Worried about a friend?!


Question: Worried about a friend!?
ok so my friend is 15, and yeah shes a lil on the curvy side but she is NOT fat!. i think she is reallypretty, but she has never had a bf (me and all of our group have) and this is making her very sad, then she starting blaiming it on her weight, but like i said she is not fat, and is on a diet that means she is hardly eating!.!.!.!. how can i help!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
A lot of girls feel this way!. They think their weight and looks has something to do with the fact that they don't have a boyfriend!.

But the truth is, it doesn't matter what your weight is or what you look like; it's what's on the inside that gets all the boys!. Its the girl's personality that takes a boy's heart!. Looks might have a little to do with it, but it's really the way the girl is inside that attracts the boys to her!.

Tell her that you think she's pretty and that you don't think that she's overweight!. Tell her that it isn't good for her body if she skimps out on eating because that can make her sick!. It's okay that she's on a diet but dieting too much causes problems in the future!.

And listen!. I'm 15 and I don't have a boyfriend yet!. I'm not skinny but I'm thin enough and I have some curves!. I'm 5'8" and 140 pounds!. But I don't think I'm fat!.

Your friend is not overweight and you need to tell her this!. And keep telling her this!. Also, tell her that when she wakes up in the morning, to look in the mirror and tell herself she's beautiful and she's not overweight and that she's a wonderful person!. Saying something positive about yourself every morning can really have an effect on your self-esteem!. By being a happier, less worrisome person, it's more likely for her to get the boys ;)

I hope this helped in some way!. Good luck!

:Mary:Www@Answer-Health@Com





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