Condoms? How do you bring up the subject?!


Question: Condoms!? How do you bring up the subject!?
I am 31 and recently divorced (like for the past year and a half)!. So this is kind of all new to me!.

(April 2007 to March 2008)The first guy I was with (for about a year-ish) used condoms the first 2-3 months we were together!. !. !.and then as trust built - we stopped using them!. he had them on him and ready!. pressure was off of me!.

(April 2008)i met another guy and it surprised me that he went in bareback!. !. !. I just kept assuming "any minute now, he will get dressed for the occassion"!. !. !. he didn't!. He's was the only one I was sleeping with - but!! I don't know if I was the only one he was sleeping with!.

so I just met a new guy and we had sex - and again we were kissing and he just slid right in!. !. !. no leaning over to the night stand or anything!.

Then once it starts - I say nothing!. !. !. and panic afterwards!! mostly about diseases!. I have my tubes tide!.

HOW DO I ASK!? What is okay to say!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
How do you ask!? You reach into your purse and say "Here, let me put this on you!."

Remind him that it's as much for his protection as for yours!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I met a lady and we were just talking, she asked me to massage her feet, she was a nurse, things started happening, when I realized we were going to have sex, the first thing I asked her was the "Birth Control Question!." She smiled and told me she had had a hysterectomy and we had a good time!. tell these guys, no condoms no sex!. You need to protect yourself!. Obviously they could care less about you!. You need to protect yourself!.
Good LuckWww@Answer-Health@Com

This is a good question and a very important one!. When you are in an intimate situation and you want to go further, then you need to say something, like: "Do you have a condom!?" If he says no, then you need to stop!. If your at your place then you could keep condoms close by!.

It's not worth getting an STD or HIV just because you were afraid to bring up the subject of protection!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

When he goes in without a condom just say, "Wait, do you have a condom!?" and if he doesn't, then don't have sex!. You should keep some with you also!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You knwo what when he goes to "slid" it in tell him to put a wrapper on his junk he aint gonna say no hes already pumped and ready to go haha not jokeing just tell him that he'll laughWww@Answer-Health@Com

My Boyfriend and I are only newly together, And I am the frist girl that he uses condoms with!.

Its just something that you have to talk about!. I said to him look, I only will have sex with a condom, so he has just learnt to live with wearing one!.

I also asked him to get a std check!. By doing this we found out that he has HSV2 (herpes) He never knew he had this as he does not have symptoms!.

So i am not scaring you but!.!.!. if the guy you are sleeping with, is willing to sleep with you without a condom, chances are that he has slept with most girls without a condom!.

It really would be worth going to get checked for stds!. Just to be on the safe side!. And then just tell him he has to wear a condom from now on!.

If he says to you!.!.!. oh but what is the point we have done it without a condom already!. Just tell him that he needs to start!. Herpes for instance, has periods that is active and non active!. but still no sypmtoms!. So!.!.!.!. what i am saying to you is please wear condoms!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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