How long does a girl feel pain from losing her virginity?!


Question: How long does a girl feel pain from losing her virginity!?
My girlfriend wants to go for it but I can't even use 1 finger without hurting her so I know it's going to be painful for her!.

What should she expect!? What should I expect!? How much is it going to hurt her on a scale of 1-10!? And for how long!?

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Try some lubrication and go slow!. It doesn't matter how wet she is!. Astroglide is a good one!. Another can be simple K-Y Jelly!. I know that the dr's use K-Y during exams and it makes for an easier exam!.

We used some lubricant and that helped a lot!. Go slow with her and allow her to stretch inside!. You may feel some stretching inside and it will all of a sudden relax and you should be patient!.

As far as pain, It was more of a stretching type discomfort and I would say "ow" and he would stop for a few seconds to let me stretch inside but everyone is different!. The slower you go with lubrication the better!. If you think you want to get it over fast by thinking it will help the pain I doubt it!. I do remember intercourse was still uncomfortable till about the fourth time when it didn't hurt!. We still went slow each time!. The vagina has to allow for stretching!. Also if she has a pillow to put underneath her hips that may help with preventing more pain (I read about that in a Dr!. Ruth book)!. Try putting on some slow music and tell her to let you know if at any time she feels uncomfortable!. Just because she is uncomfortable during the insertion doesn't mean you have to withdrawl!. Just stay still and let her stretch inside (if she's nervous she may tighten up so have some "bedside manner" or be sympathetic to her needs) and then she may say she's o!.k!. and then you can go in further!.

I'm not sure about two fingers though!. Even today after I've had three kids with him, I still can't feel comfortable if he even attempts to use more than one finger inside me!. I think it may have to do with the width of two fingers but I'm not sure!.

Don't forget to make sure she's protected or that you use protection!. Pregnancy is on every girls mind and she may worry the entire month if she's pregnant!. Hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I remember my first time!. Man did it hurt! What you need to do is keep using those fingers!. When you can get at least 2 in without her screaming in pain, thats when you know its good to go!.

Make sure you dont go in all the way fast, go slow and watch her reations on her face!. If you think its hurting her stop and ask if she still wants for you to keep going!. After you've both done it for the first time, the second time might still hurt a bit!. Once you've done it more then four times, it gets better!. Just make sure you are not taking control of her and doing it without thinking how she feels!. Take it slow lol!.

Hope this helped!. OH, and use PROTECTION! Birth Control pills and a condom!

P!.S!. nine out of ten and it's gonna hurt for about a week or so!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ok to be honest its gonna make her say stop, or cry, or even scream and swear alot as u push into her trying to break the hymen (cherry), then after it breaks u should pull what ever u stuck inside of her back out cus then comes the blood lots of it so much of it u should prolly send her to the bathroom to tend to it,!.!.!. and wait a day or two then try and loosen her up again which will also hurt her then,!.!.!.!.!. by the third try it will twinge a bit for her but she wont feel a ton of pain anymoreWww@Answer-Health@Com

for each girl it is a little different!.

i knew a girl who had been masturbating with toys for a while before she started having sex, so when she lost her virginity, it didnt hurt her at all!.

More me at least, it hurt a bit at first, but my lover was slow and gentle so it didnt hurt for very long, in fact it started feeling good very soon, maybe a few minutes!.

After sex though, it will hurt for anywhere from 1 day to a week depending on how long you guys have sex and how hard!. I would recommed going by what she says!. If she is feeling good and up to more after the first session, keep going until she tells you to stop, but let her know it is ok to tell you to stop! that is very important as a lot of girls will not say to stop even if it is hurting her!.

just remember to be gentle unless she tells you otherwise and foreplay foreplay foreplay!. Make sure she is good and ready!.

Hint: you might want to buy some sheets or have some on hand as there may be blood!. dark maroon, dark blue, or black usually works well!.

Make it special!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well first of all it depends how big you are!.!.!. down there!.
When i lost my virginity, i was fourteen, and the whole time it hurt so bad, i felt like crying!. I had no idea why people actually did this for!.!.!. fun when it was so damn uncomfortable!.

You can't have an absolute number, because for every girl it's different!. I couldn't even fit a large tampon up there without screaming!.

So!. wow!. i gave you a little too much information, but whatever!. I hope you get what I'm trying to say!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Why don't u gently rub her vagina lips to make her feel horny and then slowly put Ur finger in and touch the G spot and look at her face and see if her face looks as if shes having it good then start to hover your finger around!.!.!.!.!.
good luck
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lemme know when you find out cuz i'd like to know too!.
my bf can't use one finger with out it hurting either!.
but he has big fingers lol!.
and hey do you live in blacksburg or near it!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Foreplay is the key!. If not use lubrication like KY jelly!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

on a scale of a 10!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hokies blow :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

two plus two equals fiveWww@Answer-Health@Com





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