The big OOOO?!


Question: The big OOOO!?
I'm kinnda embarassed to ask this but!.!.!.!.i cant seem to orgasm (im a girl) my boyfriend has tried for over 45 minutes before and it feels really really good but i just cant finish, pleeeaaase help!. I feel so bad tht i cant and i really want to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Sensitive question!.!.!.
You'll probably get so many different answers it's not funny!.!.!.

May I suggest you stop trying so hard!.!.!. that's the number one reason for both men and women not to finish well or at all!.!.!. the stress and worry about not making it "perfect"!.
I guess the best description of an orgasm would be "relief from EXTREME torture"!. An extremely enjoyable relief non-the-less!.

Either way, men are simple, and can get moving on this in a second!.
Women on the other hand, need some time!.
Make it a day event, not just 45 minutes!. Dress nice, spend the day together, tease a little!.!.!. both of you!.!.!. make it as special as you can!. Get excited about thinking about it!. This will give you time to get your system in gear and used to what it needs, wants, and then expects!. It's like a tea kettle basically!. A watched pot never boils!. But get distracted for what seems only a few seconds, and you have one heck of an explosion!.!.!.
Also, test some colognes out that guys wear!. Go to the store and smell a few at a time, not all at once!.!.!. see which ones trigger those butterflys inside, and see if your partner likes them as well!. Use small amounts at first, too much will kill any mood!. If you like this idea, do the same for him!.
A neat trick is to spray your favorite cologne on his desk light or room lamps, on the light bulbs themselves!. This way when the lite is on, he can still smell your cologne!.!.!.

But simply put, don't push it!.!.!. no pun intended!.!.!. and don't feel afraid to let your partner know what you really enjoy!.!.!.
Hope this helps!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well i am 16 and he just turned 18!. we have had talks and broken down and cried about this kind of situation!. i have faked and i have told him that!.!.!. but the best thing to do without the acces of toys and things like that is just relax and focus on your breathing:)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Some women don't Orgasm at all!.
If you can reach the climax on your own, then maybe your just nervous with him!?
Show him how to touch you!.
Try new things!.
Give it time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You mean through sex or oral!? Some girls cannot have on thru sex at all!. If its oral, relax and dont think about having an orgasam, just enjoy it and it will come!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hi,

Pl!. try alternate methods ( mast!. )!.You can use your electric tooth brush to get the same results!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

some women can't--

explore urself by urself!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

try new things!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

experiment with toys alone and togetherWww@Answer-Health@Com

vibratorWww@Answer-Health@Com





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