My Twin!?..So Worried?..?!
Question: My Twin!!?!.!.So Worried!?!.!.!?
She has started seeing this lad called Jaime (much older than she is)!. At first she looked happy!. But recentley everyone has noticed her weight has dropped, she has completley lost her apetite!. She keep's going dizzy & is constantley feeling tired and she get's the shakes!. Today she has ate a sandwich, nothing else! I'm scared incase it's drug's, or an eating disorder, or pregnancy!? I don't want to ask incase i Offend her!. He has changed her, we are a close family & she's on about moving away with him now! That is so not like Millie!! :| When she eat's something she says oh i need the toilet and go's straight upstairs!. I'm so confused right now, I really need advice!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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With the weight loss and shakes and rushing to the bathroom it definitely sounds as though something is wrong here!.!.I would definitely sit her down for a sisterly chat and just ask if there is anything worrying her, say what you have noticed about her behaviour etc that is worrying you, to keep it light say something like "I'm probably just being an over-anxious sister" or something, but let her know that you care about her and love her and that you are there for her whenever she wants to talk!.!.!.try not to press too hard at first and keep it calm and friendly!.!.if she doesn't open up, leave it a few days then try again!.!.
Just make sure she knows you are there whenever she wants to talk, and that whatever may be wrong you love her regardless and will support her!. Whatever you do don't let it turn into a confrontation, if it feels as though it is going that way just say something like "oh I'm sorry I was probably being daft" and give her a hug and let it go for now!.
Whatever the problem may be, you can't help her unless she wants you to!.!.so don't try to force anything, just keep stating you are there, you care etc until she is ready to open up!.
I hope everything works out OK!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just make sure she knows you are there whenever she wants to talk, and that whatever may be wrong you love her regardless and will support her!. Whatever you do don't let it turn into a confrontation, if it feels as though it is going that way just say something like "oh I'm sorry I was probably being daft" and give her a hug and let it go for now!.
Whatever the problem may be, you can't help her unless she wants you to!.!.so don't try to force anything, just keep stating you are there, you care etc until she is ready to open up!.
I hope everything works out OK!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you don't talk to your twin soon and she don't tell you what it his that is doing, then I don't think that she will be around much longer, is she on drug's or drinks because that the kind of thing that they do, you don't want to eat, try and get her to a doctor as soon as possible, and don't worry about offending her, you will be saving her life!.and she will thank you for when she is better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You MUST confront her about this!!!
Shes proberly worried about saying anything, now you've noticed, talk to her, now, before its way to late!!!
From what it sounds like, shes suffering from bulimic, a form of eating disorder, this is common, but its important and can be fatal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Shes proberly worried about saying anything, now you've noticed, talk to her, now, before its way to late!!!
From what it sounds like, shes suffering from bulimic, a form of eating disorder, this is common, but its important and can be fatal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe you should ask your Mum and see if she's thinking the same thing too !. If she is you should both go up to her at the same time and talk to her about it ! I don't think she'll be affended by it because you both think it ok bye ! ! x =DWww@Answer-Health@Com
talk to her frankly and tell her you are concerned about her, tell your parents and make her see shes got the family to support her
honesty is the best policy on this one
good luck hope it can be sorted out for you and for herWww@Answer-Health@Com
honesty is the best policy on this one
good luck hope it can be sorted out for you and for herWww@Answer-Health@Com
i think she needs to seek help asap, i mean professional help, i think she has n eating disorder and proberbly a drug habbit too!.!.
i hope you are able to talk to your sister before it is too late!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i hope you are able to talk to your sister before it is too late!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
let her know you are worried!. all you can do is be there for her!. she'll come to you when the time is right for her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you really should confirm her about this! She may get offended but she will be happy you care about herWww@Answer-Health@Com
u shud tlk 2 yuh mum bout dis first of all!. then tlk 2 ur sis!. gurd luck xWww@Answer-Health@Com
if u cant ask ur twin sister whats wrong then who can!!
find out asap!.!. this could be serious
get her to see a dr!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
find out asap!.!. this could be serious
get her to see a dr!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
u need to ask her if he is doing something to her cuz it sounds like he is verbally abusing her into thinking she needs to be skinnier to have him, or he could be drugging her!. either way, u need to tell someone ! take her to a doctor to get a "regular check up" and tell the doctor whats really going on!.
also u need to confront that Jaime guy!. tell him whats happening!. and tell him that if he is doing it, he needs to stop!. if he denies it, lay low for a little while!. but if says yes, tell him he needs to stop or ur going to the police!.
or if u want, no matter how dumb this might be, set up some little survelance cameras wherever they r mostly together alone!. i hope this helps u!. best of luck with u and ur sister!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
also u need to confront that Jaime guy!. tell him whats happening!. and tell him that if he is doing it, he needs to stop!. if he denies it, lay low for a little while!. but if says yes, tell him he needs to stop or ur going to the police!.
or if u want, no matter how dumb this might be, set up some little survelance cameras wherever they r mostly together alone!. i hope this helps u!. best of luck with u and ur sister!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i have a twin sister too but i know that if something bothered me i would ask her straight on even if she got upset!. because i know that in the end we are still sisters and i want whats best for her!. So yes ask her even if she gets angry!. You can help her through this, whether its drugs, a disorder or pregnancy!. Sisters should help each other out and be there for each other at times like this!. Just DONT reproach anything to her or tell her what she did was wrong just be there to listen to her problems!. what she needs is a sister not someone to tell her that she is doing wrong!. Good luck!! i hope this helpedWww@Answer-Health@Com