Getting fingered?!?!
Question: Getting fingered!?!!?
when my guy fingers me with one finger it feels great!. but two or more starts to hurt a little and feel uncomfortable!. why is this!? do you get more used to more fingers with practice!? any ways to fix this problem!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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i can only have one or it's painful and i'm in my 40's!. he doesn't need to do more!. tell him one is fine!. he should also try doing it with one finger in you and maybe his thumb massaging the outside of you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your vagina gets stretched out the longer you are doing anything sexual like that, if one finger feels great just stick with one!. After he has been fingering you with one finger for a while, it will usually loosen up (you'll be able to tell because it wont feel as good as before) and he can stick another one in!. Each time he fingers you you will have to go through the process of stretching it out, as it will likely return back to it's normal state when you are no longer excited!. Eventually when you have sex it will start to stretch out more and more permanently!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If one finger feels great, then I would stick with the one finger!. You should feel comfortable talking with your guy about this kind of stuff!. Plus, there are other things he can do to make it feel good!. It doesn't have to be more fingers inside you but he can use his fingers and thumb around the outside area as well and that will feel even better!.
Just relax, communicate with your lover and enjoy the learning process!. Best of luck to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just relax, communicate with your lover and enjoy the learning process!. Best of luck to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I was a clumsy teen boy once too!. Boys arn't mindreaders, he thinks as I did, if one feels good then two will feel better!. Tell him, communication is key, say, I like that, but I don't like that, and so on, and you will both have a better experience!. If and when you start to have sex, remember, use a condom, insist on it, or no lovin!. OK!Www@Answer-Health@Com
No, more than one always sucks!.!.!.!.!. espeically when they aren't good at it!. He is supposedly doing it for YOUR pleasure, right!? Then tell him not to use more than one!.
Hands are nasty unless he just washed them, and there is a lot of bacteria underneath fingernails - I'm not crazy about that activity anyway!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hands are nasty unless he just washed them, and there is a lot of bacteria underneath fingernails - I'm not crazy about that activity anyway!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your vagina is not used to it so it tightens up when an object enters it!. You do eventually get used to it!. Just relax and your body will open itself up more!. One day, you will have to relax enough so a penis can fit in!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
try using a lube or something like that, you are not wet enough, maybe have him go down on you at the same time and that may help you get wetter, also try having him rub his penis against your area to help stimulte your juicesWww@Answer-Health@Com
It's not you, It's easier for him to control one finger than two!. So consequently, the second finger is distracting to you!. tell him that you prefer him to only use one!.
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its probaly because it isn't round like 1 finger!.Hope ir helpsWww@Answer-Health@Com
ask him to use three fingers made into a round position!.!.!.!.it wud b gr8!.!.!.!. ;-]Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe he isn't too good at doing that!.!. start with one until you feel comfortable and work from thereWww@Answer-Health@Com
No, I've got the same prob!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ur not wet enough!. get some lube! and make him go sloooooowWww@Answer-Health@Com
why dont u just tell him that ur enjoying it with one finger!?
im sure he will be happy to knw dat his giving u pleasure in some way ( one finger )!.
hope i helped :-)Www@Answer-Health@Com
im sure he will be happy to knw dat his giving u pleasure in some way ( one finger )!.
hope i helped :-)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I've had this happen to me!. I think it's because the two fingers aren't round!. try sticking something rectangular up there!. Yeah!. Won't feel to good!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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