How bad will it hurt when I first have sex?!


Question: How bad will it hurt when I first have sex!?
I have a little vagina!.!.and when I put a tampon in, it hurts!. And tampons aren't even that big! Does it hurt for everyone!? And how bad!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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you need to stop worrying about it!.
90% of girls dont bleed and dont feel pain!. the only ones we hear about are the bad ones though, arent they!? you're not gonna hear the gossip like 'omg she slept with that guy at the party and it went fantastic!' are you!?
you're gonna hear 'omg she slept with that guy and bled all over him!'
its human nature to tell the worst!. so dont worry, ok!? there's no way on telling how your first time will go!.
i was lucky, didnt bleed and felt close to no pain!. of course though, it'll feel tight and you will be 'omg' about it!. but seriously, girl, dont worry!.
wait for a guy you're comfortable with and make sure you talk to him, tell him if it hurts and control his hips with your hands!. first time sex can become very enjoyable very quickly!.
good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Okay dear listen!. a vagina actually is short when your body is in normal condition!. But as a girl gets sexually excited, her vagina elongates to about one third of its length!.!.!.i!.e about 12 to 14 cms!.

It balloons at its inner end!. And starts producing a lubricating liquid which makes penetration easier!. However most of the women who have sex for the first time are unaware of their own sexual response!. And neither are the boys they have had sex with!. So most of the time penetration is done without enough foreplay, which means lots of kissing and cuddling and messing around!. Foreplay arouses the body and transforms the vagina into a state ready for sex!.

This when combined with pressure, excitement and nervousness, causes a reverse psychological effect!. It causes the vagina to shrink, run dry and become tightened!. For most of the young women, this is what causes the added pain!. So instead of getting nervous, just get into the moment and enjoy it!. And if you are too scared of getting hurt, get a small dildo or vibe and penetrate yourself!. Go for small sizes though coz men hate lose vaginas!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It all depends!. For everyone it's different!. Just because it's hurts for you to put a tampon in, doesn't mean that it's going to hurt you to have sex!. I know people who can't stand putting a tampon in, but they have sex like there's no tomorrow!. (Go figure!. LOL) But anyways, just make sure that your partner knows what he's doing and takes into consideration the fact that you're a virgin!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Ok, for most girls, it hurts the first time that you have sex!. Thats just unlucky for us girls i guess!.

But in saying that!. I have a friend who always complains about how much tampons hurt her!. One day I asked her if it hurts when she has sex, and she said no!.

I am not sure of the reason, but maybe this will be the same for you!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

it will probably hurt lots! sorry for being so negative lol
try fingering your self and then after a while it will loosen up and give you a more pleasureable experience when your first time comesWww@Answer-Health@Com

it hurts bad!. worst pain i ever felt and i even stuck my hand in boiling water before!.

it feels like he is tearing me apart little by little!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

apparently!.!.BADWww@Answer-Health@Com

Chances are!.!.!. if it hurts to put a tampon in!.!.!. it will hurt a shitload the first time!. Use lube!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Good suggestion Babidoll!.

And when things get a little looser, what then!?Www@Answer-Health@Com





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