Way to clear your mind in order to orgasm?!


Question: Way to clear your mind in order to orgasm!?
This is for women!. Men don't have this problem as much as women so I want their opinion!. I have a hard time doing it so I was wondering if some women had some suggestions!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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I have also read upon having an orgasm because i was having difficulty as well!.!. !. you have to concentrate on the moment, every touch, every stroke, every moan!.!. you also have to make it clear to your partner what you expect and what you like in the bedroom so you can better achieve your climax!.!.!. another one important thing you need to do is control your breathing!. you might be suprised but it influences it alotWww@Answer-Health@Com

Ok I me be able to help you out I sometimes have the same problem not that my husband don't make me have an orgasm!. BUt like you said women do have more trouble than men!. So heres what to do the next time your have sex while he's inside of you rub your clit fast or slow!. fast if he's a minute man becaues you want to have an orgasm before he dose!.slow if he's ok !. trust me you will have an orgasm!. But make sure you do that while he's inside of you going in and out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I am one of those people who can't clear her mind!. After years and years of yoga and meditation classes, I admit that I literally can not make my mind clear!.!.!. I CAN however think of peaceful things!. I have a vivid imagination, so I just steer my mind towards a colorful world inside my head!.

Same goes for sex!. I close my eyes and put my imagination to work on things that turn me on!. I like the feel of silk sheets at my back and warm sunshine on my front!. I like the smell of the ocean in the morning!. I imagine that there is half naked native boys fanning me with palm fronds!. I imagine a large platter of tropical fruit!.!.!. Hollowed out coconuts with a whole lot of rum in them, not to mention a tiny umbrella!. Oh, the imagery goes on for a while, but you get my point!. This is my idea of "clearing my mind!."

Once I've got myself in the right mindset, then my husband can come join me on my island paradise!. Or desert oasis!. Or wooded forest!. Or deep dark dungeon!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i know sometimes i have to focus on that b/c unfortunately as women we carry the world on our shoulders and when we are stressed it is hard to not think about all the issues in our life!. the one thing i know that works for me is i tell myself to NOT think of anything other than what is going on at the precise moment!. i let my body relax and focus on the areas that are getting the pleasure!. kinda when you get a full body massage we can relax and enjoy it it is almost the same concept!. good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

With me it's not so much a matter of clearing my mind, as getting it into the right place!.!.!.I end up trying to visualize things that are turn on's for me so I can stay focussed!. And, oddly enough relaxing your jaw makes a difference which as funny as it sounds I learned in lamaze LOL!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't worry about clearing your mind!.!.!.!.!.worrying about it will make the prob worse!.!.!.!.sometime making out with the guy as you are getting close will get you over the edge!. Let them know how they can tell when you are close so they can do what you like, for example kiss you or touch you etc!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Really really ocncentrate on what's going on down their!. Close your eyes and really embrace everything!. If your shy and a guy's doing it (not a toy) then this is going to be very hard!. Turn off the lights, that helps too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

close your eyes and think of a ogasm and to make one come up faster I sit under a tub faucet and put the fucet under my clit and make my legs tight and thats what I do and it works every timeWww@Answer-Health@Com

I sincerely hope my girlfriend doesn't think about what's she going to buy when she goes shopping tomorrow, when she is about to have an orgasm!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You probably are enjoying it as much as you should, have some phone sex and you'll have lots of orgasm's its a good way to exercise your mind!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Think about something that really arouses you whether it is an act itself or a fantasy and try to tune out everything else around you except your partner!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Stretch!. Breathe!. meditate!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm interested in this topic!. Never had an orgasm during penetration!. During oral sex though!Www@Answer-Health@Com

i guess this is because of so much "stress"!. yeah right!. maybe you just shouldnt be having sex then!. i have 0% stress never have never will!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

just think of you being with him alone and no one is around!
think about pleasure and forget about the "negative things"Www@Answer-Health@Com

Think about the man your with!. If he's good enough you shouldn't have anything on your mind other than him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't clear your mind!. Think about things that get you excited!. That ought to do it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

why do you always ask these crazy sexual questions lolWww@Answer-Health@Com

think of some thing that turns you on to have a orgasamWww@Answer-Health@Com

think were u would b happy and calm!. think who would b there!. i think abt my crush swimming lolWww@Answer-Health@Com

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