Never had an orgasm please help?!
Question: Never had an orgasm please help!?
I am 17 almost 18 and have been sexually active sadly since i was 14!. I have been in a relationship for 2 years june 10th(9 days), My Fiance is 20 going on 21!. We have been sexually active through out or 2 years very extensively!. We reached a point where it was 3 times a day for months!. And through out all this time i havent been able to have an orgasm with him or any of my previous partners!. I had an orgasm 3 times only with me on top rubbing a certain way but havent been lucky since!. I do not know how to masturbate sadly and have tried soooo many times but that was a failure too!. Its gotten to me so much of not reaching a climax ever it has ultimatley taken a toll on my moods and how i act!. I guess im a wits end!. And i know my partener is just as upset about this recent news as am i!. I did lie for 2 years saying i did when i didnt only because i thought if every time we had sex and he asked me i said no it would hurt him more!. I really need some advice, can anyone help or offer any!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Not all women can orgasm through intercourse!. In fact, based on some reports, most women probably can't orgasm through intercourse!. Women usually need direct or indirect contact on the clitoris in order to orgasm!. Sometimes intercourse just doesn't do it!. You have nerve endings in your vagina, which is why intercourse can feel really good and still not produce an orgasm!.
If you don't know how to masturbate, then you should start now! I think that, because you've been sexually active for much of your sexually formative years, you never got to explore your own body and find out what makes you tick!. If you can't make yourself orgasm, then you can't possibly help your lover make you orgasm!.
Check out some sex toy websites and look for vibrators that you can hold on your clitoris during orgasm!. Trojan just released a vibrator that you slide over your finger!. It's small and compact, which makes it perfect for sex!. You or your boyfriend can hold it on your genitals while you're having sex!.
Here's the website:
https://www!.vibratingtouch!.com/!?cid=5021!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you don't know how to masturbate, then you should start now! I think that, because you've been sexually active for much of your sexually formative years, you never got to explore your own body and find out what makes you tick!. If you can't make yourself orgasm, then you can't possibly help your lover make you orgasm!.
Check out some sex toy websites and look for vibrators that you can hold on your clitoris during orgasm!. Trojan just released a vibrator that you slide over your finger!. It's small and compact, which makes it perfect for sex!. You or your boyfriend can hold it on your genitals while you're having sex!.
Here's the website:
https://www!.vibratingtouch!.com/!?cid=5021!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try going to someplace different, a car in a park or in water!. Also try using KY warming touch oil, even if you are fine lubricating yourself!. Also try using a shower spray nozzle!. Try an ice cube put in by his tongue, cold is very stimulating as well as hot!. I hope some of these help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
its normal for alot of girls but id suggeust going to talksexwithsue!.com she helps with problems like yours!.
on that website go 2 female orgasm read it then go 2 masterbation female!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
on that website go 2 female orgasm read it then go 2 masterbation female!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The first and most important step to having an orgasm is!.!. Being in the right frame of mind!. Reading an erotic book, thinking back to a something hot that happened in your life, watching porn, or anything else that turns you on!. If you are going to have sex, make sure your Fiance does a lot of foreplay and you are close to having an orgasm!. You can do this with oral, kissing, fondling each other, or mutual masturbation!. Just relax while you are having sex, if you are too tense and worried that you are not going to have an orgasm you won't!. Sometimes if you focus on your breathing when you are close!.!. it helps you to climax!.
If you want to try masturbating, my favorite way is using a vibrater on my clit or using the shower!. To use the shower, you kinda need to straddle the faucet on the bathtub, and letting the warm water pound on your clit!. It works fast for me :) Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you want to try masturbating, my favorite way is using a vibrater on my clit or using the shower!. To use the shower, you kinda need to straddle the faucet on the bathtub, and letting the warm water pound on your clit!. It works fast for me :) Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Buy a vibrator and diff sex toys and experiment with them, ALONE, in diff positions, different angles, playing with different spots, go through different fantasies in your mind, watch porn for ideas, stimulate yourself with the toys and fingers, basically learn your body, you're just not in tune with your sexual needs, you need to discover them, you're young, it takes time,experimenting alone gives you all the time you need by yourself, take your time, discover yourself, doing it alone means you also do it without expectation from anyone, if it takes you an hour to climax or more, so what, its YOUR time, learn what works for you and dont be discouraged if it takes a while to learn what makes you tick, its a process, have fun with itWww@Answer-Health@Com