I need MAJOR advice...please help?!
Question: I need MAJOR advice!.!.!.please help!?
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so i was on the phone with my boyfriend at about 11 pm!. my parents got hella pissed at me, and took my phone away!.
but they went through my texts between me and my boyfriend!.!.!.and they were VERY sexual!.
they took my phone away, and i dont have it for about another 6 weeks!. and when i do get my phone back, they are going to change the number, and make sure that i dont contact my boyfriend in anyway, shape, or form!. but i do have myspace account they dont know about, so i can still communicate with him somewhat!.
i really love him!. yes, LOVE him!. i am old enough to know that he treats me great, and that he is the best thing that i will ever encounter!. and he loves me more than i do him (he says) haha!.
but i need advice!.!.!.how do i get my parents to let me speak to him on the phone again!? how do i get them to see the cute, friendly, nice side of him, and forget the stuff they read on the texts!?
thanx SOOO much!Www@Answer-Health@Com
so i was on the phone with my boyfriend at about 11 pm!. my parents got hella pissed at me, and took my phone away!.
but they went through my texts between me and my boyfriend!.!.!.and they were VERY sexual!.
they took my phone away, and i dont have it for about another 6 weeks!. and when i do get my phone back, they are going to change the number, and make sure that i dont contact my boyfriend in anyway, shape, or form!. but i do have myspace account they dont know about, so i can still communicate with him somewhat!.
i really love him!. yes, LOVE him!. i am old enough to know that he treats me great, and that he is the best thing that i will ever encounter!. and he loves me more than i do him (he says) haha!.
but i need advice!.!.!.how do i get my parents to let me speak to him on the phone again!? how do i get them to see the cute, friendly, nice side of him, and forget the stuff they read on the texts!?
thanx SOOO much!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
how old are you!? I know this seems annoying, that you're always asked about your age, but its just how life is!. As you get older, you change your thinking, and things get more complex and more interesting :)
But anyway!. Follow your heart, your parents are just scared!.
If possible, get a job, and pay for your own phone/stuff!. Not only can they not take away that phone, but will also see how mature you are, and how much you don't need their approval!. Suddenly they'll start panicking and wanting you to not leave home and making it on your own :)
Also, while you've got the bf part down, don't forget to take care of yourself, work toward your dreams/goals!. Remember a great relationship isn't comprised of two halves, but two wholes!.
Your parents will realize sooner or later that you'll love who you will and do what you will!. They're just looking out for you, wanting what's best for you trying to protect you it comes with the territory!.
Also, I'm not a 40 year old mother, I'm 19, and just broke up with an amazing guy who's my best friend, and my parents hated him/threatened to stop us, all that good stuff, and we made out alive!. In the end, it just wasn't what we wanted, but parents were the last thing stopping us!.
Good luck! :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
But anyway!. Follow your heart, your parents are just scared!.
If possible, get a job, and pay for your own phone/stuff!. Not only can they not take away that phone, but will also see how mature you are, and how much you don't need their approval!. Suddenly they'll start panicking and wanting you to not leave home and making it on your own :)
Also, while you've got the bf part down, don't forget to take care of yourself, work toward your dreams/goals!. Remember a great relationship isn't comprised of two halves, but two wholes!.
Your parents will realize sooner or later that you'll love who you will and do what you will!. They're just looking out for you, wanting what's best for you trying to protect you it comes with the territory!.
Also, I'm not a 40 year old mother, I'm 19, and just broke up with an amazing guy who's my best friend, and my parents hated him/threatened to stop us, all that good stuff, and we made out alive!. In the end, it just wasn't what we wanted, but parents were the last thing stopping us!.
Good luck! :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
i think the best thing to do is to show your parents that you are capable of showing some responsibility and that you can show them what kind of person he is but maybe asking them if you can invite him to dinner to show them that he is responsible and the right person for you in a relationship is an optionWww@Answer-Health@Com
let him visit you in your house so your parents will know how good he is I know that sounds dangerous but hey it might be scary at first but hey your parents love you and so i am sure they will soon like him IF they see that HE is really sincere!. And come on if he does love you he will actually do it that will be test for your Boo and for your parents!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
you could have him come over for dinner one night!. or introduce him at a school football game or you could move out into an apartment with him find what you think is love have sex have kids probably get a divorce, then raise the kids by yourself!.!.!.!.or you could just deal with it like every other teen does!.!.!.you really don't need to be getting into this kind of stuff at your age!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i htink you just want to rebel against your parents, and i wouldn't really call this relationship normal!.!. how old are you!? him!? maybe this is for the best!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
sounds 2 me like you might need time away from him for a while!. ur in lust!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!. NOT LOVE
met some new guys and have fun
your still youngWww@Answer-Health@Com
met some new guys and have fun
your still youngWww@Answer-Health@Com
U should sit down with like ur mum and tell her what u just old me in the last paragraph!.
Gl!=)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Gl!=)Www@Answer-Health@Com
This isn't going to be what you want to hear at first, but stick with me!.
As long as you are under their roof, you do need to abide by their rules!. Parents don't just make up rules to make their children's lives miserable for no reason!. We always have a reason!. Yes, it appears stupid and misguided to the child in question- and sometimes it even is!. But you owe them the respect of going along with what they think is best for you!.
They are going to be angry for a while, because no parent is happy to see their teenage daughter become interested in things of a sexual nature!. And I'm sure you are even more worried since school is nearly out for the summer, so you won't even be able to see your boyfriend at school!.
Firstly, you'll have to give them time to get over it!. They were your age once too, and that's why they don't want you seeing him!. They remember the things they did and want better for you!. That's all!.
Don't mention it for a while!. Let them cool off!. Be good!. be respectful!. Show them that you are maturing!. Then carefully bring up the subject one evening in the near future and ask if he can be invited to a family dinner or a weekend get-together!. Tell them you are serious about this relationship and that you didn't mean to be secretive and that you would like your parents to get to know your boyfriend!.
See how it goes!. Give them a chance!. They may just surprise you!.
I'd also recommend you not going behind their back with the myspace thing, either!. When (not if) they find out about that, it will take away all the work you've put into proving your maturity!. If he's that great of a guy, you don't need to hide him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
As long as you are under their roof, you do need to abide by their rules!. Parents don't just make up rules to make their children's lives miserable for no reason!. We always have a reason!. Yes, it appears stupid and misguided to the child in question- and sometimes it even is!. But you owe them the respect of going along with what they think is best for you!.
They are going to be angry for a while, because no parent is happy to see their teenage daughter become interested in things of a sexual nature!. And I'm sure you are even more worried since school is nearly out for the summer, so you won't even be able to see your boyfriend at school!.
Firstly, you'll have to give them time to get over it!. They were your age once too, and that's why they don't want you seeing him!. They remember the things they did and want better for you!. That's all!.
Don't mention it for a while!. Let them cool off!. Be good!. be respectful!. Show them that you are maturing!. Then carefully bring up the subject one evening in the near future and ask if he can be invited to a family dinner or a weekend get-together!. Tell them you are serious about this relationship and that you didn't mean to be secretive and that you would like your parents to get to know your boyfriend!.
See how it goes!. Give them a chance!. They may just surprise you!.
I'd also recommend you not going behind their back with the myspace thing, either!. When (not if) they find out about that, it will take away all the work you've put into proving your maturity!. If he's that great of a guy, you don't need to hide him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well i had the same problem i meet my boyfriend when i was 18 and he was 37!.!.!.i told my mom ( i was living at her house and she paid for car and cell bill) she flipped out she took the car the cell and then 3 weeks later i moved i with him and i have never been more happy in my life!.!.!.i would not change anything or do anything diffrent!.!.!.it has been the best 9 monthes of my life!.!.!.i love him so mush!.!.!. and some times parents just cant see that tell you talk to them and tell them how you feel about the suituition!.!.!.you just need to sit down and talk to them!.!.!.!.that is the only thing you rally can do!.!.!.and if that does not work look at your opptions!.!.!.anyway how old are you!?!?!?!? that could be a major part of the problem!.!.!.and most parents dont want to see there lil girl growing up!.!.!.so just talk to them and see what they have to say about it!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com