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Question: Is it fair to break up with a girl because she refuses to participate in a certain type of intimacy!?
I recently broke up with a girl, and was quite honest about the reason!. She refused to allow me to have intercourse with a certain part of her body, and got upset even when I put a single lubed finger in there!. She would only tolerate regular sex!.
I told her outight that if she didn't trust me to be intimate with her, I didn't want to stay around!. She began to sob, and offered me what I wanted, but I didn't want to get that through coercion; I wanted her to want it for herself, and to SHARE the experience with her - not to force it on her!.
Were my actions fair, or was I being unfair to her in some way!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
I told her outight that if she didn't trust me to be intimate with her, I didn't want to stay around!. She began to sob, and offered me what I wanted, but I didn't want to get that through coercion; I wanted her to want it for herself, and to SHARE the experience with her - not to force it on her!.
Were my actions fair, or was I being unfair to her in some way!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
You get points for being honest, and for not accepting her offer when she was clearly unhappy about it and only offering so you would stay, *but*!.!.!.
*Why* were you with this girl!? Because if you're willing to break up with her just because she doesn't like the idea of a 'certain type' of sex, that doesn't say much about your relationship in the first place!. You say you want her to trust you, but at the same time you're disrespecting her opinion!. Why should she trust someone who doesn't respect her!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
*Why* were you with this girl!? Because if you're willing to break up with her just because she doesn't like the idea of a 'certain type' of sex, that doesn't say much about your relationship in the first place!. You say you want her to trust you, but at the same time you're disrespecting her opinion!. Why should she trust someone who doesn't respect her!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
In anal sex is that important to you, then yes, it's perfectly fair to break up with her for not wanting to do that!. It's obvious you want different things in your relationship and that's ok!. If it was me, I would appreciate the honesty!. Or at least, I would appreciate it in time, after the hurt had subsided!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well this kinda a hard question to answer!.!.!.!.I understand how you'd feel she didn't trust you enough but mabey by not doing what she didn't want to do would have helped her trust you more and mabey that would brought her into showing you really liked her and didn't just "want some"!. But that's kinda harsh breaking up with her just because of that!.!.!?You could try telling her that you didn't feel like she trusted you and you got frustrated and overreacted!?
*Hope I helped*Www@Answer-Health@Com
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you were being totally unfair!.!.
if you really loved and cared about her, youd stay with her even if she didnt want it up the butt!
heck, if you TRULY loved her, you would even stay with her if she didnt wanna have sex at all!.
you need to learn some respect for women and realize it isnt all about you!.
she's much better off without your sorry ***!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
if you really loved and cared about her, youd stay with her even if she didnt want it up the butt!
heck, if you TRULY loved her, you would even stay with her if she didnt wanna have sex at all!.
you need to learn some respect for women and realize it isnt all about you!.
she's much better off without your sorry ***!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i get it but at the same time, it's jacked up!. If she's not comfortable with it up her A** then why would you try and make her!. You guys need to understand that feels WAY better to you the it does for us!. Why don't you let her stick her fingers up your butt and see how it feels, i highly doubt you could handel it for a few minutes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I had aguy try to pull that crap on me, 'if you loved me you'd do it'!.!.!.!. i told him 'if you loved me you wouldn't try to force me'!.
It looks like you were trying to coerce her by telling her you wouldn't stay around!. If it's so important to guys to have anal - get a boyfriend!Www@Answer-Health@Com
It looks like you were trying to coerce her by telling her you wouldn't stay around!. If it's so important to guys to have anal - get a boyfriend!Www@Answer-Health@Com
yeah you horny dick head! life isnt all about sex no matter what the t-shirts say!. she is lucky to be rid of you asshole! you should be with a girl because you like her not because you want to have sex the way you want it and make her feel uncomfortableWww@Answer-Health@Com
you were being very unfair!. Dumping a girl because she doesn't feel comfortable with a certain type of sex is very jerkish!. She quite honestly is better off without you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
SHES BETTER OFF WITHOUT U!.YOUR ONLY THINKING OF YOURSELF
BECAUSE IF U WEREN'T,YOU WOULDNT LEAVE HER JUST FOR NOT HAVING ANAL!!
how bout she can strap one on and jam u in the ***!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
BECAUSE IF U WEREN'T,YOU WOULDNT LEAVE HER JUST FOR NOT HAVING ANAL!!
how bout she can strap one on and jam u in the ***!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ya dude you should try to find a girl witha good personality and someone who can like what you like in the bed!.!.!.!.!.!.(or wherever)!.!.!.!.lol!.!.!. =]Www@Answer-Health@Com
Since you are so interested in anal, then she should get a strap on and have her try it on you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No your actions were not fair at all!.Www@Answer-Health@Com