My friend keeps skipping gym every day whats wrong with her?!
Question: My friend keeps skipping gym every day whats wrong with her!?
and after school she wont walk home with me, instead, she passes her house, we are like 3 blocks apart, and goes to the gas station with older kids, and she waits, and i think they buy her cigars, she might be smoking and shes only 10, and her breath is bad like smoke, and she is not breathing super good, and not being active every day, what should i do with her, should i tell her mom or my mom, or our teacher!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Being a good friend to someone doesn't always mean doing what they want you to do, so I think it's great you know you need to step up!. Tell her mom, and bring your mom if you feel better doing it that way!. Just say "I am worried that Susie is smoking because I have smelled it on her breath and she has been hanging out at the gas station with older kids"!. If I were her mom, that would be all I needed to hear!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I hate to tell you this, but you need to spy on her!.!.!.You need to get visible proof of what she's doing!. If you confront her about right away, she'll autmatically get mad and think your accusing her because as of now you have no proof of what she's doing!. And if she does hang out with older kids be careful if you tell on her, because when she explains the situation to the older kids, they could do work on you!. Get proof, then say you had to pick something up at the store and saw her!. Don't say you can't do this and that because honestly if this girl smokes, she'll be a little bit tougher then to break down on what her 10 year old friend told her!.!.!.Just tell her you won't stand for this and although you'll still be her friend and be there for her you can't control her actions!. Or beat around the bush and say without even mentioning anything about her, you saw some kid on the news that died from a month of smoking!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
dont go to her mom first( if u did that to me id be angry like ur ganging up on me) but instead first go talk to ur freind and try hanging out with her more and not just you get the rest of your close friends doing this and then go talk to her about wut u think is happening but try not accusing her and if u cant get through to her go to her mom but try not to go to ur mom or a teacher keep to as few ppl as possibleWww@Answer-Health@Com
First tell your mom!. then ask her to go with you to tell your friend's mom!. She is in big trouble - hanging with older kids, skipping class, smoking - these are things that can ruin her life - she could end up pregnant, sick or missing!. You are being a good friend, but please understand that she may not think so for a while!. It's hard to do the right thing sometimes, but it's worth it!.
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If your really concerned about it i would tell an adult, and certainly if she is only ten years old!. If you aren't certain that that is was is going on then ask to go with her one day and bring another friend just in case but don't go if you know for sure this is what she is doing, you don't want to get involved in that!. One of the best things you could do is ask her though, i know it could be tough though!.!.!.!.I hope things get better!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
It seems that you're concerned for your friend which is a good thing!. Why not talk to your mum about it first!. Tell her your worried about your friend but don't want to get her into trouble!. If not your mum, then is there a particular teacher you trust to tell!? Can you stay behind and ask to talk to that teacher, then explain what's on your mind!? Any adult that you trust would be a good idea!. They may be able to stop your friend from making more bad decisions!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If she is only 10 years old you need to tell her mom, everything!. Tell her where she is going after school, that she is skipping gym, and that you smell smoke on her breath!. 10 year old don't understand the dangers of hanging out with older kids and smoking!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
My opinion is tell her mom, 10 is just toooooo YOUNG for doing that, try talking to her and tell her that u r concerned
Hope this helps ^_^Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hope this helps ^_^Www@Answer-Health@Com
you should definitely talk to her first!. if she doesn't talk to you about it then you should tell your teacher!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
how bout talk to her first!.!.if shes hanging with this kind of crowd you dont want to associate with her anywayWww@Answer-Health@Com
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tell your mom, she'll know what to do!Www@Answer-Health@Com