For women with no libido, do you do anything to help your husband please himself!


Question: For women with no libido, do you do anything to help your husband please himself!.!.!.!?
!.!.!.that isn't uncomfortable or awkward for you in your unaroused state!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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My husband is interested in sex all the time, but I've got some days I am absolutely not interested and not even arousable!.
I will sometimes let him caress himself while watching porn on the internet!. At first I was very uncomfortable finding out that he did this, but then he agreed to do it in the bedroom on our PC (while I read a book or slept), and I felt better!.
When he wants to be with me and I am not in the mood at all, I lie next to him while he pleasures himself!. I will lift my nightie up or get naked and let him play with my boobs or let him put his arm around me!. I sometimes talk to him, tell him how hard his penis looks, caress his balls while he plays with the upper part of his penis!.
When I have a little more energy I will masturbate his penis, sometimes give him a little oral!. He likes to squeeze my butt while he masturbates!. We used to put on some DVDs without sound (we have kids) and he would pleasure himself while I slept, but prefer the more intimate contact!.
Yes, I sometimes feel awkward since I'm not aroused, but it doesn't take too long and he is so appreciative!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I have very little interest in sex, I dont know why and sometimes it is frustrating, however I am thankful that my husband is very understanding about it!. I wont do anything that I dont want to or that makes me uncomfortable, like doing "it" just for him!. However, I will lay with him in bed and cuddle him so to speak while he pleasures himself!. During times like this I dont touch his gentials, I just lay next to him, my head close to his, rub my hand on his chest and belly!. It can be quite intimate without being sexual for me!.
Best of luck to you!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Oh this is a fun one! First of all when im on my period, he gets to have an extra (time of the month B!.J!.) Now if oral sex isnt in the cards I also like to take some KY and massage him until he climaxes!. Having a bowl of water nearby to dip your fingers into helps keep the KY slick and slippery! He loves them both and he appreciates the fact that I truly enjoy pleasing him!. I think it's so cool to start fondling him and feel him get hard, it makes me feel powerful to have control like that; to actually make his body do things all because of me!. Telling him what you like about his penis while giving a hand job turns most guys on even more!. Something I never thought would make a difference for me, was having him shave down there!. (Not totally clean shaven, but nicely trimmed!.) It makes him look more sexy and bigger! You might find your libido coming back!. Now for that part!.!.!.!.!. it's not healthy to have absolutely no libido whatsoever!. Do some research on the internet about it, check with any medications you may be taking also!. A good sex life is good for both people, ask girlfriends, family, or health professionals about it!. A good sex life is a terrible thing to waste :) I should know, I spent 9 years without one with my ex-husband!Www@Answer-Health@Com

It is not uncomfortable!. Him being interested in me makes me horny!. Just do whatever he wants, like letting him play with your boobs or give him oral!. Just because you don't want to or can't have any fun doesn't mean that he has to suffer!. This is what I do when I am on my period!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ummmmmmmmm no problems here, however question is quite intriguing! umm what about personal lubricants!
xx'sWww@Answer-Health@Com

oral sex or maybe just teasing him sounds fine!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

WTF is a libido
maybe i can help u if u tell meWww@Answer-Health@Com





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