Do i have a right to be mad?!
Question: Do i have a right to be mad!?
Ok at lunch today me and my "friends" that I went to seperate lines to get our food when I came out of mine they were all gone they werent at the usual spot we sit at so I didnt have anyone to sit with at lunch, so I just sat with this girl thats in one of my classes!. 5 minutes before the bell rang they came and sat at the usual spot we sit at for lunch!. I was really mad they just left me by myself!. When we got back to class i went up to one of the girls and i was like "thanks for leaving me by myself at lunch that was really rude" and she was all like "oh im sorry i went to the locker room and they just followed me, sorry" whatever!. it makes me feel bad and left out like they could have told me instead of me standing out there by myself looking like a loser!. its not the first time either, they always leave to go to the locker room (they are in the dance team and because im not on it, im not allowed to be in the locker room) i just feel left out and out of place when im with themWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
absolutely! Dont let people ditch you!. Ignore them, because if you think what they did is wrong, then it is!. Try and avoid people like thatWww@Answer-Health@Com
you have the absolute right to be mad, i should know it has happened to me before and you should hang out with people that would NEVER do that to you!. find friends that are nice funny and ones you fit in with!. things will get better if you do
GOOD LUCK!!! :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
GOOD LUCK!!! :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Personally, I would be mad!.
That's ignorant of them!.
I think you did the right thing!. Let them come and apologize to you when they are ready!. Maybe they will realize how much they need you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
That's ignorant of them!.
I think you did the right thing!. Let them come and apologize to you when they are ready!. Maybe they will realize how much they need you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
dont worry about it girls are bitches, they will soon realise and all this will be forgotten if its still at school you are probably yet to realise who your true friends are and u will find that the ones who arent there for u arent worth bein mates with anyway!. it will all blow over soon xWww@Answer-Health@Com
You've already made the right decision I think and that is to delete them from myspace and get rid of them from your life - they AREN'T friends!. Find yourself some real friends who don't use people and you'll be much happier!. xxxWww@Answer-Health@Com
thats prob just the way they r and if u dont like it then dont stay with them but u could be more patient with them bc ther mite b somthing on ther mind!. i think u should clear things up with them bc based on wat u said they didnt do anything rongWww@Answer-Health@Com
yes you do!. it happened to me all the time so i guess that i am mad a lot!. i do understand!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Guess what!? Your shitty high school problems are not important!. Stop whining about it!. If they treat you like that find some new friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
if there like that then obviously they are not your friends so finds some people with common interest that woudnt abandon youWww@Answer-Health@Com
Out of any of these girls, do you see any redeeming qualities!? If there is one girl that you think might actually be nice, deep down, I'd straight out ask what the prob is!.
If she is really your friend, she'd tell you what everyone's issue is!. Could it be that they are gossiping and don't want everyone to know what they are really like!?
If none of these girls have no redeeming qualities, than ditch them!. Life is too short to be hurt, angry, or unappreciated!. If I were you, I would spend the summer trying to find other people that share the same interests as you!.
For instance, those girls like dancing!. What's your thing!? Art, political debate, basketball, volunteerism, fishing!?
That way, you'll always be participating, you'll have more fun, and you'll grow closer bonds with people that are more compatable with your personality!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If she is really your friend, she'd tell you what everyone's issue is!. Could it be that they are gossiping and don't want everyone to know what they are really like!?
If none of these girls have no redeeming qualities, than ditch them!. Life is too short to be hurt, angry, or unappreciated!. If I were you, I would spend the summer trying to find other people that share the same interests as you!.
For instance, those girls like dancing!. What's your thing!? Art, political debate, basketball, volunteerism, fishing!?
That way, you'll always be participating, you'll have more fun, and you'll grow closer bonds with people that are more compatable with your personality!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
yes you have the right to be mad but at the same time if you are tired of getting treated like that you should talk to them first and find out whats going on if they don't talk to you or tell you then you should just find some new friends who like you for you not cause your not on the dance team and besides if they don't want to be friends with you anymore its their loss and not yours you can have better friends than them any dayWww@Answer-Health@Com
think of it this way!.!.!. problems come and go!.!.!.here today gone tomorrow!. people stay a little longer!. I learned that if you want to exceed in life you will need the help of people!. so don't end a good relationship just because of a temporary issue that may have a simple solution!. just talk it out with them!.!.!. but one at a time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com