Is this normal? What should we do?!
Question: Is this normal!? What should we do!?
My girlfriend and I have recently started to have sex, and she was a virgin!. Our first time was two nights ago, and like normal, it was painful for her!. The pain came the morning after!. We thought that that would be the only time she would have that pain and bleed, because that's all we'd heard of!.
But we had sex again tonight, and the bleeding and pain started almost immediately after we stopped!. We thought this only happened once!.
Is this normal!? What should we do!?
(besides take it easy for a while)
Looking for serious answers!. Not looking for people's opinions saying that we should have waited til marriage!. This was our choice!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
But we had sex again tonight, and the bleeding and pain started almost immediately after we stopped!. We thought this only happened once!.
Is this normal!? What should we do!?
(besides take it easy for a while)
Looking for serious answers!. Not looking for people's opinions saying that we should have waited til marriage!. This was our choice!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
she's just getting used to you!. The vagina has some elasticity, but you gotta ease into it!. After a couple more times she shouldn't be feeling any pain!. Make sure she's well lubricated b/c if there isn't enough, that will make things very painful and will also leave her prone to infection b/c the friction can leave little microscopic cuts/scratches or she could possibly already have an infection that is causing the pain!. It's possible that she could be having a reaction to the condoms(if they were used)!.Chances are, however, that the pain will ease after she has "conformed" to you!. Enjoy, and always play smart!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Bleeding after having intercourse for the first time (or even the first few times) is normal for many girls!. It is called "spotting"!.
What is NOT normal is:
1!. Heavy bleeding (like when you start your period)
2!. More than a few days of consistent bleeding with sex
3!. Pain that continues and does not lessen with each following intercourse!.
I would suggest she see a doctor if the blood and pain continue very much longer!. It will give you both peace of mind and you'll get good information you can use as you begin having sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
What is NOT normal is:
1!. Heavy bleeding (like when you start your period)
2!. More than a few days of consistent bleeding with sex
3!. Pain that continues and does not lessen with each following intercourse!.
I would suggest she see a doctor if the blood and pain continue very much longer!. It will give you both peace of mind and you'll get good information you can use as you begin having sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you must be thrusting too hard!. try be more gentle and you might want to use toys instead first just to loosen her up!. it will also be more pleasurable for her (if you use toys) because it sounds as if she is in pain!. you may also want to finger her first!. i know this sounds dodgey but it may be nicer for her and then you can start to move in with you penis!.
=] i hoped this helped
p!.s!. is she getting orgasms!? this may lead to the pain and bleeding if shes not!.
thanksWww@Answer-Health@Com
=] i hoped this helped
p!.s!. is she getting orgasms!? this may lead to the pain and bleeding if shes not!.
thanksWww@Answer-Health@Com
maybe you didnt fully break her hymen the first time!. Excersise helps pain in the vaginal area!. if things get worst I say you see a doctor dude!. Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
slowly she will get used to itWww@Answer-Health@Com