Im 14 and im gonna have sex soon?!


Question: Im 14 and im gonna have sex soon!?
does it hurt!? is my cherry gonna pop, am i going to bleed on him!? isnt that embarrassing!. can i just pop it myself, what do i do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Dude its deff embaraising TRUST ME! :[ it sucked!.!.!.!.talk to him about it first cause hes gana be like ahh whaat!? lol!. and it hurts like woahhh!.

wait till you find some1 special i know your sick of people telling you "wait your too young" but im really just trying to help you because my sister did wait and she regrets it!.!.!.crap i regret not waiting too!.!.!.just wait till your at LEAST 16!.!.!.!. :P
IF you do remember to use a condom okay!? even if he says it feels better with out!.!. :] kk!?
have fun!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Bleeding occurs in only 40% of first-time intercourse for women!. It is a myth that it always occurs!. Sex is painful for a woman if she is not relaxed!. Yes, your cherry is going to "pop" if you have sex, but all that really means is your hymen is stretched into a different shape!. Of course it is possible to stretch the hymen yourself through masturbation!.

Before you consider having sex with him, I think you should think about whether or not you are comfortable talking to HIM about things like this!. If you think it is embarrassing that you might bleed, and this makes you uncomfortable, then you are not ready to have sex!. If you cant ask these questions to his face, then sex is going to be an awkward and unenjoyable experience!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I hope that you've sat down and talked with your prospective partner about birth control options, have both been tested for sexually transmitted infections, have discussed your unplanned pregnancy plans, and are both emotionally mature enough to communicate your concerns and fears with each other!. If you're comfortable enough to be having sex with this partner, I'd hope you'd be comfortable with getting a little blood on him!.

I don't recommend trying to break your hymen yourself!. Many women find that their hymen has already broken (horseback riding, gymnastics, rough sports, etc!. can all cause a girl's hymen to break) when they attempt to have penetrative sex for the first time!.

It may still hurt, because your vagina isn't used to stretching as much as is needed to allow a penis to enter!. To make things more comfortable for you, take things slowly (even though you both may be excited!), and make sure you are very lubricated before you start!. It may be worth stopping at a store to pick up some personal lubricant (look for one that does not have Glycerine as an ingredient, to avoid a potential yeast infection), which you can find in the family planning aisle, near the condoms!. Use a LOT of the lubricant!. The more lubricated you are, the less the penetration should hurt!.

Remember that any condomless sex could lead to sexually transmitted infections, and any sex has a risk for pregnancy (even protected sex)!. If you're going to do a mature and adult act, make sure to treat yourself maturely!. Be prepared, and have a plan for any situation!. Remember, you're not immune to infections or pregnancy!. Best of luck to you!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Prolly should jsut hold off on doing it!.
I was 15 when i lost it, and have been with the guy for two and a half years, and i still regret it!.

once you have sex once!.!.!.!. guys will just expect it from you all the time!.

but to answer your question, it will hurt, but the pain depends on the size of the guy, and a 14 year old boy probably isn't going to be too big

soem girls do bleed a lot!.!.!.!.!. some girls don't bleed at all, you can pop it yourself but not by choice, a lot of girls pop it accidently by using tampons and being active in sports, and never even know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

please do not have sex at-least till you are 16 and ideally after 18!. Physically you can have sex but you are not matured enough mentally and emotionally to live with all implications and consequences of sex !. So please avoid it!.

Just to answer your question, when your hymen ruptures when he enters you for the first time , there may be some bleeding or some pain , but it depends on every individual!. There is no way you can pop the cherry yourself unless you go to the doctor!. Mostly no doctor would do it for you at such an early age!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Every girl is different but chances it will hurt, maybe a little!.!.!.maybe more!. Discuss it first with your partner!.!.!.if you're embarrassed about possibly bleeding, than once in the situation you may be more embarrassed!. If you are not comfortable dong that then maybe you're not ready to have sex yet!. I am not saying not to!.!.!.only you can make that decision!. Be safe, use condoms and don't forget other birth control!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes, it hurts!. If you're petite, it will likely hurt more, and you'll probably bleed!.

Wouldn't you rather him do it, than sit there and make yourself bleed!? It won't be embarrassing!.!.!.just talk about it beforehand!.

But chances are, you should wait!. 14 is too young, no matter what you think, or how many people tell you that!. They're right!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

That is the stupidist thing i have ever heard your 14 and have nothing better to do than have sex with someone! Seriously that is soooo stupid!. And hope your doing it the safe way because if you got pregnant than your child would be know as the child with the too young mum or you will kill the poor thing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you're only 14!?!?
that's how old i am, & i would nottt recommend having sex at such a young age!. i can tell your definitley not ready if you're asking these questions!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

what!?!? 14 years old!. are you serious!?
i suggest no!. don't try to get there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

wait until you're at LEAST 18!.
think about getting preggo at 14 and the guy leaves!

wait!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

omg what has the world come too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

omg!.!.!.!.why at 14!?!?!?!? wait at least until youre 17!.!.!.!.!.:((Www@Answer-Health@Com





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