Is it wrong for me to feel this way?!


Question: Is it wrong for me to feel this way!?
my friend cant come to my birthday now which is in two days because she just went on a "break" with her bf!.

I understand this is a very hard stressfull event that is emotional

On the other hand!.!.she is my really good friend who I dont get to see often and she promised months ago she would be there!. I want her there more then anything even if its only for a bit!. my initial reaction was anger then sadness!.!.!.but I know i should be supportive and understanding!. I just cant when I feel so hurt by her!.


I guess i dont understand how you can blow off your friends, cancel all your plans etc!.!.!.to do what!? feel sorry for yourself and mope around all day!?


do you think its wrong I feel this way!? or am I a horrible friend!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
why is this question in Womens Health!? lol

&& screw your friend!.
she needs to get over herself && celebrate your bdayWww@Answer-Health@Com

She could be pretty cut up and depressed though!. Go over tonight before your party and offer to make hot chocolate ( with marshmellows!) and a let her have a good chat with you, it might cheer her up and she might change her mind seeing that being with you makes her feel better, because that's what friends are for!.

I don't blame you for feeling like that because she is your best pal and it's been arranged for ages and it's not horrible, just a wee bit selfish!.

I hope she changes her mind and comes! :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Whoa she is a really bad friend!.
I get that she unhappy blah blah blah but that doesn't really prohibit her from coming to your birthday!.
I would be pretty pissed if I were you!.
It's not your fault at all when she's the one being that way!.


Good luckk!.
:)Www@Answer-Health@Com

its not horrible at all!. i would feel the same way!. i have always believed friends come before bf's anyway!. but its fine!. try talking to her about it!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Change the date!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You're fine, she's the one that's a bad friend!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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