Friend going to die, only 13!?!


Question: Friend going to die, only 13!!?
One night we were having a sleepover and we were getting on our pajamas, on a bunk bed!. me on top; her on the bottom!. i looked down, I thought that she was finished changing and she wasn't, she had her under wear on and (she wears boxers over her underwear) was spread out something white in her boxers to slip on, then i realized that it was a DIAPER! I was tottally shocked! She has a perfect family and everything, and has always been a very, very happy child!. Im so worried about her, we always tell each other everything, and she would have told me if something was wrong, there are no secrets between us at all!. Plus, I have another friend who wears a diaper at night and she just plain wets the bed!. And I don't care, it doesn't bother me!. But the other girl and I tell each other everything! Im just shocked!Www@Answer-Health@Com


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The reason is because she is probably VERY embarassed by the fact that she has this problem!.Could you imagine being in her shoes!.I wouldn't tell a soul!.Just talk to her!.If you two are close,you could help her sooo much by just talking to her about it!.Be sure to be a listener!.She probably has a bladder problem that can be genetic or !?!?Explain to her that there are medications she can take that helps keep her bladder empty over night so she don't have to wear those embarrassing diapers any more!.I have a niece with the same problem!.We tell each other everything too!.But not this,her mom told me!.I spoke to her and now she is on the medicine!.simple pill before bed time!.No more diapers!.Shes a totally different person now at sleep overs ect!.!.!.much more confident!.Hope this helps you and her!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

how is wetting the bed the same as dying!?
maybe she just wanted to keep it a secret that she wets the bed
just because she seems like she has the perfect family and a happy childhood doesn't mean she doesn't have bladder problems and can't still wet the bed
don't worry about it
if she wanted you to know then she would have told you
so just forget about it and don't ask her about it because it might embarrass herWww@Answer-Health@Com

I have been best friends with my best friend for 12 years now!. we thought that we told each other everything!. but really there was something that i was holding back from her!. something very personal!.
Its very hard to tell the people that you love the most and are closet to at times!. Because they are so close!. sometimes we are afraid of hurting the other person or just because you might feel really weird around them because they are always there for you, so everytime they see you they might think of that personal secret that you told them!.
I can relate to the girl!. Its not that she didn't wanna tell you!.
its really embarrassing!.!. Don't take as she was trying to keep a secret from you!.!.
i hope i helpedWww@Answer-Health@Com

She's not going to /die/
She probably just wets the bed!. Even among the closest friends, there are still secrets, especially about embarrassing matters!.
My friends were talking about periods, and who had theirs and such, and I had gotten mine, but I was just too embarrassed to tell them, even though they were my bests friends!.
I wouldn't bring it up around herWww@Answer-Health@Com

then who's going to die!?

with the diaper thingee, there's nothing to worry about it!. if it's your house and it's your bed that you'll be sleeping, maybe she's just worried to pee on your bed while sleeping!. in the other hand, ask her if she had her period that time cause maybe she's using diaper cause of heavy flow!. i know some girls using diaper when they have their period!. it sounds crazy, i know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

everybody have their top secrets!.!.!.
everybody have their own problem!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

babe who cares!! this really isnt your business!.!. furthermore are you sure she wasnt menstruating and just had a very large sanitary pad on!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

If she wets the bed i don't think she is gonna die!.!.!.!.!. Did you leave something out!? I can't find the question you are asking!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

She may not have good bladder sensation or be able to wake up to "go"!. This is not that unusual and she won't die!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

what does this have to do with a friend death at thirteenWww@Answer-Health@Com

she wets the bed!.!.!.!.how does this lead to death!? did i miss something!?Www@Answer-Health@Com





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