Is it just borderline?!
Question: Is it just borderline!?
i have a serious issue the more people do like me or dont want anything to do with me the more i try to get them to like me its like i come obsessed like if we are friends and then we fight even if its not completely my fault i feel i need to fix it like i have a aunt i used to live with she cant deal with people with mental health issues and she kick me out when i started having symptoms and she idnt want to talk to me so i kept calling her sometimes i would say nice things and some times not then months later i stoped and we talk now but if she talks to me or not now i could care less and most resently my boss/co - worker didnt ike me but i really didnt no why but i can get it out of my mind i having contacted her yet but i kep thinking about what i would say if i emailed her bc i had quit do to illness and i think that if the dr said i was dying what would i say to her in the email !. so my question is is this bpd or is it something else and what to i do to fix itWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
http://www!.nimh!.nih!.gov/health/publicati!.!.!. is 1 source you may want to check out!.
if you have a psychiatrist, which i'm guessing you *do* have since you *know* you're BPD, ask them!. if you don't, well then seek 1 and ask to be sure!.
to me it sounds as though you have an inappropriate way of dealing with rejection!. some higher functioning autistics sometimes "over try" to get, keep, & regain friends, thus actually *losing* them in the end because they become overbearing!. so *in that way* it is inappropriate!. i'm sure you've driven or *can* drive away people by being too "in your face" about being overly nice, calling a lot/too much, etc!.
and i'm sure you don't want to distruct your relationships!.
from what that site says, it sort of does sound like the BPD talkin', but you never know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
if you have a psychiatrist, which i'm guessing you *do* have since you *know* you're BPD, ask them!. if you don't, well then seek 1 and ask to be sure!.
to me it sounds as though you have an inappropriate way of dealing with rejection!. some higher functioning autistics sometimes "over try" to get, keep, & regain friends, thus actually *losing* them in the end because they become overbearing!. so *in that way* it is inappropriate!. i'm sure you've driven or *can* drive away people by being too "in your face" about being overly nice, calling a lot/too much, etc!.
and i'm sure you don't want to distruct your relationships!.
from what that site says, it sort of does sound like the BPD talkin', but you never know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sometimes ALL you can do is give it some time!.!.
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i dont understand your question!. i cant make up a story on how your aunt will react!.Www@Answer-Health@Com