When the best way 2 masturbate!!?!


Question: When the best way 2 masturbate!!!?
when is the best way 2 masturbate and how i need to use stuff that i have in my house because my perents wont buy me any mastubating toys! HELP!!Www@Answer-Health@Com


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It is important to understand there is no "correct" or "right" way to masturbate!. Some women feel they should be able to masturbate to orgasm using a different or more correct method because they hear other women do it that way!. It is important to keep in mind that each woman's anatomy is a little different and her psychological makeup is a lot different!. This results in every woman masturbating differently, even if they use the same basic technique!.

While many women can masturbate to orgasm employing several different techniques others find they can reach orgasm only when they use the same method each time!. There is nothing wrong with this!. Partly because of conditioning and partly because of differences in woman's bodies learning new techniques can be difficult or even impossible!. If you are orgasmic with your current masturbation technique feel free to experiment but do not feel you have to reach orgasm in other ways too!. Remember, masturbation should be fun and enjoyable no matter how you do it!.

Women and girls masturbate in an endless list of ways!. They may massage their clitoris with hands and fingers or rub their vulva up against pillows, bed cloths, stuffed animals, and furniture!. Some use water spray, vibrators, and dildos to stimulate their vulva or vagina!. The vagina appears to play a limited role in the masturbation practices of women, but vaginal insertion is by no means rare or unusual!. When vaginal stimulation is used it is often used in conjunction with clitoral stimulation!. Some women employ nipple and/or anal stimulation in addition to clitoral and vaginal stimulation!. Fantasy often plays a major role in a woman's masturbation activities!. The brain is the largest and most important sexual organ and as a result physical stimulation alone is frequently not sufficient to trigger orgasm!.

There are many definitions of what masturbation is!. Many of these make it sound terrible ('self abuse' 'defile oneself sexually'), while others give restrictive definitions, usually involving hands, that have confused the issue for many!. A working definition of masturbation that gets over the general meaning in a neutral way could be:

'Stimulating ones genitals, or other erogenous zones, so as to give ones self pleasure'!.

Note that no mention of 'how' or exactly 'where' is made and, importantly, orgasm is not seen as being a defining element of the act!.

So masturbation can be rubbing your vulva with your fingers so as to have an orgasm or it can just as validly be stroking your nipples, squeezing your thighs together or sitting on top of a working washing machine!. What it comes down to is more what is in your mind than what you are physically doing!. In fact the range of activities that are really masturbation is very wide indeed and we will cover a range of them on this site!. Enough to say that if you deliberately do anything that involves pampering or stimulating your body's erogenous zones, directly or indirectly then yep that's masturbation!. (But if the word is a turn off then feel free to think of what you are doing as something else)!.

Who does it!.!.!.!.

As masturbation is a private activity no one really knows who does it!. All we have to go on are reported findings from surveys conducted by renowned sexologists over the last 30 to 40 years!. What these findings tell us is interesting and, for those that thought they were alone, surprising!. Summarized they tell us:

1!. From early surveys a figure of around 60% of females of 'sexually active ages' were reported to masturbate at some time or other!.

2!. More recent reports put the figure at over 80%!. This may be due to changes in attitudes about admitting to doing it or it may really show that it is becoming more common!.

3!. Girls aged 2 and under have been known to deliberately masturbate themselves to orgasm!.

4!. Women in their eighties have admitted to being active masturbators!. Modern hormone replacement therapy extends a woman's active sex life/desire and so more older women are masturbating now than in the past!.

5!. The commonest time for a girl to discover masturbation is during her early teens though a significant number discover it later in life!. As few give up after discovering it, more older women masturbate than do younger ones!.

6!. Among those that masturbate the frequency range is great!. Some are several times each day participators while others only masturbate on rare occasions!. There is no obvious link to show why some are one way and others the other!.

7!. Females both in and out of steady sexual relationships masturbate!. It is not an indication of a failure in a relationship if a woman feels the need to continue masturbating!. It just shows that she enjoys masturbating!.

Sooner or later the majority of us learn to achieve an orgasm from masturbatory activity of some sort or another!. Once we find a way of 'getting off' it can be the easy option to stick with that method all the time!. Though that may be fine if all you want is a surefire orgasm, 'variety is the spice of life', and a few alternative techniques may just add something to your fun!. In this section we have recorded a whole range of techniques that we have tried or which we have heard of and think sound practical and fun!. Feel free to try any or all of them, add to them if you want and, of course, let us have details of your special ways of getting off!.

The simple truth is there are as many different masturbation techniques as there are women masturbating, and that's more than you might think!! If you've never tried to masturbate before then I suggest you begin by using what you have at your fingertips, umm, your fingertips, before moving onto more advance techniques and spending your hard cash on sex toys!.
Toys are great but I personally think there is no better way to explore yourself than with your own fingers, after all you expect your partner to!

Fingers

Most girls probably first discover masturbation by innocently touching their genitals with their fingers!. Its therefore probably not surprising that hand and finger stimulation of the vulva and clitoris is reported to be the most common method of masturbation among women!. It is also the easiest as nothing extra is needed for a satisfying session!. So how to best do it!. Nothing is ever as simple as 'one best way for all' so some real life examples picked up from various sources is possibly the best way of illustrating what is involved:

Lying on the bed facing up with legs together and ankles crossed!. Index finger slipped between the labia majora so that it presses along the length of the clitoris!. Gentle but firm wrist movements to make the inserted finger rub the clitoris in up and down, side to side and circular motions!. Speed and strength of movement increased as excitement builds!. Sensations increased by squeezing thigh muscles together at same time as finger rubbing clitoris!.

Lying on back with legs drawn up and knees allowed to flop apart!. Palm of hand placed on pubic mound and fingers allowed to rest on open vulva!. Movement of hand to stimulate clitoris in side to side, up and down, circular and gentle pinching movements!.

Lying face down on bed with both hands underneath and between legs!. Fingers pressed against vulva and clitoris!. Pelvic thrusts to move the genitals up and down against the fingers!.

Sitting in a comfortable chair with legs well spread!. Taking clitoris between the tips of both index fingers, rolling it around and pulling back on its hood to get maximum stimulation!.

Water Play!.

Who would have thought that two chemicals, namely hydrogen and oxygen,could be used to give you as a female pleasure, but it's true there are more ways to masturbate in water than you might think!. Think bath tub here, think shower and think Jacuzzi/hot tub!. All three can be used to great effect in the wonderful world magic kingdom of clitorial massage!.

Shower
Let's look at the most common technique which involves the use of that neat little tool, the shower head!. The hand held kind are especially useful for this approach!. The first thing you want to do is adjust the temperature so that it is not too hot for the sensitive area of the vagina!. You can always turn up the heat once you are accustomed to the temperature!. Then find a comfortable position - either sitting on a seat within the shower, or lying down in the tub!. Shower stalls can be a bit confining for this form of masturbation, but there is usually enough room to sit on the floor with your legs bent!. I suggest for the first time that you do this that you not stand!. I've found that when I'm nearing climax that my legs tend to weaken, and we don't want any unnecessary trips to the emergency room when you accidentally slip and fall!.

Now, take the shower head and let the water spray over your body, feel the tingling sensations as it sprays against your breasts!. Imagine the sensations are being created by the hands of your lover and spray where you want to feel the touch!. Slowly make your way down your torso to your vaginal area!. Spreading your legs, let the water reach up and down the insides of your thighs, and when your ready for advancing, move it closer to your clit!. Remember that direct contact with your clit may be overpowering, so try moving the water stream back and forth!. Try bringing it closer, and moving it farther away to cover a larger area!.


You also might note that shower massagers come with many different settings to adjust the streams of the water - everything from mist to pulse!. Experiment, try them all! Start with the lightest amount of pressure and work your way up!. If you are sitting, you can always operate the water with one hand, and use the fingers on the other hand to either stimulate your breasts and nipples, or you can insert a fingWww@Answer-Health@Com

Hotdogs!.!.!. use ******* hotdogs lol!. (got it from family guy)

or u could get an older friend to buy one from an adult store lol!. (they have to be real cool though)

don't tell your parents about it!.!. masterbation tends to be a private thing!.!. but it is completely normal!.!.!. many girls do it when they are in the shower!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Here is a way to get back at your parents and have fun at the same time!. Use your mom and/or dads tooth brush!. Just stick it up there and rub all around!. IT WILL FEEL GREAT!!! DO IT!Www@Answer-Health@Com

There are many, many ways to masturbate!. You can grind a pillow!. You can also rub your clitoris and finger yourself!. Find what pleasures you! Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you asked your parents for mastrbating toys!.!.!.!.!.!. :O

ewww, thats just wrong, forget about it and do something in your life thats worth doing!

*freaked out face*Www@Answer-Health@Com

haha ummm u think of reli reli horny fantatsies and like do wht feels naturally keeps rubbin it nd u shud COME mmm mmm mmmdo u wnt help!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

yeah just rub the cliterous area fast and finger yourself!.!. |:
WEIRD QUESTIONWww@Answer-Health@Com

!.!.!.SHOWERHEAD WORKS JUST FINEWww@Answer-Health@Com

just rub it real fast

LOL!

SHUNDA GETS 9 THUMBS DOWN

you guys are naughty!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well, I urge you to think about what you are doing!. Masturbating is a sin and God can see you doing it, and would not be pleased!. Just imagine masturbating in front of your parents, that's what it will be like when you masturbate!. God sees all and know all, and we will have to answer to him when he comes back!. God loves you and wants you to be saved, not throwing your time aways masturbating, that's what the devil wants you to do!. HOw old are you!?Www@Answer-Health@Com





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