I feel like i am stuck in my life...?!


Question: I feel like i am stuck in my life!.!.!.!?
I have been feeling really down for the last year, i am stuck in a job that is getting me no where but i am to frightend to leave and start a new job, i dont have any guys in my life that show intrest in me, i am low on confidence and i have lost 3 stone coz i went to weight watchers and now its stopped i cant seems to loose weight even tho im exercising and eating properly, i feel like i need an escape route but i dont know where to start!. does anyone have any advice on where or what to do next!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Lots of people get to points like this in their life so its totally normal and be assured you are definitely not the only one! First off well done on loosing the weight, I think that alot of the time you loose weight and then hit a peak and it gets harder to loose more weight, thats just natural!. So just keep eating healthy and the weight will come off eventually, annoying I know!

I think you are having a mild depression episode, its part of the normal course of life!. If you really feel down I would suggest you see a therapist or doctor just to tide you over the bad times!. If its not that severe then just ride with it!. Look at things in segments, if you think about it clearly you looked at your weight and started on that!. I found when I was really down a couple fo years ago everything was wrong and it was just overwhelming! But to segment things and work on things slowly really helped me!.

I think you have made a fantastic start! So slowly look at what you want from a job, it doesn't have to change tomorrow, make it a considered decision and work on changing your life! As for boys, well sometimes its hard to find one! I spent years looking for Mr Right, with a series of horrible men in my life which shattered my confidence!. With hindsight I wish I was stronger and hadn't tried so hard with the idiots!. You can survive on your own, boys aren't that important!. The second you believe that, Mr wonderful will come round the corner! To speed up him coming into your life try and get some new hobbies and you may meet a new crowd!.

Its just a rut, I hope you feel better, I know it sucks but these things usually turn around!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know how you feel in your position!. Everything has its own time to happen, also with new job!. Keep your current job and at the same time keep looking!. One day when time is right, you will get new better job!.
It has been happened to me and i have to wait for 1!.1/2 year before i got the new job!.
When you are tired with your job, try to think all those jobless people that want your job!. One of my brother in law that has been out of work for 1 year , he said he will give anything to be able to go back to work so be grateful to have work for right now and again keep trying to apply jobs!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

u need to pray stuff gets better!. and know that nothing is put on u that u cnt handle adn thats real!. and dnt look for a man let him come to you its a man out their for every one!. so jus keep your head up and look at your blessing you still alive and breathing and you aint homeless or anythingWww@Answer-Health@Com

This may sound insenstive, but you've got to get off your *** and make changes if you want t see changes!.
It seems that you're just down in the dumps, but you can get yourself out!.
Start looking for new jobs!. Seriously!. Go online and do it right now!. Then go today and ask around and apply different places!. Don't be scared to do it!. Be scared NOT to do it!. Because if you don't do it now, maybe you'll never do it, and you'll be stuck at your job forever doing something you hate that is getting you nowhere!.
Go out and meet people! Go to a club or take a class or START A NEW JOB and meet new people! When you have people that are interested in you, both romantically and otherwise, and you're interested in them too, you will feel a bit better!.
And the weight loss thing just takes time!. You'll get there!. Just keep up the good work!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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