Really weird problem - don't be mean.?!
Question: Really weird problem - don't be mean!.!?
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I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 1/2 years and I love him and I think he's really cute!. When we first started dating, I was crazy into anything sexual really!. Then I started masturbating and I feel like I've spoiled myself because before when we would do stuff I THOUGHT I was orgasming but I guess I wasn't!. Now I find it hard to let him do anything because sometimes his fingers are too rough!. I think he gets nervous because he's only made me do it like, twice and that was with my help!. Don't get me wrong - he's not bad!. I'm sure it's just me!. I just want to know how to get around this because for some reason, I get nervous now!. I think about it too much and if something he does doesn't feel right even for one second, for some reason I'm done!. Does anyone have this problem!? How can I fix this because I don't want him to feel bad anymore!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 1/2 years and I love him and I think he's really cute!. When we first started dating, I was crazy into anything sexual really!. Then I started masturbating and I feel like I've spoiled myself because before when we would do stuff I THOUGHT I was orgasming but I guess I wasn't!. Now I find it hard to let him do anything because sometimes his fingers are too rough!. I think he gets nervous because he's only made me do it like, twice and that was with my help!. Don't get me wrong - he's not bad!. I'm sure it's just me!. I just want to know how to get around this because for some reason, I get nervous now!. I think about it too much and if something he does doesn't feel right even for one second, for some reason I'm done!. Does anyone have this problem!? How can I fix this because I don't want him to feel bad anymore!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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If he doesn't know how to help masturbate you or give you proper foreplay, and sex therefore becomes painfull for you, then it would be easy to understand why you no longer get so turned on by it with him!. You seem to have no problem orgasming by masturbation so the best you can do is to teach him the way it feels good and where and how to touch you!. When he get's to rough, take his hand and show and tell him you want him to go softer or try a different technique until he get's it right!. Also spend a lot of time during foreplay, because you won't enjoy yourself unless you are really turned on!. And when he learns to touch you the right way, let him know that he is doing it better and how good it feels for you!. Best of luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to have a very open and honest discussion with him about this, including telling (and showing) him exactly what you like and what you don't!. If he's being too rough, then ask him nicely to be more gentle!. Have you ever masturbated in front of him!? If not, you should seriously consider this as an option - not only are most guys VERY turned on by this, it will probably help him in his performance as a lover to see exactly how you pleasure yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
guys can never get me to orgasm with foreplay!.
I always finish myself off and he thinks it's hot!. lol
so don't sweat it just relax
It'll all work out
:]Www@Answer-Health@Com
I always finish myself off and he thinks it's hot!. lol
so don't sweat it just relax
It'll all work out
:]Www@Answer-Health@Com
get a toy and let him use it with you, guide his fingers, he will find it a great turn-onWww@Answer-Health@Com