How do you tell your parents you were raped?!


Question: How do you tell your parents you were raped!?
I'm really scared and don't want to hurt them!. How do I tell them!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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First of all I'm sorry this has happend to you!. I hope that you were not to scared to report the crime, I'm sure it is or was difficult but so important!. I also hope you are getting some counseling, you may feel like everything is alright, but there are things that may sneek up on you before you know what is going on!. Please make sure you take care of yourself!.

As for your parents I think you need to sit them down and tell them what happened, for your sake and theirsI would spare them any details about how or where, unless you are a minor and if you are you need to be upfront and honest!. If you are an adult, you wouldn't necessarily need to tell them, a lot depends on the relationship you have with them, which I am assuming that it is a good relationship or you wouldn't be concerned with hurting them!. Which brings up that issue, you will not hurt your parents, of course there will be emotions but they won't be directed at you, they will be sad this happened to you and I'm sure angry, but please remember it isn't at you!. If you are worried about telling your dad then possibly start with sitting mom down and telling her first and ask her to explain to dad!. Sometimes dad's are very protective and it may be best if mom can talk with him privately so he can work through his emotions with her privately!.

Again, I am sorry this has happened!. I hope that you are able to have this discussion it may help with the healing process!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Oh my, i'm sorry!. If this just happend in the last day or two you need to get to a hospital so they can get evidence, you should also contact the police, right away!. As for your parents, they will NOT be angry or dissapointed with you!. You did not have sex, sex is a weapon of violence, a method, rape is not sex!. You are a victim of violence no different than if you had been shot or beat up, but the method is different!. If you did not give consent, you were raped and that is violence and you need to tell someone, anyone mostly for yourself, but also there will be other victims of this boy/man!. I hope the best for you!. Tell somone, you need all the support you can get, and your parents will give you the most!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hi, please tell them, I'm a mother of 6, 4 are grown up, I would like to think thay would talk to me if any thing like that happened to them, It would hurt my feelings much more if thay did not trust my love enough to confide in me, and let me help them,, so please tell them ,my heart goes out to you, take care and know that this was not your fault, their are some evil people,take care xWww@Answer-Health@Com

omg im so sorry!.!.!.!.you could start by asking your mom how she would tell her parents if something happend to her but she was to scared to tell them!. that will catch her attention and she will ask you why you are asking that!. and then just say well what if someone you know and love was raped how would u tell their parents!? and your mom will most likely ask who was raped!. then u say!.!.!.me!.!.!.

so like this---
you-mom!.!.i have to ask you something
mom-what is it hunny!? "something close to that*
you-when you were little and something happened to u but you were to scared to tell ur mom what did you do!?
mom- what do you mean *or* why what happend!?
you-well what if someone you knew and loved was raped how do you think they should tell their parents!?
^ at this point she is gonna have a good idea of what happend to you and is going to do everything in her power to help and keep you safeWww@Answer-Health@Com

First of all its not your fault!. You need to sit them down and and tell them!. If you cant do that then write them a note telling the that you were raped!. Tell them where,who,when on the note!. Yes they probly will start to cry only because someone hurt there baby!. If it was resent then you need to take all of you cloths and put them in a bag and go to the hospital!.But please tell them!. REMBER ITS NOT YOU FAULT!. good luck amd my prayer are with you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

First of all, it's not your fault!. You wouldn't be the person hurting them!. They will feel hurt because they love you so much but they will want to do everything they can to help you!. I'm sure you will feel better when you tell them!. Together you can decide what kind of treatment and action you need to take!. Do not hold this in!. Please tell them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Oh I'm so sorry!.

If I were you, I would talk to my mother first!. (or with your older sister if you have one)!. You definetely should talk about it!. If you don't, THAT's what gonna hurt them most!.

If you're still in school and still uncomfartable with telling it to your parents, talk to your counselor first!. Maybe you and she/he can tell it to your parents together!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I was 13yrs old when it happened to me, my parents found out as soon as I walked through the door, I just burst into tears and told them!. Believe me its soo much easier telling them, you shouldnt keep something like this to yourself you've been through enough!. If you cant tell them yourself then get a close friend or relative to tell them!. You wont hurt your parents but you do need to tell them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Telling them won't make them feel hurt!. They might cry, but it's only because they are sad too, not because they're angry or anything!. Rape isn't your fault, and don't feel guilty or bad!. They will still love you and will support you!. Just say "there's something important I need to talk to you guys about!.!.!." and go from there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I am so sorry!.
But you need to tell them, if not someone!. If you are too embarassed to tell them, tell an adult you love and/or trust, like a counselor, an aunt, or even the police!. But your parents NEED to know, for your own safety!. ESPECIALLY if it's an event that can continue to happen, like if you are still in contact with the rapist, or should i say fukbag!.

God bless, I'll be praying for you!Www@Answer-Health@Com

thats terrible

i know you are probably trying to blame yourself right!? you think its your faut!.!.!?

well its not your fault at all!.!.so dont worry about that!.!.you parents wont be mad at you!.!.they need to know, just sit them down and tell them what happened

good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

You're not going to hurt them!. They're going to hurt because you've been hurt!. That's unavoidable!. You haven't done anything wrong!. You've been victimized and your parents can help you!. Don't live in silence any longer!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

if you were really raped it wont hurt them! i understand why your scared but you need to tell them! it will be ok! maybe try just telling one of your parents!. and remember that its not going to hurt them! if you were hurt thats all they care about!Www@Answer-Health@Com

just tell them that you need to have a conversation with them, sit them down, and tell it to them straight!. There's no other way!. Have you been to the hospital!? If not, make sure they take you!. This is a serious situation!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

This is a very serious situation!. It will hurt them but they won't be mad at you, why would they be!? Sit them down and tell them the story!. Make sure nobody else is nearby, like siblings if you have any!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just tell them they will help you their your parent !.and they will be there no matter what I am so sorry to hear what happened to you it is very important that you tell you parentsWww@Answer-Health@Com

How could you hurt them!. Just sit them both down and tell them out straight!. They will give you all the support and sympothy you need!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just ask them if you could talk in private with them!. This is very serious, and you should tell them right away!. Don't be scared, they'll understand!. It is NOT your fault!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hurting them would be not telling them!. You should call the police and report this immediately!. Let them do their jobs!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

y should it hurt them!?!? tell them as soon as you can!.!.!.!. and inform the cops n get tat damn idiot whoever raped u jailed!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Say mommy guess what i was raped!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

just sit them down and tell them they won't be madWww@Answer-Health@Com

tell them right now!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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