:( Is givng up the best answer?!

Elesha, what you need is not to end your life, but to end your past!.
I know it is difficult, but I need you to try and move on!. I know it is difficult but you have to first realize -- and truely realize -- that it was NOT your fault what happened!.
Secondly, although it might seem ridiculous, I need you to try and see a new beginning!. Find a hobby or interest or new friends!.!.!.NO drugs!.
Now, i need to know whether you are living with the people who did this to you!. Are they family members!? Do you know who they are!? If you do, I really need you to call for help!.
Speak to a friend!. Tell someone who is able to bring you to a doctor!.
It is never to late to speak up!.
Things will get better though, I promise you!!!
Also, tell your counselor what you are telling us!.
I need you to tell yourself everyday that you need to let go of the past and move on!. It seems pointless, but it will help out a lot!.
Good luck^^Www@Answer-Health@Com

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ELESHA!.!.!.you will learn to love yourself! like you said "stolen" someone took something they had no right to !.!.!.don't harm yourself on purpose because of what someone else did!!.!.!.you are better than that! because if you weren't you would not be here today!.!.!.there is a reason you are alive!.!.!.God has you on His mind and in His sight! bad things happened but he never left you and never will!!.!.!.Who knows who you will be or the power that is inside of you!.!.!.your story may help someone else years from now who feels like they want to die as well and if you are not here to help and guide them with your story then how will they survive!? YOU must survive and live so that you can help the countless, innocent children who will be hurt as well!.!.!.you are an inspiration to me and I don't even know you! Please pray and keep going to counseling!.!.!.get your conselor's number so that in times you feel the pain is too much you can reach out to the and say "hey, I need help now"!!.!.!.you are so powerfull and strong and you have a great life waiting for you! don't let the person or persons who hurt you take that away from you!!.!.!.Giving up is never the best!!.!.!.you are a fighter even if you don't know it yet!!.!.!.look at how far you've come!.!.!.!Www@Answer-Health@Com

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aw honey please dont take your life!. talk to someone you realy really trust!. and just tell them how your feeling or if you dont feel like you have that then write everything down in a journal and only open the journal when you feel like you need to vent!. dont ever read it when your feeling good cuz it could bring you down!. right sticky notes and stick them on your mirror saying good stuff about you!.
such as your beautiful inside and out!.
you have a great personality and so on!. so that way you have those reminders daily or whenever you look in the mirror!.
but please dont take your life!. its not worth the pain that will be left with you family!. trust me i've been through what your going through and its hard!. but you just gotta push through and keep telling yourself its only gunna get better from here!.

if you wanna talk you can email me if you'd like
babi_j92@yahoo!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com

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giving up is not the best answer!.!.many people want to kill themselves at one point its seems to b the best and easiest solutions to problems!. its really hard when you are doing many things and it seems that things do not work!. my best advise for you is to pick up a hobby!. u need to feel interested in other things!. explore your options do things that you never though they were possible!. You need to find joy in something also try to join clubs!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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No, suicide is never the best answer! You should continue taking counseling, after some time, you'll feel better!. Just don't give up and try to involve yourself in things you love to do!. Maybe music, or some sports! Hope i helped you out a little (: Good luck with everything!Www@Answer-Health@Com

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oh honey youll be fine dont worry about it so much!. you only have a few more years before you can move out and be who you want to be!. suicide isnt the answer, if you have a religeon try going to church more!. it sounds weird to some but it can really help you through!. i hope you benefit from thisWww@Answer-Health@Com

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dont kill yourself, :( soooo ,many people that you dont realise would do this but everyone around you would miss you!. and there is a guy out there who is meant to be with you, and he wont get married ever!. Also try out for a sport take your energy and anger out in that :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

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If you are not a troll, I suggest you seek out professional help!. Most of us cannot help you up here!. But I will definitely keep you in my thoughts and pray to the higher power to see you through this!. Many abused kids have made it through!. Don't give up hope!Www@Answer-Health@Com

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aww, dont kill yourself! find something continuous to do with your friends!. im talking something you can do every day to keep your mind off it!.
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NONONONONONONONONONONONOOOOOOO!
Do Not Kill Yourself!
thats the stupidest thing ever, don't do it stay in counselingWww@Answer-Health@Com

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that sucks!.

uhhh seriously dont kill yourself!. thats soooo stupid!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Dont kill your self but find things to keep your mind off of it!Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Monique- ARE U A MORON!?!? WHAT KIND OF THING IS THAT TO SAY!.!.!.!.JERK



killing yourself only lets them win!.!.!.!.not the right thing to do!.i know!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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aww honey=[
dont do it, you know you shouldnt!.

therapy would be a good answer! =]Www@Answer-Health@Com

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well i kind of feel ur pain but not as bad!. see last year i was cornered into my cousins room and he came in and was touching inappropriately!. i didnt no wat to do and i was scared!. i never told my parents until this year when i told my teacher which told my parents!. i couldn't hold in the pain anymore!. wats more worse about is that he's my cousin were family and when family does that to u u kind of over think of the meaning of "family"!. once my parents found out they talked to my cousin parents about it!. w/ the drama going on w/ my relationship w/ my mom, drama w/ friends, school, and my cousin i just fell apart and i started cutting my self and i still do it! i also go to counseling but not "professional" i go to my school councilor!. i try to stop but its just a habit!. i also tried killing my self too! cuz sumtimes i think its not even worth living wen u have so many problems so y dont u just die so that u wont have to go through anymore pain! but please do not kill ur self! o and FYI im 15 too!

if u ever need to talk anyone about anything u can always e-mail me ncl_btncrt@yahoo!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com

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Sweetheart, I was abused in my last relationship, but the therapy helps, and as you get older you get stronger, and you think of the good things about your life, like friends and sunny days and waterslides, after a while, you are so proud that you made it and so strong!. It hurts that people would use your body for their own sick pleasures, and I know everybody tells you its not your fault!. It really isn't you were at the wrong place at the wrong time, and you can never blame yourself for that!. Everything hasn't been taken from you, your still alive, and life is the greatest thing on earth!. It feels like he stole my body sometimes, but I know that my family and my friends love me even when they yell at me =P!. The hurt will fade over time, you have to give it that time!. The nightmares will fade and you will feel better, Wouldn't you rather die happy!? If you die now you will forever be miserable because you never had the time to heal!. There is no escape, only endurance!. I believe that you can heal, because I did, and I know how bad it hurts!. My advice is to do something you really love to do!. Do the thing that makes you happier than anything else!. Theres always something!. If you like music, dance, because nobody can keep you down!. If you like to read, pretend your the character and get lost in the story!. And realize that you are you, and theres only one of you out there, and you've got so much to do in the future!. You might grow up to lead a womens house for abuse victims, or be a speaker and help millions of people who have gone through it too!. You might grow up to do your dream job and become famous and everyone will know your name!. Your not escaping your memories by being dead, your taking them into your grave with you!. And whoever did that to you would really be taking your life!. You have a choice now, you can give them everything and take all you have to offer away from the world, or you can live and learn to love yourself!. You aren't somebodies used up piece of trash, You are alive!. You are strong enough to ask for help!. Sometimes life hurts so bad, but afterwards fun is funner, love is deeper, happiness is happier, all because you know you finally won!. They dont have that hold on your life anymore, and you control it!. The good is worth going through the bad!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Things do get better!. It just takes time, and help!. You said you're getting counseling!. Maybe you need to go more frequently, or get started on anti-anxiety medication!. I was attacked a few years ago (it wasn't sexual, but was still terrifying)!. I was having panic attacks, and even the anxiety medication wasn't helping much!. I found a great form of therapy that turned my whole world around!. It's called EMDR!. EMDR stands for eye movement desensitization and reprocessing!. What they do is use your eye movements to reprogram your mind so you stop having flash backs and anxiety!. It was amazing how quickly it helped me to overcome my anxiety and panic attacks!. Please don't take your life, and consider getting more help!. There is so much in this world that is good, don't allow some monster to steal that away from you!. You're a strong person, and you can take your own life back! Check out this site and see if you can find a doctor in your area who is trained in EMDR!. http://www!.emdr!.com/

You can also call these organizations to help you work through the pain you're feeling!.
http://www!.rainn!.org/
http://www!.suicidepreventionlifeline!.org!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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