Is there something physicall wrong with me? *Very Frustrated*?!
Question: Is there something physicall wrong with me!? *Very Frustrated*!?
I don't know what to do anymore!. My boyfriend and I have been sexually active for a year and a half, and he's never been able to make me orgasm!. We've tried everything!. I can do it just fine on my own when no ones watching, but I can't orgasm trying to do it myself while sitting next to him!. It's been like this with everyone I've been with, but I started to realize it was a problem when my current boyfriend started really going out of his way to make it happen!. I feel horrible!. I know it's affecting his self esteem badly, and it makes me feel like I'm a freak!. I really don't think it's him, he's made every other girl he's been with orgasm plenty of times!. I've met many girls who orgasm multiple times during sex, and I haven't been able to make it happen once in a year and a half of steady sexual activity!. My b/f thinks its a psychological problem, but if it is how do I even begin getting around it!? Has anyone else ever had this problem!? Is there anything I can do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I think your boyfriend is right about this!. This is an incredibly complicated issue, and I really do think you need to consult a Counsellor about it!. Has this happened with other partners, or he is the only one!? Perhaps you sub-consciously feel reluctant about "letting loose" with someone else in attendance!? Are you sure he is really doing everything he can to assist you with this!? After all, it's really easy for guys to tell you that every other woman they've ever been with has experienced "the stars and the moon" with them, but this is not always truthful!.
Is there something in your past that perhaps impacts on this now!? Have you had some unpleasant or bad sexual experiences in the past!?
Keep in mind here that there are people out there who simply do not like sex, and can live their lives quite happily without it!.
The bottom line here is that if you can do it quite comfortably when alone, then it's the issue of doing it in company with someone else that's the issue!.
For your own (and your boyfrieds's sake) go and talk to someone about this - please!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Is there something in your past that perhaps impacts on this now!? Have you had some unpleasant or bad sexual experiences in the past!?
Keep in mind here that there are people out there who simply do not like sex, and can live their lives quite happily without it!.
The bottom line here is that if you can do it quite comfortably when alone, then it's the issue of doing it in company with someone else that's the issue!.
For your own (and your boyfrieds's sake) go and talk to someone about this - please!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like it is a psychological problem!. Women and emotion go hand in hand with sex!. I'm no psychiatrist but I'm pretty sure that's the problem!. If you can do it alone but not with anyone else consider the trust and openess in your relationship!. If you do not feel emotionally comfortable around your significant other it can greatly affect your sex life!. I would have no idea how to fix this but if it's affecting your life in a big way you may consider talking to a therapist or someone like that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i can give my gf a orgasm but she cant not Give me on Realy!.!. there are ways u can maybe like put a pillow u sit on it when he is on top or most of the time have him GO on top I know many guys do not like it but there are ways or U can have him do some four play before or maybe u can try to give u self one before U do tell him to come in and then u can have sex !.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you're boyfriend most be really hurt, if hes a man like me he would of taken your inability to orgasm a challenge, one which he has now lost, what ever you do don't fake it that will make it worse, men hate pity, thats why we don't ask for help!. also don't feel bad yourself, these things happen!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
try to touch yourself while hes doing you!. i have the exact same problem and thats the only way i can orgasm while having sex no matter who im with!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sounds normal to me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
maybe its a simple thing like ur thinking about it too much, or performance anxiety!. u know how some people find it hard 2 pee while there are others listening or watching!? yeah well maybe its the same for u, except instead of peeing, its orgasms!.
try and relax a little!. think about the way u feel or what u think about wen u do it on ur own and try to remake that when u have sex!. turn urself on more during foreplay to make it work even better!. just dont think about it too muchWww@Answer-Health@Com
try and relax a little!. think about the way u feel or what u think about wen u do it on ur own and try to remake that when u have sex!. turn urself on more during foreplay to make it work even better!. just dont think about it too muchWww@Answer-Health@Com