Can't get my girl to orgasm?!
Question: Can't get my girl to orgasm!?
we've been dating for awhile and are sexually active!. she loves everything i do and says that she gets this pee feeling!. we read about it on the internet and it said that the feeling is normal but no matter how long the feeling lasts she never seems to come!. i know that girls can have two kinds of orgasms and i can't get her to have either one so is there anything i can do to make it more pleasureable for her!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I've had the same problem in the past!. Warning: I am about to get very personal!.
Men are very visual, women!.!.!.!. aren't so much to enjoy sex to the fullest women have to be in the right mind set or it just ain't going to happen! Here are some things to try!.
One, tell her to close her eyes and think about what really gets her going!.
Make sure she is good and warmed up for sex!. We don't reach orgasm nearly as quickly as most men!.
It's possible, and I don't want to crush your ego but that you just aren't touching her the way she wants to be touched!. I don't want to stir up any feelings of distrust BUT sometimes what you are doing isn't juuust right!. However being women we don't want to hurt your feelings, and you aren't doing a bad job at it so we say, "It's not you, it's me!."
IF your girl is up for this, something that might help is if she helps her self out a bit by touching herself or guiding you as to how she want's to be touched!.
If your girlfriend is younger (under 25) in some cases it is possible that her body isn't finished developing in the nerve departments of her reproductive organs, in that case sex can be fun but no fireworks just yet!.
A lot of women can only get off on clitoral stimulation, so if you don't have a problem with going down town (if you know what I mean) you could try that, and while she wouldn't climax from actual intercourse she would still be getting hers!.
Another thing that seems to work wonders for most is if she manually stimulates herself during sex!. (Doggie Style is great for this!.) Another good way is to have her lie on her back and put a pillow under her hips/butt then you kneel between her legs and facing her and go for it that a way!. This is great for both of you because she can mess around and do what she's got to do to pleasure herself and you get the best seat in the house!.
Tell your girlfriend whenever she gets that "I feel like I gotta pee" feeling to tighten her internal muscles like she's trying really hard not to pee her pants and I promise it will feel amazing for the both of you!. The longer she flexes those muscles the more amazing it will feel for and she is sure to reach her "goal!." But be careful that can get intense, however that's the favorite trick of all my girlfriends and it works almost every time!.
Just keep it fun and make sure there is no pressure!. A lot of women spend too much time thinking "Oh my god I have to get off for him to enjoy having sex with me" than actually thinking about how great what's going on feels!. We are eager to please, and that means letting you know you please us, and sometimes we stress ourselves out to much!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Men are very visual, women!.!.!.!. aren't so much to enjoy sex to the fullest women have to be in the right mind set or it just ain't going to happen! Here are some things to try!.
One, tell her to close her eyes and think about what really gets her going!.
Make sure she is good and warmed up for sex!. We don't reach orgasm nearly as quickly as most men!.
It's possible, and I don't want to crush your ego but that you just aren't touching her the way she wants to be touched!. I don't want to stir up any feelings of distrust BUT sometimes what you are doing isn't juuust right!. However being women we don't want to hurt your feelings, and you aren't doing a bad job at it so we say, "It's not you, it's me!."
IF your girl is up for this, something that might help is if she helps her self out a bit by touching herself or guiding you as to how she want's to be touched!.
If your girlfriend is younger (under 25) in some cases it is possible that her body isn't finished developing in the nerve departments of her reproductive organs, in that case sex can be fun but no fireworks just yet!.
A lot of women can only get off on clitoral stimulation, so if you don't have a problem with going down town (if you know what I mean) you could try that, and while she wouldn't climax from actual intercourse she would still be getting hers!.
Another thing that seems to work wonders for most is if she manually stimulates herself during sex!. (Doggie Style is great for this!.) Another good way is to have her lie on her back and put a pillow under her hips/butt then you kneel between her legs and facing her and go for it that a way!. This is great for both of you because she can mess around and do what she's got to do to pleasure herself and you get the best seat in the house!.
Tell your girlfriend whenever she gets that "I feel like I gotta pee" feeling to tighten her internal muscles like she's trying really hard not to pee her pants and I promise it will feel amazing for the both of you!. The longer she flexes those muscles the more amazing it will feel for and she is sure to reach her "goal!." But be careful that can get intense, however that's the favorite trick of all my girlfriends and it works almost every time!.
Just keep it fun and make sure there is no pressure!. A lot of women spend too much time thinking "Oh my god I have to get off for him to enjoy having sex with me" than actually thinking about how great what's going on feels!. We are eager to please, and that means letting you know you please us, and sometimes we stress ourselves out to much!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The vagina, or birth canal, understandably has very few nerve endings!. The clitoris, or joy button, has as many as a man's penis!. In order to orgasm, you need to touch what works!. During intercourse, the clitoris rarely gets touched!. Some women learn to orgasm through intercourse with practice!. Since the clitoris -- the most sensitive body part on a woman -- is not located inside her vagina, reaching an orgasm through intercourse is difficult!. While you are making love while inside her, touch, press, and rub her clitoris with your fingers!. She may have to move her body so that you can do this, and that can be part of the fun!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Before going to intercourse, you have to do many things, first you may be pleased by touch, way of talking,laughing, and put your fingers, into vagina and slowly rub her pussy cat, rubbing by lungs slowly to as and when she urging more and more, and slowly taken your pennies to her mouth to eat the ice cream upto a point to increase you thirsty, and errection must be at last toenjoy your partner!. So both of you will get the entire satisfaction , please do not have any eagerness or enthusiasm what will hppening later, do not use any condom etc,and try to give her more and more times slowly by erection and thus both of you will get the entire satisfaction, please take more than half an hour for the whole practice then only you have a fun and can get the entire satisfaction of your partnerWww@Answer-Health@Com
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