Why do some women get pregnant by multiple men who they only dated for a couple !


Question: Why do some women get pregnant by multiple men who they only dated for a couple months!?
I know some one who has 2 little daughters and 1 son on the way!. Her 8 y/o girl she does not have custody of and lives with her grandparents who do have custody- the father is semi-involved with her!. She has a 4 y/o girl who lives with her but doesn't have her own bed and sleeps with her mom who lives in her parents garage turned room- the father is not involved at all!. She dated a guy for a few months and got pregnant again and wants to keep this third child- the father will most likely have no involvement with her or the child!.
WHY DO WOMEN DO THIS!?! She won't give the child up for adoption, which would be best because she won't be able to provide a good positive fulfilling life or a father for her son!.
I know she hasn't pursued any of her baby daddy's for support so i don't kno what she doing, do you!?
It's like she has kids as a momento from each guy she briefly dates, i mean come on! Her kids are the one's who suffer!.You would think after her first kid @ 16 shed use B/C!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
She has low self-esteem and feels unloved!. By having lots of sex she can feel loved!. But if you don't have many standards as to who you have sex with, then you're going to be having sex with the lowest of the low, irresponsible and bad!. By having a baby, you can have someone who loves you unconditionally!. And you can have a memento of the guy who you thought loved you!. But it's never enough, so you have to do it all over again!. Many girls fall into this pattern!. But many, when faced with the realization that they have a child to take care of, straighten up, become responsible, and grow up!. Others are stupid or pathetic, and don't!. Or can't!. It's a tragedy that will likely repeat when her own children reach puberty!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

they are STUPID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and dont give me any of this !.!.!. well she got good grades and has a 4!.0 in collage crap!! its the difference between education and application!.!.!. summery!.!.!.!.stupid easy ho'sWww@Answer-Health@Com

Because they don't practice safe sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

one word!.!.!.!. S L U T S!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's not because she's a S*L*U*T!.

The truth is that many people tend to have unprotected sex, the fact is that when a baby is born the parents will obviously feel a link to the child, hence why they wouldn't give the child up for adoption even though it would be better for all parties involved!.

And are her children really suffering!?

After spending a large proportion of my life helping people medically, all doctors can see when a child has been abused, and I hate to say it, but most cases I've seen or been involved in are foster-child cases!.

So, let me ask you this, is the child better off with a woman that it knows will love them unconditionally, or with a family, where the possibility of abuse and neglect is all to possible!?

And why are you being so judgemental about this lady!? You say that she hasn't pursued the fathers for money etc!. Don't you think this might be because she is really cut up about breaking up!?Www@Answer-Health@Com





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