Whenever I touch myself it feel like I want to cry?!
Question: Whenever I touch myself it feel like I want to cry!?
Is it normal for this to happen!? It's not like I'm hurting myself!. I just feel like I have to cry all of a sudden!. It's one reason why I don't want to try having sex!.!. what if during it!.!. I start crying, by boyfriend would probably think he did something wrong!.
Is there something wrong with me or is this normal!? Has anyone felt the need to cry while touching yourself!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Is there something wrong with me or is this normal!? Has anyone felt the need to cry while touching yourself!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
i feel sum random emotions when im touching myself!. your hormones are going crazy and yours might cause you to get overemotional!. i doubt you would cry!. either way when you first have sex its not gonna be pleasent even if you didnt have this issue!. so dont worry about that!. no doctor is gonna explain how u feel while u masterbate, just keep experimenting and see how you react to different ways of masturbating!. good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
You say your not hurting yourself, but does it feel good!? Are you reaching orgasm!? If yes, then don't worry about it!.
Some people get a histamine-like response to sexual stimulation!. It's almost like having a seasonal allergy to sexual pleasure!. It has happened to both my wife and sister on rare occasions, but for some people it can happen all the time!. You might try some regular allergy medicines like Loratadine or Benedryl before enjoying yourself
DON'T WORRY!!! It isn't dangerous or anything!. Don't let stop you from enjoying yourself or becoming sexually active!. You might warn your boyfriend ahead of time, since it's nothing you need to be embarrassed about!.
Play, but play safe!
Best,
Ed, RNWww@Answer-Health@Com
Some people get a histamine-like response to sexual stimulation!. It's almost like having a seasonal allergy to sexual pleasure!. It has happened to both my wife and sister on rare occasions, but for some people it can happen all the time!. You might try some regular allergy medicines like Loratadine or Benedryl before enjoying yourself
DON'T WORRY!!! It isn't dangerous or anything!. Don't let stop you from enjoying yourself or becoming sexually active!. You might warn your boyfriend ahead of time, since it's nothing you need to be embarrassed about!.
Play, but play safe!
Best,
Ed, RNWww@Answer-Health@Com
i know a girl who crys when she orgasms!.!.!.tears are a common reaction to feelings or sensations that are very intense!.!.!.ever been so happy you cried!? sexual pleasure (orgasm) can be very very intense!.!.!.!.especially when it builds and builds!.!.and when it finally happens the intensity of the pleasure you feel can be almost overwhelming!.!.!.it feels so good that you cant stand it!.!.!.!.and tears can be a common reaction, also a feeling almost akin to relief!.!.or gratitude!.!.!.lol!.!.!.like "OMG yes!.!.!.thank you!!.!.!.!.and besides all that!.!.!.!.!.your boyfriend will probably think that sob-like whimper coming from you during sex is totally sexy!.!.!.!.and his ego will think so too!.!.!.!.no worries!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i really doubt there is anything seriously wrong with you!.!.!. the thing is the clitoris is innervated in such a way that it is pretty much in tandem/tied up with other parts of your body,!.!.!. something called parasympathetic nervous system i think, im sorry i dont remember as much,!.!.!. anyway,!.!.!. its pretty much something like ur clitoris is supplied by a nerve that goes back to your brain to tell you of the sensations you are receiving down there, and as it travels up to the brain, the nerve ganglia joins other nerve ganglia from other parts of your body to form bigger cords, then trunks of nerves until they reach ur brain!. Since you mentioned that its not like u feel pain when u touched urself there, then it probbly means theres nothing wrong with the circuit that conveys info from ur clitoris to the brain,!.!.!. what has probbly gone a little haywire is that somewhere along the nerves, something like a trip switch has been knocked, and each time u feel sensation from ur clitoris, an automatic signal is sent to ur lacrimation system, causing u to cry!.
i really doubt this should be a cause of concern, unless ur crying has become uncontrollable to the point that it has disrupted ur uh, sexual activities--- which it has!. Just talk to ur boyfriend about it,!.!.!. and tell him that u just need some good emotions to be associated with ur clitoris, and if he could please help you!.!.!. haha!.!.!. gallant hero that he is, he probbly wont objectWww@Answer-Health@Com
i really doubt this should be a cause of concern, unless ur crying has become uncontrollable to the point that it has disrupted ur uh, sexual activities--- which it has!. Just talk to ur boyfriend about it,!.!.!. and tell him that u just need some good emotions to be associated with ur clitoris, and if he could please help you!.!.!. haha!.!.!. gallant hero that he is, he probbly wont objectWww@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds to me like you have had a bad sexual experience when you were a child!? Have you ever been molested!.
Or!.!.!.!. were you brought up that this is wrong and nasty to do!?
I don't think this is normal and something in your past is causing it!. Search your heart!.
I suggest you wait and have sex after you are married, explain this to your spouse so he can support you through it!. Marry a very sensitive understanding person!.
A fly by night boyfriend would not understand and he may tell people and start rumors!. Keep your legs closed for now with boys!. You are NOT ready to be with any one until you are comfortable with yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Or!.!.!.!. were you brought up that this is wrong and nasty to do!?
I don't think this is normal and something in your past is causing it!. Search your heart!.
I suggest you wait and have sex after you are married, explain this to your spouse so he can support you through it!. Marry a very sensitive understanding person!.
A fly by night boyfriend would not understand and he may tell people and start rumors!. Keep your legs closed for now with boys!. You are NOT ready to be with any one until you are comfortable with yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
no go to a doctor!. srrryWww@Answer-Health@Com