How can i boost my confidence?? ??!
Question: How can i boost my confidence!?!? ?!?
im 13!.!. female!.!. super self consious!!!my bffl is soooo skinny and is like evry boys dream!.!.next to her i feel fat and stupid!.!.i am 5 ft 7 in!. and aroung 125 lbs!.!.!.!. my boobs are average for my age and i have a kinda pretty face, but i sometimes feel like soo fat and ugly!!!i hate when a lot of people look at me (i hate being the center of attention) i hate even having to walk from my seat to the door in class fearing i might have something on my back, i look stupid from behind, my periods all over my pants, my hair is stupid!!its crazy!.!.!. how can i feel better about myself!?!?i have began by thinking that im a girl w/ curves !.!. not a maulnurished asian little boy! (i heard Whitney from ANTM sat that) i also read this book called Pretty Face and it was a girl age 16 in the same situation and her mom sent her to Italy and she meets this hot guy they hook up yada yada and she liked herslef! unfortunately im not going 2 Italy any time soon! so how can i be confident!?!?!?!? thx! ?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
The reason people are looking at you is because they think you are so beautiful!.
Your weight is perfect for your height!.!.!.!. if you were any thinner, it would be unhealthy!. You want to have babies some day!? Being underweight makes it just as hard to have babies as any other health condition!
When you are 13, that's the time your confidence is the lowest, so it will change over the next couple years!. When boys get THEIR confidence, and start talking to you and asking you out and you have to BEAT them off with a stick, you will find out!.
Don't get too down about yourself - you will out grow it!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your weight is perfect for your height!.!.!.!. if you were any thinner, it would be unhealthy!. You want to have babies some day!? Being underweight makes it just as hard to have babies as any other health condition!
When you are 13, that's the time your confidence is the lowest, so it will change over the next couple years!. When boys get THEIR confidence, and start talking to you and asking you out and you have to BEAT them off with a stick, you will find out!.
Don't get too down about yourself - you will out grow it!Www@Answer-Health@Com
i could completely relate to you!. I was very self conscious and very critical about myself!.
You could wear clothes you feel flatter your body, and make sure when you put those clothes on you feel like a supermodel!=]
Eat healthy, healthy foods=healthy skin, and a happiness boost(i know some people don't think that's true but it is)!.
And call yourself pretty!(not in a snobby way) ,the more you say I'm ugly the more you will think its true!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You could wear clothes you feel flatter your body, and make sure when you put those clothes on you feel like a supermodel!=]
Eat healthy, healthy foods=healthy skin, and a happiness boost(i know some people don't think that's true but it is)!.
And call yourself pretty!(not in a snobby way) ,the more you say I'm ugly the more you will think its true!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
don't try to change yourself and especially don't compare yourself to others like your bff!.!.!.i used to be just like you but you have to stop doing this to yourself!. you are who you are and nobody can change that!. you are different and thats the way you're meant to be!. don't let someone else down and more importantly don't let yourself down!Www@Answer-Health@Com
wow you're taller and lighter than me and i look fabulous, so i know you're gorgeuos!.!.!.i think evry day you should look in the mirror and say "i am pretty, i am beautiful, my body look fabulous, and any one who thinks otherwise is krazy!"
hey sounds corny, but it works!. I know because i used to have to do it!.!.!.!.:)Www@Answer-Health@Com
hey sounds corny, but it works!. I know because i used to have to do it!.!.!.!.:)Www@Answer-Health@Com
cry me a FKKN river!.!.!.125 pounds!.!.!.oh god :(
aren't there starving kids in africa that would love as much attention as you get!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
aren't there starving kids in africa that would love as much attention as you get!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
you should be happy youre one whole inch taller then me :( and youll probably get taller and youre probably pretty!. i wouldnt worry about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Wow, girly, being 125 lbs at 5'7" is actually perfect!. That is the average healthy size of an average woman!. You're not fat, and you're not stupid!. You're a young girl in junior high going through all sorts of chaotic changes!. You're already somewhat new to puberty, and most likely to the whole "dating" thing!. The key is to not care what people think about you; if you keep worrying about that, then you're never going to have enough confidence in yourself!. Dress cute, do your hair all nice, and go out there and not be so shy and self-conscious! All boys have different ideas of what "pretty" is!. There could be a girl that is the most popular and perfect, but there's boys that don't like that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com