Getting married 6 yrs after divorce...i'm scared it will hurt?!
Question: Getting married 6 yrs after divorce!.!.!.i'm scared it will hurt!?
i'm getting married in 2 months and have been divorced (and abstinent) for 6 years!. i had a hysterectomy due to endometriosis 8 yrs ago so i am on estradiol and estrogen cream!. however, i am so afraid sex is going to be painful!. my dr already has me on medication so i am not sure i want to call her just yet!. is there anything that will help for the first few times!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I say don't be intimate until you are ready!. Talk with your future husband (if you haven't already) and just open yourself to him!. Tell him your fears, heck he might put all those fears you have to rest once you give yourself to him!. I know that it is 'tradition' to give yourself on your wedding night!. Maybe a little foreplay and some romantic music, candles, lotion and flirting will help put you at ease!. If you trust him (why would you marry if you didn't trust) let his body relax yours!. See yourself as a virgin who already has ridden a bike before!. Have fun and relax!. Enjoy each other!. Go slow and sweet!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It may be unconfortable for a week!. Go slow so you don't bet sore!. Look for a vaginal lubrication at the drug store!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Lots of foreplay and lubricant!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
no i dont think it willWww@Answer-Health@Com