Talking to your mom about your period? (For every girl!)?!
Question: Talking to your mom about your period!? (For every girl!)!?
I have had my period for two and a half years now!. I went to the doctor today the nurse asked when my last period was I told her and she left the room so it was only my mom and me!. She was like you don't tell me when you have a period!. Do you have periods every month!? And I just don't feel confortable telling my mom when I am on my period!. It makes me uncomfortable!. I know she has gone through the same thing but it is just how I feel!. So my question to you is how do you feel about talking to you mom about your period and her knowing when you are on your period!? How was your relationship with your mom when it came to your period!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Im the same way!. I've had my period for about 2 years now and I really hate telling my mom when im on my period!. The only time she really knows when im on my period is when I ask her to take me to the store for something like pads or tampons!. And I hate when she asks me questions about my periods and I ignore her lol!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
my relationship with my mom is cool!. if she asks me that, there would be no problem with me!. don't feel uncomfortable with that!. there's nothing wrong with telling your mom you got your period every month!. just tell her, i have my period now!. no effort at all!.
even now that my mom doesn't ask me to tell her that, she almost always knows when i have my period because i declare to the whole house, i have cramps or my head is aching because i have my period!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
even now that my mom doesn't ask me to tell her that, she almost always knows when i have my period because i declare to the whole house, i have cramps or my head is aching because i have my period!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
im the EXACT same with my mom, the frirst time i had mine i was at school and my bff and i were sitting on the ground waiting to go inside my legs were open and she was like "blair um!.!.!. thats not good" ad i was loke HOLY CRAP!!!!!!! so i had a pad in my bag so i got it and went to the washroom and put it on but anyways everyones like that my mom found out the second time i had mine but its not a big deal me and my firends always talk bout stuff like that but it just with my mom its awkward!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
My relationship with my mom isn't very tight!. But she ALWAYS has to know everything!. So I tell her when I'm on my period!.
Luckly, when I first started my sister (who I tell EVERYTHING to) was visiting and she was the only one home with me!.
It's normal to be uncomfortable with your mom!. A lot of girls are!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Luckly, when I first started my sister (who I tell EVERYTHING to) was visiting and she was the only one home with me!.
It's normal to be uncomfortable with your mom!. A lot of girls are!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
my mom knew about mine almost every month!. there was three bathrooms in the house i grew up in!. and generally everyone but my dad would use the one that was known as the family room bath!. because it wasn't really with a bed room!. since the pads and tampons were in that bathroom too!. all she would have to do is look and ask are u on your period!? i would say yeah!. or sometimes i would ask her to buy me more!. i'm pretty close to my mom!. every mom should at least know when her daughter gets her first periods!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well actually i don't have a mom but i do talk with my grandma i feel fairly strong shes an older women so she knows what its like as well as ur mom!. The day i got my period I ran home from a friends house (2 doors down) and said
" GRANDMA GUESS WHAT I STARTED MY PERIOD!!!!"
I was sooooooo excited lol because i was officially a girl!. lol So yea i feel very comfortable!Www@Answer-Health@Com
" GRANDMA GUESS WHAT I STARTED MY PERIOD!!!!"
I was sooooooo excited lol because i was officially a girl!. lol So yea i feel very comfortable!Www@Answer-Health@Com
The first time i had it she was upset i didnt tell her!. But she noticed the next times cause i get really bad pms and she sees things in the garbage can and stuff!. The really awkward thing is when they start the tampon demonstration!. Thats a biggie!. I stuck my fingers in my ears and yelled lalalalalala i cant hear you!. it worked pretty well!. As for being comfortable, no!. no one want to tell their mom!. its weird!. and awkward!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm not a very open person to begin with!. I don't tell my mom when I have my period!. I tell her if I'm out of pads or tampons if she's going to the store!. I don't think she needs to know when I'm on it!. I'm seventeen, by the way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i didn't tell my mom when i first got my period either, i still don't talk to her about it unless i need pads or something!. i feel very strange talking to her about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I feel the same way!.!.!. I didnt tell my mom for a month but she found out by herself!. My relationship with my mom is good but I just dont feel comfortable talking about those kind of things!.!.I dont know why but i just dont!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
she wants to know when you have your period every month!? thats weird!. my moms chill about it and doesnt really care!. she only knows when i ask her to get me more tampons!. good luckk :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I asked my mom questions when I first got my period, but I don't really think to tell her when I'm on my period!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i feel the same way because me and my mom aren't very closse and dont get alongWww@Answer-Health@Com
Why do you need to tell your mom when you are exactly on your period!? Its not like you have to tell her every month your on your period!. Yeah of course you kindof have to tell her once you first got your period otherwise its up to you if you want to tell her!.
If your nervous about asking to buy pads!. Just tell her "Mom, I could I have some money!." and just go buy them your self!. Otherwise just say "Well, mom I am out of pads/tampons could you please just drive me to the store and not make such a big deal about it!."
I don't know something like that!. But if she ever makes a big deal about it just be like "Mom, could we please stop talking about this I feel so uncomfortable!." She should understand!.
Anyways!.
Sorry if I didn't help you much!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If your nervous about asking to buy pads!. Just tell her "Mom, I could I have some money!." and just go buy them your self!. Otherwise just say "Well, mom I am out of pads/tampons could you please just drive me to the store and not make such a big deal about it!."
I don't know something like that!. But if she ever makes a big deal about it just be like "Mom, could we please stop talking about this I feel so uncomfortable!." She should understand!.
Anyways!.
Sorry if I didn't help you much!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well for my Mother and I, she knows everything!. We may not be the greatest of friends but when it all boils down she knows it all!. Whenever I go to the Doctor, I allow her to come in the room with me so she is well aware of my health, and in advice/suggestions the doctor has for me if any problems/issues!. I want my Mother to be well aware of my life for the fact of I don't want to pass out one day and the Doctor's ask her questions and she looks like one of those dumbfounded parents!. I keep a log of what I eat, and comments because of a health issue in which my Mother has full access to!. There is a log of what the Doctor's and I discussed on certain visits, although she was there!.
So when it came to my period she knew!. And of course now that I'm older is it is completely normal and she does not keep up with my menstrual cycle since it recently changed but she is aware of it due to my health issue, here recently!.
However, in the end it is your choice on who you want to know about your health and if you even want them to know!. I do strongly suggest that if your Mother is close to you and there for you, that you let her in on what you feel comfortable with her having knowledge of or wait until you're ready!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
So when it came to my period she knew!. And of course now that I'm older is it is completely normal and she does not keep up with my menstrual cycle since it recently changed but she is aware of it due to my health issue, here recently!.
However, in the end it is your choice on who you want to know about your health and if you even want them to know!. I do strongly suggest that if your Mother is close to you and there for you, that you let her in on what you feel comfortable with her having knowledge of or wait until you're ready!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i am 24, i started at 11 at that time i told her the frist time i got it and never really talk about it uless i need tampons or pads and there were none then when i was 14 i started geting periods ever 2-3 weeks so i told her and they took me too the gyno then we never mentioned it until 3 months ago when i started geting seizures the week of my period do to the gardisal shot!. now at this point i tell people that i am geting the seizures bc i get really sick and they no i got my period !. if that never happened to me i would not make an anoncement every month, i worked with women that do bc of cramps, cravings or just to make a point in conversations !. how old r u is it that u just started resently and your mom is trying to use it as a way to open communication!? bc thats the only thing i can think of bc why her or any one it usually more of a consern when it doesnt come or come too often
i dont no i would feel werid saying every month mom i have it but idk what she is thinkingWww@Answer-Health@Com
i dont no i would feel werid saying every month mom i have it but idk what she is thinkingWww@Answer-Health@Com