Sex hurts! Help?!


Question: Sex hurts! Help!?
Sex has hurt me on and off ever since I lost my virginity (7 years ago)!.

Pap smears hurt like crazy - apparently I have a sensitive cervix!.

Yet no doctor has been able to figure out what is wrong - or offer a sollution!. Often I will go months at a time unable to have sex!.

I have regular pap smears and have has complete std checks when I've changed partners!.

Does anyone else have this problem, has anyone been able to find a solution!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Answers:
My girlfriend has this exact same problem!. So far, we have not been able to fix it, but there are some things that help!. First, and the best thing that has worked for her is a lot of foreplay!. Make sure you are turned on a lot and 'wet!.' When she is really turned on, either she does not hurt a lot or does not notice the pain as much!. Second thing is use some lubricant, although I don't think this one really helps too much!. Another big thing for her is that if we don't have sex for a long period of time, it hurts her more!. If there is only a few days in between, she does not hurt that much usually, but any more time than that it hurts her!. It hurts her less when not using a condom, but you obviously need to be extremely careful with that!. Hope this can help you some!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Lots and lots of women I've met have voiced similiarly to what your saying!. However they fake liking sex!. Women talk openly to other women!. I'll give you some advice, frankly quit having sex!. Don't worry about it!. If you decide to have a serious relationship go slow, see if you are even arroused!. Once your in a stable relationship and in my case that would be a marriage, use a lubricant or ask the doc for an estregen cream!. This helps some women!. Mostly though once your relaxed in a relationship and it may take a while too--but your body will relax and you will also be able to communicate to your partner what is pleasurable!. This business of having sex on the cuff doesn't work for a significant portion of women!. Marital sex is much better all around!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The usual problem is inadequate lubrication!. Try any of the various products on the market which are prepared for the purpose!. If these don't help, see a gynecologist -- something is wrong!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Perhaps you have an infection at cervix!.
Perhaps you have a small vagina!.
Perhaps you are too eager and don't let vagina stretch and lubricate, need more foreplay!. Ask partner not to go to deep, or you be on top!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
okay first to the first anwser, GET SOME FCKING MANNERS! i hate when guys think all woman are is little sex toys!

anyways (: nope im a virgin (:

can you anwser this!?
http://answers!.yahoo!.com/question/index;!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
depends where the pain is!. google "vulvodynia" and see if this fits you!. and be brave and talk to your doctor!. there are lots of things it could be with lots of different solutions!. it is so worth looking into!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
never had sex sry lol i believe in sex after marrigige so thats gonna hurt me sooooo bad cuz my **** wont be used to it lol try lubricentWww@Answer-Health@Com
THATS WHY YOU SHOULD HAVE WAITED TILL YOU GOT MARRIED AND IF YOU DID IM NOT A DOCTOR SO I DONT KNOWWww@Answer-Health@Com
i have dat problem but it only hurts wen it first goes in then stops!. I think the outside is just sore[for me]Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try using lubeWww@Answer-Health@Com


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