Embarrasing question.Girls/Women only please :]?!


Question: Embarrasing question!.Girls/Women only please :]!?
Well I'm a virgin!.!.But I've done most things with my boyfriend!. I really want to move onto the next stage, and I'm really ready and everything, but I hear it hurts lots, and heard people saying it won't hurt if you break your hymen beforehand,,How Do you do that!? and do you recomend it!? Thanks!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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well honey, chances are if you use tampons then you will have broken it already!. so if you dont why not start!. however in saying that it may still hurt a bit, so the best idea to stop the pain is to use some sort of lubrication!. your nerves over your first time will cause you to dry up, whereas women are normally wet when they are entered this is natural lubrication so if there is a lot of friction and pain you are not lubricated enough!. try this also!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

1) While it is true that the hymen can become damaged by sports, horse-back riding and so on, it entirely depends on the individual hymen -- there are huge differences in how easily a hymen ruptures!.

2) I do not recommend to artificially damage the hymen before intercourse!. Manual defloration hurts exactly the same as sexual defloration!. There is no sense pain-wise in doing it beforehand!.

3) The pain of defloration varies drastically from girl to girl!. Most girl report only medium and short pain and it is nothing to really be scared about!.

4) Please think about this precious moment of loosing your virginity to someone you love and really want to have sex with!. It is a very special moment for the boy to be allowed to be your first partner and it is a very close feeling of you both to have sex the first time!. Why waste this moment!? Do not waste your physical virginity to manual defloration, but celebrate the moment with your partner!. You will probably remember this act for your whole life!.

5) If you actually want to deflower yourself manually, you need a thick object to penetrate yourself of at least the size of an erected penis!. Use a dildo, a vibrator or a thick candle covered in a condom!. However, I do not recommend to do so!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I thought being a counselor I would answer this question!. You should be mentally and physically prepared for the first sexual intercourse!. You should be sufficiently relaxed so that you do not have too tight vaginal muscles!. You should of course use contraception , but not condom first time unless your partner is used to it - Best would be pills!. You should also have a good lube like KY jelly!. Unless your hymen is too rigid no need to get it removed surgically or by any other means!. There could be little bleeding but not so much which will spoil your mood!. Also your partner will have to show lots of patience if he is not able to insert easily being first time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It doesn't mean that you personally go on a mission to "break" it beforehand!. If it is going to hurt during sex than it is likely that it will hurt before sex too!. Some women it doesn't hurt at all, but you aren't going to know that until it happens!. What some people mean about breaking it first is that they tore it when they inserted a tampon, from horseback riding or exercise, or from an injury (that's how mine broke, before I had sex)!. They don't mean that you break it on purpose first!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Have you ever waxed your own legs!? It hurts much less when someone else waxes them, and it's over a lot faster!. Same principle applies here!.

I don't recommend girls try to rupture their own hymens!. Many of them seem confused as to where it is located, and I know of at least one girl who tried as hard as she could to "break" her own cervix (which isn't supposed to be broken), thinking that must have been the barrier to sex that she'd heard about!. That hurt a hell of a lot more than sex would have!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

The main reason why it hurts is that something that size hasn't ever been there before!. The main thing is to relax and don't tense up!. Being your first time, even though you think your comfortable and ready, you will still get nervous when the time comes!. You have to relax!. I don't think that breaking your hymen has anything to do with it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well!.!.!. See if you've done basically everything else with your boyfriend it might be broken already!.!. i!.e!. with hands and stuff!.!.

Some people say it can break during sports but I think that's a kind of 'over-the-course-of-a-few-years-it-might!.!.!. kind of thing!.!.!.

People say as well that tampons can do it, but they're not really meant to!

Basically in all bluntness!.!. something has to be big enough to go in there and break it =PWww@Answer-Health@Com

In our western culture, a lot of girls will have already broken their hymen anyway, horse riding, using tampons etc!.
in any case make sure your dead turned on and wet or use a synthetic lube, KY jelly is good for use with condoms as not oil based (oil based weakens them) and take things slowly with a caring boyfriend who will take things at your pace!. and don't worry!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It can be a bit sore the first few times, it really depends on so many things!. My advice would be to make sure you are as relaxed as possible, as being tense down there will cause friction!. Also you need to be wet, so if you're having trouble getting turned on (maybe from nerves) it's a good idea to buy some lube!.!.!.!.it's not expensive!. If you're going to use a condom just make sure you don't use vaseline as lubricant!.
Just take it at your own pace, and don't be afraid to ask him to slow down or stop for a bit if you're not comfortable!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you have ever used a Tampax chances are you have already done it, if not it is nothing to worry about, your first time you bleed very slightly , make sure your boyfriend is very gentle with you and goes slow, use plenty of lube and you will be fine!.!.!. good luck and enjoy :O)Www@Answer-Health@Com

well my first time wasn't painful and i didnt bleed!. I was 17 at the time!. It might hurt if you are tense so best thing is to relax!. Also your hymen is already probably broken due to physical activity, using tampons etc!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well chances are if u use tampax or do sports such as horse ridin chances are its already broken, i wuddnt recomend tryin it u cud damage urself it dsnt hurt evryone were all different jus take it slow enjoy urself and tell ur partner 2 b gentle wiv u good luck n stay safe xWww@Answer-Health@Com

play lots of sports and do lots of physical activity, that usually does it


i know you wanted a woman but hey you got a decent answer =]Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you can stick 2 fingers in there your already gtg!. it could hurt (thats not always a given) because your body isnt used to it yet!.!. use lubricant !.!.!.because many times alot of the "pain" comes from frictionWww@Answer-Health@Com

Sport usually does it or use a tampon when your on your period!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

remember to relax!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

not recommended before marryWww@Answer-Health@Com





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