How can I turn myself "on"?!
Question: How can I turn myself "on"!?
So I was reading online somewhere that masturbation is good for you if you have troubles sleeping!. I have NEVER masturbated before!. And how do you make yoruself "turn on", because I don't know how!. (I'm 14)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
You're too young to know what turns you on!. You will have to learn as you go!. Eventually you will discover what it is that turns you on!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
14 is really not a young age to start thinking about sex or masturbating!. Some people start masturbating earlier, at 12 or 13!. It depends really on how comfortable you are with it!. I personally think masturbating allows you to get over some inital 'sex nerves' so your first time having intercourse is less troublesome!. It helps you know what you like, so there's a lot of benefits, including that it makes you tired!.
Some people just start experimentally, feel a bit anxious with themselves at first but get used to it!. It gets easier the more you try!. By masturbation, what kind do you mean!? There's 'fingering' and then clitoral stimulation!. But different people enjoy different things, so you have to find out that bit for yourself and try doing a bit more research!.
This probably won't help you sleep, but try fantasies if you want to get turned on!.
Masturbation isn't usually what makes people tired, but the orgasm!. It gets easier and quicker to reach an orgasm the more you try, and so if you want to fall asleep earlier its helpful!.
Sometimes, feeling 'turned on' isn't mega!. Sometimes you just feel generally in the mood but not extremely aroused!.
If your having trouble sleeping, there are different methods you can try if masturbation isn't for you!. Try reading lying down in dim light!. Or try staying up really late and getting up really early for a while!. Or exercise in the evening!. TV before bed doesn't aid sleep because it doesn't tax the mind, but by watching TV in the dark you can become sleepier!.
Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Some people just start experimentally, feel a bit anxious with themselves at first but get used to it!. It gets easier the more you try!. By masturbation, what kind do you mean!? There's 'fingering' and then clitoral stimulation!. But different people enjoy different things, so you have to find out that bit for yourself and try doing a bit more research!.
This probably won't help you sleep, but try fantasies if you want to get turned on!.
Masturbation isn't usually what makes people tired, but the orgasm!. It gets easier and quicker to reach an orgasm the more you try, and so if you want to fall asleep earlier its helpful!.
Sometimes, feeling 'turned on' isn't mega!. Sometimes you just feel generally in the mood but not extremely aroused!.
If your having trouble sleeping, there are different methods you can try if masturbation isn't for you!. Try reading lying down in dim light!. Or try staying up really late and getting up really early for a while!. Or exercise in the evening!. TV before bed doesn't aid sleep because it doesn't tax the mind, but by watching TV in the dark you can become sleepier!.
Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
That's a slippery slope 14 seems so young to be thinking about how to turn yourself on however touching yourself is SO MUCH BETTER than having sex to young which you are WAAY to young to be having sex!. This is also a bad venue for this question there are allot of perverts online and you need to be smarter about online predators!. Keep your innocence while you can stop thinking about sex turn off the computer and read a book or enroll yourself in sports or dance something!.!.!.!.!.anything!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Eh, don't worry about sexuality at your age!.!.!.I mean, there's nothing wrong with it!.!.!.but don't try to force yourself to have those feelings if you don't naturally have them right now!. Being turned on is just something that happens when you see something you're sexually attracted to!.
Some people are just more sexual than others!. I personally don't get turned on by much, and there's no helping it!. I can't try to get more turned on, it either happens or it doesn't!. My wife can't either!. Though generally someone would think sexual thoughts or view sexual images that they find attractive to be turned on!.!.!.but if you don't know how to be turned on I doubt your the type of person right now who would be turned on by that stuff!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Some people are just more sexual than others!. I personally don't get turned on by much, and there's no helping it!. I can't try to get more turned on, it either happens or it doesn't!. My wife can't either!. Though generally someone would think sexual thoughts or view sexual images that they find attractive to be turned on!.!.!.but if you don't know how to be turned on I doubt your the type of person right now who would be turned on by that stuff!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It comes naturally!. There is no need to force it!. Some start young, some later!. Some do it all the time, some hardly ever do it!. Some really enjoy it, some don't really get into it!.
Everyone is different!. Following advice on here about something that personal will not likely give you the result you want!.
EDIT: Maybe masturbation just isn't for you!. Not everyone enjoys it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Everyone is different!. Following advice on here about something that personal will not likely give you the result you want!.
EDIT: Maybe masturbation just isn't for you!. Not everyone enjoys it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Child, you shouldn't be thinking about sex at this age!. You r too young!. But if you must, think of something that makes you feel naughty!. It might not be the most orthodox thing, but sometimes that's what's in your deepest fantacy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Uhmm,If you dont like no one you cant be turned on,unless you turn YOU on,(LOL) Just think about someone you like ,i mean if you dont like no one in a sexually Mode then your not a normal girl!.,sorrryWww@Answer-Health@Com
im 14 too!!!! ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;);) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;);) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;);) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;);) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;);) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;);) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;)Www@Answer-Health@Com
just flick the on switchWww@Answer-Health@Com
Ask your friends at school, or maybe an older sister, or female cousin!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well if you have to ask i dont think its all that appropriate for you at the momentWww@Answer-Health@Com
i'm not sure!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
wow your name must be corinneWww@Answer-Health@Com
you dont have to be tunred on to masturbate,Www@Answer-Health@Com
that's lovely, thanks for sharing!. :(Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's perfectly natural to find touching yourself gross, awkward, and not arousing!. Don't worry about it!. One day you'll figure it out, till then take tylonol pm =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
stop it- you're 14! omg! girls these days!!!
and why does everyone always believe it when doctors say masterbation is good!?! they're not always right!. they just assume that because they're whores!.lol!!! wtf!?!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
and why does everyone always believe it when doctors say masterbation is good!?! they're not always right!. they just assume that because they're whores!.lol!!! wtf!?!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com