Am I making the right desision?!


Question: Am I making the right desision!?
I'm currently a virgin!. I do plan on having sex!. But i'll only have sex with my future boyfriend after we've been togther for about a year and knowing he won't break up with me right after we have sex!. do you think this is a right thing to do!? because i've been in a sistuation where the guy wanted to have sex the first date but i said noWww@Answer-Health@Com


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I wouldn't say necessarily after a certain time limit - 6 months, 8 months, a year, or even 3!. It's not smart to say "Oh well we've been together a year, now we can have sex" or anything like that!.
What you should wait for is when you are ready (you'll know, trust me), you're absolutely in love with your partner, and you trust him more than you have any other guy!.
Mostly, follow your heart - and your head - not your hormones (or his)!. And never, EVER let yourself get pressured into sex - if he says "If you loved me you would do it", he doesn't love you OR deserve you, I don't care HOW great a guy he is!.
And don't listen to the judgmental people I'm sure you'll get answering who say "How DARE you not wait until you are married blah blah blah"!. Everyone's different!.
Also, I don't know how old you are, but I wouldn't recommend having sex under 18!. It's a lot harder to comprehend stuff like "Will I regret this in six months!?" And make sure you're protected when you do! It only takes one time!.
Good luck hun!.!.!.I hope you find and carry out what's right for YOU (and if that's waiting until marriage, then more power to you!)Www@Answer-Health@Com

I personally say you should wait longer than a year, or even be married, but its good to have standards!!!!!

Never, EVER sleep with a guy simply because he wants you to!!!!! Stick to your morals and don't have sex before YOU are ready, whenever that is be it a year into the relationship or after marrage!.

If a guy really loves you, he WILL wait to have sex with you!. Sex is not everything in a relationship, especially when you've only been in it a year or less!.

You are absolutely doing the right thing!!!!! I applaud your decision and pray you stick with it!. I'm so proud of you for saying no to that ****** who wanted sex on the first date!!!!

Stand strong and do what you know is right!. If he EVER equates anything to sex, (as in, you don't love me because you wont have sex with me,) then dump him!. He isn't worth it!! You are also avoiding all of the "problems" that sex can bring!. Pregnancy, STD's and heartbreak just to name a few!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Absolutely!. me and my boyfriend have been together nearly a year, and we're planning on it real soon!. And i trust he won't leave me!. It's brilliant you said no, my last ex even asked me to meet behind a gate for a ''quicky'' I was worried and stuff so i said no, thank god he dumped me after that, its obvious he only wanted to use me and take my virginity!. Be safe, use a condom, and dont let him pressure you into anything!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think you are absolutely right!. First sex should be very special with loved one!. Read more about first sex and safe sex in my website!. Unfortunately I cannot send you my website connection (system is refusing) but you can find my website from my other answers!.
Be Healthy and Happy!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I will tell you a year isnt enough, tell him you want to wait until marriage (not really but just tell him that) and see what he does!.
if he stays anyway that means that's not all he wants bang him after that year like you originally intended!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

That sounds perfectly reasonable to me!. I wait until i know the relationship will last and till i know he loves me and i love him until i have sex with him!. You sound like a really smart girl to me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I hope you're happily married firstWww@Answer-Health@Com





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