take action for yourself and stop this self-destructive behaviour!.
Maybe seek help in a psychologist!? That would definitely help, but you've got to want to change your life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well, you didn't have sex for the first time when you were 13
you had it when that guy raped you when you were like 5
you're probably having sex with a bunch of guys now to compensate for the guy who raped you back then
trying to forget or something
but you should try to stop, or be more careful
like get on birth control and start using condoms, otherwise you're probably going to get a bunch of std's and get pregnant
you might also want to see a therapistWww@Answer-Health@Com
you had it when that guy raped you when you were like 5
you're probably having sex with a bunch of guys now to compensate for the guy who raped you back then
trying to forget or something
but you should try to stop, or be more careful
like get on birth control and start using condoms, otherwise you're probably going to get a bunch of std's and get pregnant
you might also want to see a therapistWww@Answer-Health@Com
I'm a teen too!.!.!.I think that your past experience made you feel like it isn't such a big deal!. Please be careful!.!.!.and if they're just one night stands, then the people really aren't worth it!. You might think it's love but there's a difference between love and lust!. Try to wait a little, really get to know people, before you jump into something!. Good luck!. =]Www@Answer-Health@Com
Umm!.!.!. you really need to talk to something about this!. Ever heard of STDs!? If you want to want to have sex with a guy, make sure they wear a condom!
You need to understand that by doing this other people will think bad of you!. If you're like me and don't care what other people think, then you should know that you're truely being sluttish!.
I recomend that you get some help! Talk to a friend you can trust or a consellor!.
(Ooops!.!.!. sorry for the rudeness!.!.!. I'm not in a very good mood today!.!.!.)Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to understand that by doing this other people will think bad of you!. If you're like me and don't care what other people think, then you should know that you're truely being sluttish!.
I recomend that you get some help! Talk to a friend you can trust or a consellor!.
(Ooops!.!.!. sorry for the rudeness!.!.!. I'm not in a very good mood today!.!.!.)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know you must feel very confused, and nothing anyone on this site can say will help you!. I suggest to get into counseling and it will help you to understand what happened to you and where to go from here!. I am sure you don't want to end up pregnant and with many STD'sWww@Answer-Health@Com
just hope youd dint get pregnant is all i have to say!. i dont want to preach, so i would say not to have sex until your old enough to make an informed decision!. Also, dont drink until you old enough!. I say that because THAT, is illegal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
why dont you try some counseling!. it might really help!. and dont be stupid if you think your ready to be having sex, PLEASE! do it the right way and protect yourself! theres soo many stds and diseases out there! and you dont want any of that! so protect yourself and others!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Get yourself out there girl and find a guy who will treat you good :) it will be much better with one special person!
And get a sexual health check, it wont do any harmWww@Answer-Health@Com
And get a sexual health check, it wont do any harmWww@Answer-Health@Com
this all depends if u hav any feelings for a guy or not!. i hav simmalare issues too and if u need mor help or hav any more questions email me!.!.!.
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tell ur parents about ur problem and they will help uWww@Answer-Health@Com
i am 15 as well, and i understand that partying is a big thing our age, but i think that it is just as easy to get away/stay out of it than to get more and more involved with it!. i personally think that you should focus more on school, and find yourself a different group, because if you get preggers it could ruin your chances of being successful!. i personally think it is lame to waste your childhood, and get drunk at the age of 15, and also have sex!. maybe you feel that if you have sex with others it will erase the abuse from when you were five, but i think that you should at least get in a serious relationship with a boy, and know that you really like them, instead of having sex with people undertheinfluence, and make sure he is one that you wanna give yourself too!. if you think that your friends wont except your decision, then that also shows what kind of friends they are!. i am in a sober group, and people think that we do drugs, just becuase we have so many laughs!. and that is a perfect example that you dont need to drink and have a good time!. alll and all, i think you should find a clean boyfriend that you are interested in, and stay with him for at least a couple of months, before any sexual things happen, and then if you feel that you like him enough to have sex, then so be it!. you should either A) stop drinking at the parties, or dont go to the parties B) if you go to the parties, and decide to drink, then bring protection with you C) have fun living childhood!. i am really sorry about your previous abuse, but it is over, and i dont think that it is right to have sex at our age, and i also know that after those one night stands, the relationship with those people are probably forever awkward!. i think you should focus strongly on school, get into a good college have sex with a boy there, and marry a smart, nice boy, who makes good lovens, and then afer marrage, have smart babies!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
SLAG!.!.!. !!!
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hope this helpsWww@Answer-Health@Com