My girlfriend didn't bleed?!


Question: My girlfriend didn't bleed!?
Well, my girlfriend and i have been dating for the past 6 months and about a month ago, we moved to second base (handjobs), my only concern is that when my hand wandered and pleasured her, she didn't bleed AT ALL!. I do have fairly large hands and my fingers are long too, and when we spoke about the night (excluding the part about not bleeding) she said that it never hurt and she was comfortable!.

I am her first guy to be down there for her, and i trust and believe her!. Are there any explanations for this!? and why do some girls not bleed when they have sex for the first time!? (1 of my female friends told me)Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
What causes the bleeding of virgin sex is the hymen tearing!. The hymen is a thin membrane that stretches across the vagina, about a third of the way up!. A woman's hymen can break without her knowing it, and almost anything can break it!. Riding a bike, riding a horse, using a tampon, even falling on her butt really hard can break the hymen!. The pain involved in virgin sex comes from the hymen breaking but also from the vagina being stretched to accommodate a penis (which is much larger than your finger) for the first time!.

The blood and pain from a broken hymen used to be a measure of a woman's virginity, but it's not a reliable measure anymore!. Women are so active that breaking their hymen without a penis or a finger being involved is commonplace!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Most girl only bleed a little bit and sometimes you wont see it!. but just using your fingers wont brake her cherry in most cases!. more than likely you didnt reach that far!. the girl would know it you did!. cause it dose hurt some!. and in most cases even having sex if might take some force to brake her cherry!. if she saids she had never been with anyone than theres no reason to not trust her over something small like this!. so dont worry about it!. it take a lot more than just what you did to brake her cherry!. no matter how big your hand is!. so dont worry about it and trust her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

For some girls the hymen breaks naturaly and they don't know it's happend or it breaks on accident like bike riding or horseback riding etc!.!.!.!.I understand your girlfriend because I was in the same situation many moons ago!.!.!.lol
I wasn't a bleeder either and it didn't hurt but I was a virgin!.!.!.!.so yea!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ok there are many reasons why she may not have bled!. The main reason being her hymen has already been broken!. Hymens can break in many ways!. She may have put her fingers in there, she may use tampons, she may have broken it by falling, dancing , horseriding etc!. If she says she is a virgin, trust herWww@Answer-Health@Com

not every girl bleeds for the first time, the blood could have come out in some other way!.!. i didn't bleed at all while through fingering or sex!.!. don't worry!.
there isn't really an explanation for why some girls don't bleed!.!.

\the guy up top is stupid!.!. don't accuse your girlfriend of lying about not being a virgin to somethingWww@Answer-Health@Com

Your fingers may not have torn the hymen, or there is a possibly she tore it prior to sex <sometimes can be torn during active sports or using a tampon> doesn't mean she wasn't a virgin!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

She could not be a virgin, although I hope she was telling you the truth when she said she was!. Her hymen could have torn already, most likely from tampon usage!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

1!. They could not be virgins!.
2!. They could have fell or injured themselves and broke it!.

That's all I can think of, hope this helpsWww@Answer-Health@Com

dude they allways bleed on the first time so that wasnt her first time and it wont bleed with fingersWww@Answer-Health@Com

Not all girls bleed their first time!. Just the way it isWww@Answer-Health@Com

all girls are different!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

believe it or not !.!.!. some girls are born without a hymen!.!.!. a hymen is what breaks when a girl is penetrated for the first time (sometimes) but it is not an exact science!.!.!. the hymen (if a girl even has one) can break earlier without penetration from jarring movements (athletics or things like horseback riding) or from the use of tampons during her period!. sometimes even after the first instance of penetration the hymen remains intact!.!. so no blood!. ALSO alot of the time when girls are having their first experience!.!.!. down there !.!.!. they are not very turned on (more nervous than anything) and therefore are not properly lubricated and then it does hurt!. which just means good for you !.!.!. you were doing you job well !.!.!. i hope this gives you some peace of mind!.!.!. and should you decide to take things to the next level !.!.!. ALWAYS use protection!Www@Answer-Health@Com

The bleeding is caused by the hymen, which is a thin piece of tissue that lies inside the vagina!. Its associated with virginity in that, if its broken, the girl will bleed, thus proving her virginal state!.

However, hymens can break through bicycle riding, using tampons, etc!. so whether or not she bleeds is not accurate information on whether she is a virgin or not!.

She could have already broken her hymen in a nonsexual form as mentioned, or she could've broken it herself via masturbation!. Who knows!? Don't worry about it, though!. Even when hymens break, not EVERY girl bleeds and some may bleed an extremely small amount!.

I would say it's nothing to be nervous about!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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