Sex for the second time?! Help!!?!
Question: Sex for the second time!?! Help!!!?
I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time the other day!.!.!. i was a virgin before i had sex with him!.
It hurt the first time but it was bareable pain!. After we did i bled in my knickers a tiny bit (like a few spots)!.
People have now told me it hurts more the second time, and i will bleed a hell of alot more is this true!?
Can u tell me a few things about it!? does it really hurt!? What should i do!? anything i shoudl prepare myself for!?
Please, please please help
thanks
xxWww@Answer-Health@Com
It hurt the first time but it was bareable pain!. After we did i bled in my knickers a tiny bit (like a few spots)!.
People have now told me it hurts more the second time, and i will bleed a hell of alot more is this true!?
Can u tell me a few things about it!? does it really hurt!? What should i do!? anything i shoudl prepare myself for!?
Please, please please help
thanks
xxWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
It'll hurt less the second time around!. Actually, it might not hurt at all!. But if you wait too long in between times, your vagina will tighten back up and it'll feel like losing your virginity all over again!. You shouldn't bleed again, your hymen was broken the first time around!. To make it more enjoyable!.!.!.
tell your bf to take it really slow
lots of foreplay = lots of natural lubrication
use ky jelly to make it easier for him to enter you
try oral
try durex pleasuremax or hersensation condoms
Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
tell your bf to take it really slow
lots of foreplay = lots of natural lubrication
use ky jelly to make it easier for him to enter you
try oral
try durex pleasuremax or hersensation condoms
Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Everyone is different!. I had zero pain and bleeding when I had sex the first time!. I had no pain any time after that with my first partner!. My second partner was much larger and I had a bit of discomfort until we figured out we just needed to start really slowly for it to not be uncomfortable!. If your hymen was broken completely with your first time, you most likely won't have any more bleeding than you already did!. If you only broke it partially, you may have more bleeding the second time!. The best thing you can do to make it so it isn't painful is go slowly, make sure you are well aroused (plenty of foreplay) and consider using a water-based lubricant!. The lubricant helps things slide better, being more aroused opens your vagina more, making it easier!. If you're feeling pain, just make sure you let your partner know, so he can slow down!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
For me it hurt the first few times!.!. and the 2nd time I did it I didn't bleed more!.!. I only bled a little the first couple times!.
And you shouldn't really prepare or think about it too much because if you think about it too much then while your doing it the 2nd time you could get uncomfortable and not enjoy it, or not want to be doing it because that happened to my friend!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
And you shouldn't really prepare or think about it too much because if you think about it too much then while your doing it the 2nd time you could get uncomfortable and not enjoy it, or not want to be doing it because that happened to my friend!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well i lost my virginity in January, i didn't have a hymen so it didn't break the first time but i did feel some pain/discomfort!. Sex was uncomfortable for about the first 6 times until i got used to it!. Sex still hurts now if he goes to deep and hits my cervix!. I doubt your second time will hurt as much because you have broken you hymen now, but it might still be a uncomfortable for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Erin,
You were being LIED to! Yes sex the first time hurts!.!. that is NORMAL!.!. a little bleeding after is also totally normal!.!.!. it's because the hymen!.!. or the little thin skin barrier into your vagina has been broken!.!.!.!.!.
If your boyfriend takes his time!.!. and makes sure you are ready!.!. meaning that you are lubricated from your own vaginal secretions!.!. OR a commercial lubricant!.!. <eg!.!. KY jelly, also available in a water based gel or liquid>!.!.!. it will not only FEEL better!.!.!.!. but go much more smoothly!.
Sex is something that should be pleasurable for both parties involved!.!.!.!.
One last thing!.!. just make sure your being safe!.!.!. condoms are a must!.!. NO MATTER WHAT!!!!!! not only to protect you from an unplanned pregnancy but from sexually transmitted diseases!.!.!.!.
hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You were being LIED to! Yes sex the first time hurts!.!. that is NORMAL!.!. a little bleeding after is also totally normal!.!.!. it's because the hymen!.!. or the little thin skin barrier into your vagina has been broken!.!.!.!.!.
If your boyfriend takes his time!.!. and makes sure you are ready!.!. meaning that you are lubricated from your own vaginal secretions!.!. OR a commercial lubricant!.!. <eg!.!. KY jelly, also available in a water based gel or liquid>!.!.!. it will not only FEEL better!.!.!.!. but go much more smoothly!.
Sex is something that should be pleasurable for both parties involved!.!.!.!.
One last thing!.!. just make sure your being safe!.!.!. condoms are a must!.!. NO MATTER WHAT!!!!!! not only to protect you from an unplanned pregnancy but from sexually transmitted diseases!.!.!.!.
hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
For me, the second time felt the same as the first!. it wasn't horrible, horrible pain, just uncomfortable!.
Iif it was bareable the first time, I'd imagine it would still be bareable!. And I wouldn't believe you'd bleed more, probably about the same as before or even less than that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Iif it was bareable the first time, I'd imagine it would still be bareable!. And I wouldn't believe you'd bleed more, probably about the same as before or even less than that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The blood is from breaking your hymen when you first had sex!. Once its broken it cant be broken again so the next time it will not hurt as much, in fact it should be quite pleasant, and you wont bleed!. By the way, how old are you, should you be having sex!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
My partner was a virgin and she had a little blood
and puss and all it's doing is cleaning itself, just like
a foreign body, the second time will be easier not harder!.
Drink alcohol to relax you it will help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
and puss and all it's doing is cleaning itself, just like
a foreign body, the second time will be easier not harder!.
Drink alcohol to relax you it will help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
NO IT SHOULDN'T HURT AND YOU SHOULDN'T BLEED AT ALL!.!.!. SO DON'T WORRY!.!.!. PLEASE USE PROTECTION AT ALL TIME!.!.!.PLZ, PLZ, PLZ!.!.!. IF YOUR GONNA BE ACTIVE ALL THE TIME NOW!.!. PLZ!.!.!.ALSO GET ON THE PILL!.!.!.!.!.!.!. BUT STILL USE PROTECTION!.!.!.NEVER TRUST ANYONE!.!.!. GOOD LUCK!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
not worse probably the same, just make sure you take it at your pace and tell him if its too uncomfortable!. after a while it starts to feel really good!.Www@Answer-Health@Com