Why do they talk about it?!


Question: Why do they talk about it!?
Ok so I'm 14 and don't have my period yet but all of my friends have theirs!. All of them know I don't have it, and I think they all know that I feel really left out, but about four of them talk about it in front of me ALL THE TIME!. One of them has even made a joke about me not having my period!. And I've told them that I feel left out! But they still talk about their experiences and stuff, making me feel like even less of a woman!. Why do they talk about it even though they know that it's a touchy subject for me!? Thanks!Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Not having your period at 14 is nothing to be ashamed of!. My step sister's half sister didn't have her first period until she was almost 16!. There are some women who don't start until they're in their 20s!. Your friends simply talk about it because it is something to talk about!. I don't think that they would purposefully try to talk about something purely to leave you out of it!. If you think they would, then they really shouldn't be your friends anyways!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sometimes they don't consider you or your feelings at all!. The girls who have their periods don't really care about you and don't constantly need to care that you don't have your period yet!. If you feel really insecure, ignore it or let it go sometimes!. Some day, your period will come!.!.!.just be patient!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you are 14 it will come they are jerks ignore them when it come you willl wish ot had not!. i never wished for my period until i started having sex and the condom broke and didnt no about plan b then i waited 4 it but all u need a period for is when its time to have babies trust me the talk about the period pms will get old quickWww@Answer-Health@Com

Enjoy not having a period yet!
they're all probably jealous that
you don't have yours yet!. It's no
fun, trust me!
You get cramps, and leaks, and
when you first get your period
it can take awhile to get used
to!.
Having a period sucks!. lol
Seriously!.!.!.
Don't rush it, it will happen
when it happens :D

Good luck and have a good night!.
?CrystalWww@Answer-Health@Com

Teenage girls can be so mean! So glad I'm (far) past that!. It's not like you won't get it eventually, although I certainly wouldn't be wishing for it!. You'll be stuck with it soon enough!. There is definitely no pleasure in having it!.

I wish my students would understand that everyone is different in so many ways!. They can be cruel to those who are not just like them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

The best thing for you to do is to act like it doesn't bother you!.!.!.!.!.and it shouldn't!. I could name several reasons why I would NOT want to have my periods!.!.!.!.!.cramps, headaches, moods swings!.!.!.!.inconveniences!. You will start sooner or later and will have possibly 30 years or more to experience "woman hood" if that's what you feel makes you a woman!. Your reaction to them is their power over you!. I can almost guarantee that there is someone in that group that would want to be in your shoes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

dont fell bad!.!.!.becuz once i get it!.!.!.trust me!.!.!.ur period will get on ur nerves from that point on!.!.!.so u should be very happy u dont have one yet!.!.becuz once u get older and u want to do something!.!.like go to ur boyfriends house or go swimmin or have sex!.!.!.u wont do it becuz ur period will get in the way!.!.!.so be happy!.!.!.becuz sometimes i wish i was in your shoes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

They are inconsiderate to make a joke!. It's not like you have control over when you get your period or not!. Shame on them!.

Regarding your period, you will get it eventually!. My friend was 16 when she got hers and I remember she was so worried about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

thats rude!. next time they do make fun of you just name reasons why you dont want it!. and trust me, being on ur period is a curse!. you will HATE it!. so ur pretty lucky!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

because 14 year old girls are for the most part terrible little creatures who feed on others insecuritites!. just really make them think that it doesnt bother you and theyll get bored and move on!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

dont wrry, peroids happen to girls at differnt times, for u, ur a late bloomer i guess, just come up with a reply everytime they go for uWww@Answer-Health@Com

Thats mean!.!.!.
they need to understand that you are a little bit later!.!.!.!.
it will probley come soon for you and you can talk about it then witht them=]Www@Answer-Health@Com





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