What is the best way to get my fiance to relax for anal sex?!


Question: What is the best way to get my fiance to relax for anal sex!?
The first time she ever tried it, was with me back a year ago, and she never complained of it hurting, or any discomfort!. we tried it bout a week after and ever since then it hurts her, she has tried using toys for bout thirty min b4 we try and the toys dont bother her, but it does when we do it, please help me on how to get her the most relaxed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
The fact of the matter is this: even if she's totally "into" it, the psychological stigma of it (because she's probably had time to think about it) might be making her tense up and she may never want to do it again!.

If you've used toys with success, but as soon as you switched to penile penetration it started to hurt, it would lead me to believe that it's more psychological than physical, and there's nothing you can do to overcome that except to talk to her!.

And in the end (no pun intended!), you may just have to accept that you'll have to have everything BUT the butt!.

If you force her (and this issue), you can cause irreparable harm to her bowels!.!.!.NOT cool!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

first of all with my dad was a doctor!.!.!.!.
!.!.!.!.
and I know all are going to boo me

but!.!.!.!. excuse the pun!.!.

that is not the hole God intended for you to use!.!.!.

AND THE BIG QUESTION IS
HAVE YOU EVER HAD ANYTHING PUT UP THERE!.!. PROBABLY NOT!.!.
MAYBE THE FIRST COUPLE OF TIMES SHE TRIED AND decided she does not like it

I KNOW FOR A FACT IT HURTS
I TRIED AND NEVER LIKED IT AND GOT THE SAME DARN REPLY TO ME!.!.!.
NO NO I AM NOT YELLING WITH MY CAPS keys on

BUT trying to make a point AND THE BIG POINT DROP IT LEAVE IT ALONE

AS THEY SAY !.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.GET OVER ITWww@Answer-Health@Com

Woman was given a vagina for a reason-What comes out of the anus!?Fecal matter!.loaded with e-coli and all kinds of bad bacteria!.You could cause her to have fistulas and other proplems-what's your adversion to useing the right part of her anatomy and thing of her and not yourself/Www@Answer-Health@Com

Maybe you should try letting her stick one of her toys up your *** - see how relaxed you feel!.

lol

But seriously, I agree with the answer above!. Maybe it is psycholgical and if it doesn't work then you'll just have to go without!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

are you sure she actually likes it,and dosent pretend to please you!?!?!?but other than that idea it stings like a %%&^**(^%% in the butt!.!. i know guys love it, but its not always welcomed with the ladies!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i would have her be on top when you do this so tht she can ease down and try to controll on how it goes in !.!.personally it hurts for me no matter what !.or try in shower maybe!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

try building up to it by using your fingers, one at a time, and then building up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You got to work your way slowly into it!. Try eating her *** out first for a bit!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

why have anul sex, why dont you just have vaginal sex, she will love it (i love it)Www@Answer-Health@Com

fact is,it kills!
lube does nout!
its still gna kill
get her drunk!lol it works untill she wakes up next morn!!!
have fun!xWww@Answer-Health@Com

why have anal!? vaginal is wayyyy better and she def!. won't mind that one :DWww@Answer-Health@Com





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