I'm confused about when I was 'played with' when i was younger?!
Question: I'm confused about when I was 'played with' when i was younger!?
When I was about 7 and 8 my older brother would be home with me a lot when our parents were out and every night after i had a bath my brother would lick me down there!. he got found out because he did it to his girlfriends sister!. i feel bad because i actually liked it when he did it to me and i alywas let him and i never felt it was wrong!. a lot of times I asked him to do it to me because i liked it so much!. i stil dont feel like it was bad and im not depressed of anything about him doing it to me!. does that mean somethings wrong with me because i liked it!? i know its bad and a lot of girls lives a ruined because of it happening to them but i liked it happening!. is that because im bad for likeing it!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Dont worry!. Many girls dream of this happening and would actually enjoy it!. Dont worry!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There is nothing wrong with u!. But you did have oral sex with ur brother and yes, thats wrong!. But don't feel bad about urself! It felt good cuz It was sex and it gave you pleaser!. You also wanted to do that again cuz u were horney!. Just stick to ur bf or husband doing that to u instead and If u don't have one, try to get ur mind off of it!
hope i helped!Www@Answer-Health@Com
hope i helped!Www@Answer-Health@Com
at that age its not like you had an idea that it was a bad thing so you have to realize at the age of 7 you had a diferent point of view between good or bad and right and wrongWww@Answer-Health@Com
i dont think something is wrong with you!.you just arent as sensitive as some girls i guess!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
no but it will cause problems for you in the future and it also means that he may have been abused tooWww@Answer-Health@Com
no hun its not you! your normalWww@Answer-Health@Com
that is so sick!. urgh!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You liked the feeling not the fact that it was your brother!.
Especially because you were so young!. You didn't know any better, you looked to your big bro for love and support, so you might have thought this was one of those things!.
HOWEVER he is totally wrong and incorrect!. That was definitely unacceptable from his half and to me, he is the lowest of the low, I'm sorry, but you treat your sisters especially your younger ones like princess's and treat them respectfully and in a caring and guardian like manner; by no means do you inflict 'sexual like acts' to them!.
That is messed up, and disgusting; you should really look at it, at the perspective where you don't do that in this society, I don't care where your from, or who you are!.
I would have expected you to feel slightly more upset at your brother though, for crossing those limits, but if you don't see it, I can't make you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Especially because you were so young!. You didn't know any better, you looked to your big bro for love and support, so you might have thought this was one of those things!.
HOWEVER he is totally wrong and incorrect!. That was definitely unacceptable from his half and to me, he is the lowest of the low, I'm sorry, but you treat your sisters especially your younger ones like princess's and treat them respectfully and in a caring and guardian like manner; by no means do you inflict 'sexual like acts' to them!.
That is messed up, and disgusting; you should really look at it, at the perspective where you don't do that in this society, I don't care where your from, or who you are!.
I would have expected you to feel slightly more upset at your brother though, for crossing those limits, but if you don't see it, I can't make you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
no i used 2 wonder da same thing 2!.
i think ur normal, reallly!.
when i was about 5 or 6 dis man dat used to always come around was alone wit me and either i asked to see his thing or he asked me, so he showed me his stuff and i let him spread my lips and touch me down there!. i didn't feel bad or nothin and 2 dis day i don't feel bad or depressed like i was sexally abused, i don't even kno if i can put myself in that category of ppl who have been sexually abused or assualted!.
other ppl might say it'll affect u in da future, i don't think it will but den again ur situation is different cuz it was ur bro and it was multiple times!.
so to answer da question nothin is wrong wit u for liking it and i hope u don't all messed up over it
~much love n peace~Www@Answer-Health@Com
i think ur normal, reallly!.
when i was about 5 or 6 dis man dat used to always come around was alone wit me and either i asked to see his thing or he asked me, so he showed me his stuff and i let him spread my lips and touch me down there!. i didn't feel bad or nothin and 2 dis day i don't feel bad or depressed like i was sexally abused, i don't even kno if i can put myself in that category of ppl who have been sexually abused or assualted!.
other ppl might say it'll affect u in da future, i don't think it will but den again ur situation is different cuz it was ur bro and it was multiple times!.
so to answer da question nothin is wrong wit u for liking it and i hope u don't all messed up over it
~much love n peace~Www@Answer-Health@Com