Does it hurt to be fingered for the first time?!


Question: Does it hurt to be fingered for the first time!?
This guy and i wanted to do things and he said he wanted to finger me!. I was just wondering if it hurts the first time, and if there is something i can do so that it won't hurt!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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It hurt me!. Make sure your area or his finger is wet!. The only thing you can really do so HE does not hurt you, is do it yourself, alone!. It is not considered gross or anything!. You will want to know what pleases you and what you don't like!. If your hymen is not broken, you may bleed which can scare one or both of you!.

My advise is to finger yourself!. You don't have to do it until you "get off" but long enough so you know how it feels!.

Careful if he has big fingers!. That is very uncomfortable!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes it does hurt for the first time unless your hymen has been broken before!. Sometimes if a women uses tampons this can tear your hymen but usually does not break it!. I would take it slow and use some lube to see if that helps!. But dont be surprised if it still hurts!. Dont be afraid to tell him it hurts and only do it if you really want to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It can hurt if he's rough or if his hands are not clean!. Make sure that you are well lubricated before any penetration!. Use KY jelly or saliva if natural lubrication isn't enough!. If you are wet it would feel so much better!.

Let him help you to climax!. As women, we generally have to work a bit harder for ours!. Our orgasms tend to build more slowly!.

Spend some quality alone time with yourself to determine what feels good!. Then you can show him what you like!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

if he does it the way you like it, then no!. but you probably don't know what you like so you couldn't tell him!. let him do his thing and if it hurts, don't do it again!. its up to you!. it just has to do with your sexual preference!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

it all depends on how far he goes in and if you've ever actually masturbated or fingered yourself before!. if you have then that would of stretched it out and it wont hurt it will most likely really feel goodWww@Answer-Health@Com

Not if he is gentle and knows what he is doing!. Also he should trim his nails to the quick so they don't scratch you inside!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

it will hurt for the first time for most people!. its different for everyone!. dont let him unless you're ready!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

no it doesnt hurt it feels really goodWww@Answer-Health@Com

how big are his fingersWww@Answer-Health@Com





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