Orgasm help?!
Question: Orgasm help!?
Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and we have really great sex, only i havent been able to orgasm!.!.!.ever!. I know everyone says masturbate, but Ive tried that many times and that doesnt work!. When he performs oral on me, that doesnt work!. I get really close it seems like during intercourse but I can just never cross the finish line!. Sometimes i get leg cramps, other times the feeling just goes away!. Its really starting to effect our relationship bc he feels inadequate and I feel like Im a total freak!. Any tips!? Advice!? Anything please!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Try not to think it over it too much!.!.!.!.sometimes it's just you want it to happen so bad and you try so hard that you can't let anything else enter your mind!.!.!.!.I mean it's set on I HAVE to reach an orgasm!.!.!.well your body and mind are connected, so try to relax and just go with it for now!.!.!.!.!.Talk with your boyfriend and assure him he is fine!.!.!.!.!.You are not a freak at all!.!.!.!.!.many women have this problem!.!.!.!.!.Repeat!.!.!.!.you are not a freak!.!.!.!.!.!.It'll happen one day!.!.!.!.!.relax and try not to have one!.!.!.!.!.!.!?!? Maybe then you will!.!.!.!.!.!?!? Just a suggestion!.!.!.!.Take care!.!.!.
An afterthought!.!.!.!.!.!.!.I am glad you are not pretending and faking it!.!.!.!.!.I have many times and it's not good for the relationship!.!.!.!.!.also guys sometimes want you to reach a climax so bad as it makes them feel they are good!.!.!.!.!.extra pressue for you!.!.!.!.!.don't fake it!.!.!.!.!.!.I'm sorry I did, but I thought I was not a woman for not being able to reach the stars!.!.!.!.!.you are not alone!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
An afterthought!.!.!.!.!.!.!.I am glad you are not pretending and faking it!.!.!.!.!.I have many times and it's not good for the relationship!.!.!.!.!.also guys sometimes want you to reach a climax so bad as it makes them feel they are good!.!.!.!.!.extra pressue for you!.!.!.!.!.don't fake it!.!.!.!.!.!.I'm sorry I did, but I thought I was not a woman for not being able to reach the stars!.!.!.!.!.you are not alone!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are psychin yourself out!. I've been with my boyfriend for two years and my orgasms haven't always been there but he is the first guy that i have ever orgasmed with!. It's a huge trust thing and that's not to say that you don't trust your man!. I know what your going through my boyfriend hassled me about my lack of orgasm and it just comes down to RELAXING and knowing what feels good to you!. For me the easiest way to get there is being on top that allows for you to be in control of the rhythm and friction your clit will hit the base of his penis and all the friction and rubbing that allows is gonna make it that much easier!. It's not the penetration while it does feel great that's not really what gets a woman an orgasm!. Men don't understand this because for them it is the penetration!. Basically just talk to him let him know it's not about him and refocus his energy insted of flapping his gums do something to help you like oral sex!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Talk to him tell him how you feel!. He will understand and wont feel inadequtate if you eplain to him why you are not able to orgasm and that is has nothing to do with him!. Mabye go to a sex therapist!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Honestly I would just relax put on some sexy music and hit myself with a plug in dildo!. You will definitively orgasm then, and if you don't then it is time to go see your gynecologist!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
lots of people cant cause they r stressed, just relaxWww@Answer-Health@Com
heya can u share with me as well too please!. i have the same problemWww@Answer-Health@Com