Should i have sex at 14??!
Question: Should i have sex at 14!?!?
ok im only 14 and i want to have sex but i dont want to because im to young! but im to scared to have sex because what if i get pregnant and my mom will kill me! i know you are soppose to use a condom but what if it breaks!!? all my friends are doing it and they are not pregnant and they tell me just do it and i want to do it cuz i want to not because they say u should but i know im 2 young and i promised myself i wouldnt do that till im out of college! and the boy i want to do it with is experienced so he knows what he is doing but i dont know so should i do it or no and i need a really good answer because im really gullible! !.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
No, you shouldn't!. I want sex A LOT, but I resist temptation becuase I know how WRONG it would be!. Think about what happens when you have a baby!. You have to spend around $10,000 each year with a baby! Plus, you won't be able to sleep at night because the baby cries ALL THE TIME, and if you don't take care of your baby, he'll/she'll be taken away from you!. And what about going to college!? And what about work!? Just don't have sex at this age!!! And think about how AKWARD it will be when you HAVE to tell your PARENTS!. REALLY AKKKKWARD!.
Here's something else that could go wrong: you could get an STD, crabs, or some kind of infection!!!
Another thing: whenever you get married to SOME OTHER GUY, and if he asks if you're a virgin, it will be kind of weird to tell him that you had sex with another guy!.
And here's one more thing: If you believe in God, then you should know this will be commiting 3 sins;
1!.) Obey your father and mother (I'm pretty sure if you ask your mom if you can have sex, she'll say "no!") And this is on the TEN COMMANDMENTS
2!.) Don't break the law (this isn't one of the ten commandents, but I remember somewhere reading in the Bible, that you are still supposed to follow man's law!.!.!.meaning human laws!.) And UNDERAGE SEX is against the law!.
3!.) You'll be commiting ADULTREY (which is one of the Ten Commandments!)
I bet you ANYTHING, that the guy you'll have sex with, will NOT be with you in 2 years!. BELIEVE ME!.
Oh and by the way, your parents could charge the other boy with sexual assault or rape!.
I hope you make the right decision!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Here's something else that could go wrong: you could get an STD, crabs, or some kind of infection!!!
Another thing: whenever you get married to SOME OTHER GUY, and if he asks if you're a virgin, it will be kind of weird to tell him that you had sex with another guy!.
And here's one more thing: If you believe in God, then you should know this will be commiting 3 sins;
1!.) Obey your father and mother (I'm pretty sure if you ask your mom if you can have sex, she'll say "no!") And this is on the TEN COMMANDMENTS
2!.) Don't break the law (this isn't one of the ten commandents, but I remember somewhere reading in the Bible, that you are still supposed to follow man's law!.!.!.meaning human laws!.) And UNDERAGE SEX is against the law!.
3!.) You'll be commiting ADULTREY (which is one of the Ten Commandments!)
I bet you ANYTHING, that the guy you'll have sex with, will NOT be with you in 2 years!. BELIEVE ME!.
Oh and by the way, your parents could charge the other boy with sexual assault or rape!.
I hope you make the right decision!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well first off, you shouldwait till you have sex till you get a lo older, and you should have sex with a person you truely love, having emotional ties, a lot of common things tht you guys share together, and other reasons!.
its sounds to me like this guy just want to have sex with a gullible girl like you!.
you should really wait and listen to your mom!. if you have sex, it will open many other doors to other dangerous and life threatening activities!.
i hope that you take the following into consderation, and you wait till you get older to have sex with your special someone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
its sounds to me like this guy just want to have sex with a gullible girl like you!.
you should really wait and listen to your mom!. if you have sex, it will open many other doors to other dangerous and life threatening activities!.
i hope that you take the following into consderation, and you wait till you get older to have sex with your special someone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
OMG!!! you are only 14 don't rush your self you have time, your first time should be with someone you love and trust plus don't judge yourself by what everyone else is doing!. If all your friends were stealing money or killing people would you do that , I hope not !. You should wait until you are old enough to deal with the responsibility of sex!. Its not as magical as you think your first time will hurt and your not done developing so the pain will be there for a while!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you think your ready for sex then maybe you should start having sex, but make sure you lose your virginity to a guy you love!.!.!.!.that will be the best choice anyone could ever make !.!.!.!.!.dont do it cuz your friends are doing it!.!.!.!. i regret losing my virginity to a guy i thought i liked alot!.!.!.!.!.and now i regret every second of it!.!.!.i actually wish i would have lost my virginity to my present boyfriend right now!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.something you might want to think about and wait for!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.wait for the right moment and time!.!.it will come 2 you!.!.!.and their are many risk to haveing sex, but use a condom and just do it if you want 2!.!.!. you most likly wont get pregnant
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Don't do it! Wait until you're in a stable and mature relationship!. I waited until I was 21 and honestly I wish that I would have waited until I was married! My husband deserved my virginity!.!.!.not the jerk that I gave it to when I was younger and stupid!.
14 is such a fun age, and it will be over before you know it!. Just have fun being a kid! Sex is serious and there are all kinds of consequences that go along with it!. Instead of worrying about getting pregnant or getting an STD!.!.!.worry about doing well in school and being a good kid!. Your childhood will be over before you know it and then you'll be an adult and if you want to have sex then, you'll be more emotionally equipped to handle the consequences!.
Please wait!. There are so many people out there (myself included) that are sorry that they didn't!. But you never, ever hear anyone say that they're sorry they didn't have sex sooner!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
14 is such a fun age, and it will be over before you know it!. Just have fun being a kid! Sex is serious and there are all kinds of consequences that go along with it!. Instead of worrying about getting pregnant or getting an STD!.!.!.worry about doing well in school and being a good kid!. Your childhood will be over before you know it and then you'll be an adult and if you want to have sex then, you'll be more emotionally equipped to handle the consequences!.
Please wait!. There are so many people out there (myself included) that are sorry that they didn't!. But you never, ever hear anyone say that they're sorry they didn't have sex sooner!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't be a sheep and follow the crowd, you start doing it when you're ready, not when your friends are ! Do you even have a boyfriend or anything !?! No point in doing it with anyone you don't really know that well!. There's STDs and all sorts going round!. And just cos your friends haven't got pregnant doesn't mean you won't!.!.!.
I think - that as you're having to ask this question - you're not ready and obviously none of us can tell you what to do, but if I were you I wouldn't be doing it yet!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think - that as you're having to ask this question - you're not ready and obviously none of us can tell you what to do, but if I were you I wouldn't be doing it yet!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You should definitely wait until you are older!. Trust me on this, you will regret it!. You will fell bad about yourself, and how will others view you!? So what if all your friends are doing it!. If they are pressuring you then they are not your friends!. Trust your instincts and wait!. You will be glad you did!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
dear!.!. you answered the questions several times yourself!.!. DON'T have sex!.!. unwanted babies, your mother killing you,, your not out of school or finished school, NO income!. is that enough reason !? Unprotected sex can lead to diseases and alot of unplanned problems!. DON'T rely on your boyfriends supposed knowledge!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It is your body, so no one but yourself can make this decision!.
Just because your friends are doing something, doesn't mean you should do it also!.
What if you do get pregnant!? Keep the baby!? or give it away!? The decision is life altering!. A 14 year old should not have to make a decision like that!.
Be smart about it, and do what is best for you!. MY only advice is to think of the future!. Will you look back on this moment and regret what you did!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just because your friends are doing something, doesn't mean you should do it also!.
What if you do get pregnant!? Keep the baby!? or give it away!? The decision is life altering!. A 14 year old should not have to make a decision like that!.
Be smart about it, and do what is best for you!. MY only advice is to think of the future!. Will you look back on this moment and regret what you did!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
It doesn't sound to me like you are ready!. You are feeling pressured because all your friends are doing it, which is quite disturbing to say the least!. Don't do it, it doesn't sound like you really want to anyway!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
it sounds liek you dont want to like read what you wrote!.!.to me it sounds like your not wanting to that you only want to because of peer preasure!. and i agree w ith the first person you will probably regret it!. i wouldnt know!.
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you would reget it!. you shouldnt be a follower you should be a leader!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't have sex!. Sex causes problems!. Sex makes babies!. And sex=emotions for women!. I'd say wait until you find someone you love later in life!.!.!.and just enjoy being as pure as you are!Www@Answer-Health@Com
sometimes its hard to tell when people are serious or not in their posts!.
If you are being serious then re-read your question and I think you will know the answer!. (sigh)Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you are being serious then re-read your question and I think you will know the answer!. (sigh)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please don't do it!.
I got pregnant at 14 and it was not a happy thing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I got pregnant at 14 and it was not a happy thing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you will regret itWww@Answer-Health@Com
i am 14 and i have,but it is ur body so do wat u want toWww@Answer-Health@Com
dont do it!.!.!. wait till YOUR ready !.!.dnt just do what everyone is telling youWww@Answer-Health@Com
just make sure u are super ready and are safe about itWww@Answer-Health@Com
Okay when i first has sex i was 13yr old and Yes ur suppose to use protection but dont you want to have sex with that one speacil guy, not just this one, cause there are so many out there that is willing to wait, plus most guy dont want a girl thats been with that many ppl unless u lye, or whatever, BUt i can say i look back now and wish i never did what i did, i used protection and got prego b/c it broke and the guy was more experienced, but wanted a baby i didnt know that, so ya, but then had a misscarriage, just b/c ur friends are doing it doesnt mean u need to thats just like saying okay ur friend is jummping off a clif u going to join them!? well aparently not!. unless ur dumb!. So sex is not just a game, and when ur that young and having sex ur called a slut a whore etc!.!. im sure ur not but thats is what i have gotten told about me and others!. do u want an std!? do u want a baby!? do you want to wait for that one preious guy out there for you!? Do u want to always have to worry!? If i was u i wouldnt but ur still a young girl and still going to do what u want rather any one tell u what they think!. We older girl will tell ya we've been there and done that guys are only out for one thing only at that age!. is it really worth ur time!? ur the only one who can make those dessions for ur self!. Good luck wana talk just Im Me @ kristyerin1988 on yahoo messenger!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Damnit! I'm not the first one to answer "You'll regret it"!.!.!.
I mean seriously you're gonna regret it for losing it at very young age!. Your friends have done it and encouraging you to do it!? Okay most teen girls, no I mean MOST teen girls that have sex between 13-16 definately and totally regret they lose their virginity!. This is a fact actually and when they encouraging their virgin friends this is because they actually envy their virgin friends for!.!.you know STILL being virgin!.
Don't do it at 14 because at this age I know your body is not fully developed and the guy that you have sex is not worth it!. I mean hey when you're 20 I'm sure you are fully developed and you'll meet some hotter guy and where's this first guy that successfully took your virginity!? The guy would probably think "yeah I took her virginity" proudly to his friends when you go out with some other guys!.Unless you know that you'll end up with him in the future, but I highly doubt it because you're only 14 and not mature enough to think about the future!.
DON'T DO IT!.!.!.!.YOU'LL REGRET IT!.!.!.WAIT, WAIT, WAIT and WAIT!.!.!.!.for the right guys and for the right time!. Which is 5 years from now when you already in college!. Good luck in your study and hopefully you'll be in college still being a virgin! There'll be more guy (and matured) to choose from when you're in college!.!.heheWww@Answer-Health@Com
I mean seriously you're gonna regret it for losing it at very young age!. Your friends have done it and encouraging you to do it!? Okay most teen girls, no I mean MOST teen girls that have sex between 13-16 definately and totally regret they lose their virginity!. This is a fact actually and when they encouraging their virgin friends this is because they actually envy their virgin friends for!.!.you know STILL being virgin!.
Don't do it at 14 because at this age I know your body is not fully developed and the guy that you have sex is not worth it!. I mean hey when you're 20 I'm sure you are fully developed and you'll meet some hotter guy and where's this first guy that successfully took your virginity!? The guy would probably think "yeah I took her virginity" proudly to his friends when you go out with some other guys!.Unless you know that you'll end up with him in the future, but I highly doubt it because you're only 14 and not mature enough to think about the future!.
DON'T DO IT!.!.!.!.YOU'LL REGRET IT!.!.!.WAIT, WAIT, WAIT and WAIT!.!.!.!.for the right guys and for the right time!. Which is 5 years from now when you already in college!. Good luck in your study and hopefully you'll be in college still being a virgin! There'll be more guy (and matured) to choose from when you're in college!.!.heheWww@Answer-Health@Com
It's your body and your life!.!.!.!.not a good thing to listen to friends about without finding out all the info for yourself!. Condoms by themself are not very reliable!.!.!.it's better to have a prescription for birth control pills and to take those regularly!. But if you chose to not have sex right now, then you shoudl try to stick to that and do things like masturbate instead on your own (as in hump a pillow or something)!.!.!.which is instead of having sex with a guy!. Don't let the guy pressure you into it!.!.!.!.sex is an adult thing and whatever age you are when you start doing it!.!.!.!.it's alot of think about and a very serious and real thing to do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Having sex for the first time
There can be lot of pressure to lose your virginity - that is, to have sexual intercourse for the first time!. Having sex with someone just because you want to lose your virginity, or because you think all your friends are doing it, is something you may regret later!.
You might feel lots of anxieties, especially the first time you 'go all the way' - have sex!. You may feel embarrassed about how you look without your clothes on, or worried about your privacy being disturbed!. It's natural to feel some worries but good communication will really help to prevent you feeling embarrassed or worried!. You should be able to talk to your partner about how you feel about having sex for the first time, and about any concerns you may have!. Your partner might be worried, too!. Being relaxed and able to share things with your partner will really ease the tension!. And if you're too shy, or you're not able to talk about these things with your partner - then you probably shouldn't be having sex!
Having sexual intercourse - when a boy's hard penis goes inside a girl's vagina, or even just touches the outside of her vagina - is what leads to pregnancy!. So, before having sexual intercourse you should think about whether you need to use contraception to prevent unwanted pregnancy, and condom to prevent Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs)!.
Can a girl become pregnant the first time she has sexual intercourse!?
Yes, a girl can become pregnant the first time she has sexual intercourse!. So, you must use contraception the first time you have sexual intercourse, if you don't want to risk becoming a parent!.
Sex and love
For some people sexual feelings are bound up with love and close relationships!. Some people think sex should only happen within marriage!. For some people sex and love are two different things!.
What is important is that you feel good about yourself and what you are doing, and that you keep yourself safe!. Being safe means not only thinking about physical risks such as pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)!. But also emotional risk such as the regret you may feel afterwards!.
When are you ready for sex!?
There is no absolute right age to start having sex!. What matters is whether it is the right time for you!. It also depends on what you mean by 'having sex'!. There are many ways in which you can give and receive sexual pleasure without having sexual intercourse!.
Giving each other massages, kissing and hugging can be very passionate!. It's a way of sharing and showing love!. For some people these activities can be more fulfilling than sexual intercourse!.
You get pressure from people talking about sex!. You think, 'I've got to go and see what it's like'!. It's hard, but you've got to resist and do what you want!.
It's very important not to feel pressurized into having sex when you don't really want to!. Just because your friends say they are 'doing it' doesn't mean they are!.
Thinking through all the implications of having sex can be a useful way of helping you arrive at a decision!. There are lots of reasons why people don't want to have sex!. You may feel that you are not ready emotionally!. Being pushed into having sex could mean you regret it later on!. Some people have quite strong religious or cultural beliefs!. Others just want to wait!.
Some people call this decision to wait 'abstinence'!. The decision to abstain from having sex can be either a long-term decision or a short-term one!. Some people decide that they do not want to start having sex until they are married or in a significant long-term relationship!. Other people may decide that having sex isn't the right thing for them at this particular time!. Later on they may meet a person who they want and feel ready to have sex with!. The decision whether to have sex or not is an important one!. You should do what is right for you!. It should be an informed decision, and not one based on fear or pressure from others!.
But when a boy and girl do decide they want to have sexual intercourse, they should think about using a contraceptive unless they want to become parents!. Condoms can help stop infections like HIV as well as reducing the risk of getting pregnant!.
Read more in http://www!.menstrual-cycle!.info
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There can be lot of pressure to lose your virginity - that is, to have sexual intercourse for the first time!. Having sex with someone just because you want to lose your virginity, or because you think all your friends are doing it, is something you may regret later!.
You might feel lots of anxieties, especially the first time you 'go all the way' - have sex!. You may feel embarrassed about how you look without your clothes on, or worried about your privacy being disturbed!. It's natural to feel some worries but good communication will really help to prevent you feeling embarrassed or worried!. You should be able to talk to your partner about how you feel about having sex for the first time, and about any concerns you may have!. Your partner might be worried, too!. Being relaxed and able to share things with your partner will really ease the tension!. And if you're too shy, or you're not able to talk about these things with your partner - then you probably shouldn't be having sex!
Having sexual intercourse - when a boy's hard penis goes inside a girl's vagina, or even just touches the outside of her vagina - is what leads to pregnancy!. So, before having sexual intercourse you should think about whether you need to use contraception to prevent unwanted pregnancy, and condom to prevent Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs)!.
Can a girl become pregnant the first time she has sexual intercourse!?
Yes, a girl can become pregnant the first time she has sexual intercourse!. So, you must use contraception the first time you have sexual intercourse, if you don't want to risk becoming a parent!.
Sex and love
For some people sexual feelings are bound up with love and close relationships!. Some people think sex should only happen within marriage!. For some people sex and love are two different things!.
What is important is that you feel good about yourself and what you are doing, and that you keep yourself safe!. Being safe means not only thinking about physical risks such as pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)!. But also emotional risk such as the regret you may feel afterwards!.
When are you ready for sex!?
There is no absolute right age to start having sex!. What matters is whether it is the right time for you!. It also depends on what you mean by 'having sex'!. There are many ways in which you can give and receive sexual pleasure without having sexual intercourse!.
Giving each other massages, kissing and hugging can be very passionate!. It's a way of sharing and showing love!. For some people these activities can be more fulfilling than sexual intercourse!.
You get pressure from people talking about sex!. You think, 'I've got to go and see what it's like'!. It's hard, but you've got to resist and do what you want!.
It's very important not to feel pressurized into having sex when you don't really want to!. Just because your friends say they are 'doing it' doesn't mean they are!.
Thinking through all the implications of having sex can be a useful way of helping you arrive at a decision!. There are lots of reasons why people don't want to have sex!. You may feel that you are not ready emotionally!. Being pushed into having sex could mean you regret it later on!. Some people have quite strong religious or cultural beliefs!. Others just want to wait!.
Some people call this decision to wait 'abstinence'!. The decision to abstain from having sex can be either a long-term decision or a short-term one!. Some people decide that they do not want to start having sex until they are married or in a significant long-term relationship!. Other people may decide that having sex isn't the right thing for them at this particular time!. Later on they may meet a person who they want and feel ready to have sex with!. The decision whether to have sex or not is an important one!. You should do what is right for you!. It should be an informed decision, and not one based on fear or pressure from others!.
But when a boy and girl do decide they want to have sexual intercourse, they should think about using a contraceptive unless they want to become parents!. Condoms can help stop infections like HIV as well as reducing the risk of getting pregnant!.
Read more in http://www!.menstrual-cycle!.info
Be Healthy and Happy!Www@Answer-Health@Com