My boyfriend is flirting with me but doesn't know it?!
Question: My boyfriend is flirting with me but doesn't know it!?
I asked this in the men's section!.!.!. but thought I'd get more females here!.
Okay!.!. so my boyfriend and I live together!.!.!. and he doesn't know all of my screennames!. I have 3 different screennames for different reasons!. (One for business, one for family and friends, and one so no one bothers me) But he does know I have them!. Well, we happened to be in the same chatroom one day and he IMed me and started flirting!. At first I thought he knew it was me!.!.!. But!.!.!.!. he doesn't!.
Is this right of him!? What should I do!? We are chatting now!. And he seems so calm when I speak to him in person while talking to me online !.!.!. like he isn't even flirting online!.
I feel kind of betrayed but I want to tell him that its me!. Should I!?
Is this healthy!? I thought we have a very good communication level!. Please ask any questions you have!.!. and I'll try to answer them!.
Thanks!.!.!. for anyone who answers!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Okay!.!. so my boyfriend and I live together!.!.!. and he doesn't know all of my screennames!. I have 3 different screennames for different reasons!. (One for business, one for family and friends, and one so no one bothers me) But he does know I have them!. Well, we happened to be in the same chatroom one day and he IMed me and started flirting!. At first I thought he knew it was me!.!.!. But!.!.!.!. he doesn't!.
Is this right of him!? What should I do!? We are chatting now!. And he seems so calm when I speak to him in person while talking to me online !.!.!. like he isn't even flirting online!.
I feel kind of betrayed but I want to tell him that its me!. Should I!?
Is this healthy!? I thought we have a very good communication level!. Please ask any questions you have!.!. and I'll try to answer them!.
Thanks!.!.!. for anyone who answers!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Sorry that this is happening to you, cant be nice!.
Well, theres such a thing as an innocent flirt, most people do it even if they are in a relationship, so why not have some fun with it!? Flirt back and say really flirtatious things, not letting him know its you!. Then walk into the room that he is in quietly and sneak behind him, and ask what he is doing, checking out the screen!. He'll either lie and say that a girl randomly started flirting with him or something, or admit and say he didnt mean it etc!. If he lies, tell him that its you, and explain how betrayed and horrible you feel, and hopefuly talk about it to sort it out!. If he doesnt lie, and he admits, it is probably quite hard for him, so dont beat him up about it too much!.
This shouldnt really be in the section 'Womens Health' btw!.
Hope this helps
Lily xWww@Answer-Health@Com
Well, theres such a thing as an innocent flirt, most people do it even if they are in a relationship, so why not have some fun with it!? Flirt back and say really flirtatious things, not letting him know its you!. Then walk into the room that he is in quietly and sneak behind him, and ask what he is doing, checking out the screen!. He'll either lie and say that a girl randomly started flirting with him or something, or admit and say he didnt mean it etc!. If he lies, tell him that its you, and explain how betrayed and horrible you feel, and hopefuly talk about it to sort it out!. If he doesnt lie, and he admits, it is probably quite hard for him, so dont beat him up about it too much!.
This shouldnt really be in the section 'Womens Health' btw!.
Hope this helps
Lily xWww@Answer-Health@Com
That's creepy!. Maybe he does know it's you!.
But ask yourself this: If he doesn't know it's you and he was saying the things he says to you chatting, to someone else in person, would you consider that cheating!. It sounds a little suspicious!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
But ask yourself this: If he doesn't know it's you and he was saying the things he says to you chatting, to someone else in person, would you consider that cheating!. It sounds a little suspicious!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ask him does he have girlfriend and if not would he mind meeting up for some fun!. if he says yes then he can't be trustedWww@Answer-Health@Com
It's quite dodgy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
wow honestly I think he knows its u and just playing the part!. What would do to be sure is tell him to meet u somewhere and see the look on his face when he actually see and finds out its u, then you'll know right then and there if he knew or not cause we women know these things!.!.!.then dump his *** for attempted cheating on u! Hey I think this is better then going up to him and yelling "why the fuc* are u flirting online blah blah blah" then you'll never know oh yeah and dont be so obvious whentrying to lead him on be real discreet about it and say hey "well I'm going 'somewhere local' we should meet up so we know what each other looks like" and make sure u tell him your drop dead gorgeous lol I hope he is putting u on but if not bust the little cheater!!! Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com