It hurts to have sex!?!
Question: It hurts to have sex!!?
-its not my first time
-its not because it isnt lubricated enough
-i cant really describe the feeling
-it just hurts really bad
what do i do!? i told m gynocologist and i dont think she took me too seriously she pretty much blew it off!.!. anyone else have a similar problem and know what it might be!?!?
because obviously sex is a big part of relationships and my boyfriend doesnt understand how bad it hurts, i NEVER want to have sex and i definitly dont want him to start cheating on me!.!.!. so i just do it and get it over with and try to hold in the pain but i really eventually need to fix this problemWww@Answer-Health@Com
-its not because it isnt lubricated enough
-i cant really describe the feeling
-it just hurts really bad
what do i do!? i told m gynocologist and i dont think she took me too seriously she pretty much blew it off!.!. anyone else have a similar problem and know what it might be!?!?
because obviously sex is a big part of relationships and my boyfriend doesnt understand how bad it hurts, i NEVER want to have sex and i definitly dont want him to start cheating on me!.!.!. so i just do it and get it over with and try to hold in the pain but i really eventually need to fix this problemWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
1) It is the duty of your gynecologist to help you!. Without proper diagnosis, it is almost impossible to help you!. I strictly recommend to change the gyn as soon as possible!. This is not a suitable behaviour!. She is a bad doctor if she does not investigate such complains!
2) Thanks for excluding the most probable causes right away, so we do not need to discuss them!.
3) Possible causes: The uterus can be bent or tilted!. The cervix can be tilted or oversensitive!. Hernia!. Uterus cysts!. Many more much more rare causes thinkable!.
4) In order for you to be able to more precisely describe your problems, please investigate different positions of sexual intercourse and use a dildo to penetrate yourself: Does the pain occur when just lying on your back!? Insert a finger, any pain!? Insert Dildo (or thick candle covered in condom), any pain!? -- if not: Select "riding" position on your boyfriend [this position often alleviates or avoids pain due to tilted uterus], very careful lower yourself down!. When does the pain occur if at all!? Continue some experiments and movements!. Try to detect when and where the pain sets in!. Try different positions!. Write down what happens!.
Try to locate the source of the pain, at least the exact situations when it occurs!. This will help your NEW gyn to diagnose the problem!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
2) Thanks for excluding the most probable causes right away, so we do not need to discuss them!.
3) Possible causes: The uterus can be bent or tilted!. The cervix can be tilted or oversensitive!. Hernia!. Uterus cysts!. Many more much more rare causes thinkable!.
4) In order for you to be able to more precisely describe your problems, please investigate different positions of sexual intercourse and use a dildo to penetrate yourself: Does the pain occur when just lying on your back!? Insert a finger, any pain!? Insert Dildo (or thick candle covered in condom), any pain!? -- if not: Select "riding" position on your boyfriend [this position often alleviates or avoids pain due to tilted uterus], very careful lower yourself down!. When does the pain occur if at all!? Continue some experiments and movements!. Try to detect when and where the pain sets in!. Try different positions!. Write down what happens!.
Try to locate the source of the pain, at least the exact situations when it occurs!. This will help your NEW gyn to diagnose the problem!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
yes I know what you mean, is it because he has been doing it from behind and he has a long penis and does it often!? It hurts because its sore and its too long!. TELL HIM that it hurts the way that youve been doing it and too try it a different way!. What keeps my mind off of the pain is rubbing my clitoris to focus on me not the pain!. If this doesnt sound why, then maybe you have an ovarian cyst and he hits it evertime you have sex!. Get checked for one!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Get yourself a new Gyno!. A good doctor will take everything you say seriously and will not let you go on being worried about somthing like this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
maybe you have a hernia or a Urinary tract infectionWww@Answer-Health@Com
well i would of said it was your first time, well its unlikely but i had a friend and her boyfriends *area* was too big, DONT GO DUMP UR BOYFRIEND THOUGH ON THIS ADVICE!.
check with a doctor maybeWww@Answer-Health@Com
check with a doctor maybeWww@Answer-Health@Com