First time period.?!
Question: First time period!.!?
I just started and I haven't told my mom yet!. I know where the pads are kept in our bathroom (I have sisters) so that isn't a problem for me!. I'm scared about it and I'm embarresed to tell anyone!. Any tips on how to tell!? (please don't say: just do it) How do I start the conversation and such!? Also i never felt any symptoms such as cramps or anything and I still don't have any symptoms (still on my first period)!. Is this normal!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
i had the same problem!
i found that the best things was to go to my sister,
if you have more than one choose which one you are closest too!.
and just get them at a quiet time when you are alone!.
start the conversation with just a can i talk to you!?
(thats what i did, just make sure they are in a good mood)
starting with small talk, just whatever you would normally talk about!. so for me it was hairstyles and things!.
then i just eased into can i ask you something!?
then when she said yes
i asked, how did you tell mum when your period started!?
this way i didnt actuall have to come out and tell her that i had gotten mine and she then knew that i had mine and was able to give me the confidence to go to my mum and tell her!.
its really not that scary!. coz your mum and sisters have all gone through it!.
if you cant talk to your sisters then jsut go to your mum and do the same thing, except just ask her something like could you show me where the pads are or something or just ease into telling her!.
i know it sounds scary but your mum and sisters should all be cool with you telling them afterall it happens to all of us!.
good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
i found that the best things was to go to my sister,
if you have more than one choose which one you are closest too!.
and just get them at a quiet time when you are alone!.
start the conversation with just a can i talk to you!?
(thats what i did, just make sure they are in a good mood)
starting with small talk, just whatever you would normally talk about!. so for me it was hairstyles and things!.
then i just eased into can i ask you something!?
then when she said yes
i asked, how did you tell mum when your period started!?
this way i didnt actuall have to come out and tell her that i had gotten mine and she then knew that i had mine and was able to give me the confidence to go to my mum and tell her!.
its really not that scary!. coz your mum and sisters have all gone through it!.
if you cant talk to your sisters then jsut go to your mum and do the same thing, except just ask her something like could you show me where the pads are or something or just ease into telling her!.
i know it sounds scary but your mum and sisters should all be cool with you telling them afterall it happens to all of us!.
good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
ok you can start with talking about becoming adult! i know you can't go in the kitchen an tell your mom : MOM I STARTED PERIOD! but as far as i know , in this age your mom i waiting for you to tell this to her , she can guess that one of these days you will tell her this! so be relax! start talking about your changes , tell her that your mind has changet or just tell her how a human become adult , then step by step tell her , or just ask her how the humans become pregnated , in her answer you can find some questions to ask her and finally reach to your target and talk about period and then tell her that you had your firs period , this is just normal in your age , think about what you are going to say , then tell her !. hope your successWww@Answer-Health@Com
hi!.!.!.
first, it is a normal condition since you are growing to be mature!. this is just kind of "a new habit"!.
second, let's identify why you want to let your mother know about your first period!. then you will find the reason of the necessity to tell your mom!.
third, since this is your first time you would need assistance from your mom (which is the right person to know / learn about many things) coz period may affect your feelings in your daily life (but it is normal because it is caused of hormons regulation)!.
you know better ways how to communicate with your mom, when, and where it should be done!. like: when your mom is enjoying her tv, you might ask question: what is esterogen and its function in woman!? then you may drive the conversation to your period!.
don't worry, your mom is a right person to talk with!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
first, it is a normal condition since you are growing to be mature!. this is just kind of "a new habit"!.
second, let's identify why you want to let your mother know about your first period!. then you will find the reason of the necessity to tell your mom!.
third, since this is your first time you would need assistance from your mom (which is the right person to know / learn about many things) coz period may affect your feelings in your daily life (but it is normal because it is caused of hormons regulation)!.
you know better ways how to communicate with your mom, when, and where it should be done!. like: when your mom is enjoying her tv, you might ask question: what is esterogen and its function in woman!? then you may drive the conversation to your period!.
don't worry, your mom is a right person to talk with!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i deffinatly had the same problem!. i didnt tell my mom until i already had mine for like a year!. i was 13 at the time, and was totally embarrased, even though i shouldnt have been!. it happends to every girl :) you should really just sit down with her and let her know that you have it, i know its a really awkward convo!. for you but really your mom would think its akward at all!. it will be normal for her, and she;ll probably be happy :) my mom was really happy when i got mine!. lol!. basically just be like mom, the other day i got my period--honestly its better to tell her now than wait for a long time like i did!. because i had a lot of questions that on one could answer for me, because no one knew!. its better to just have it out in the open with your mom!. or since you have sisters atleast let them know so they can help you out :))Www@Answer-Health@Com
well im 13 and ive had my period for a while and i still dont get symptoms we usually dont get them until were like around 15 ohh and well you can start of by saying or just tell one of ur sisters im sure theyll tell her for you or you can just go tell your mom its a normal thing shell understand!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
yes this is normal when i started i didn't have no symptoms !.!. start the conversation of by saying !.!.!.!. mum you no I'm getting older well !.!.!. when did you start your period !.!.!.then keep the convosation going !.!.!. then say !.!.!. i have just started my period !.!. i known you said dont just say say it but that is basically what you have to do Lol!.!. that's what i did !.!.!. i was scared my first time i felt dizzy and sick but it is nothing to be scared about :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please don't feel shy girl! When you were a kid, you always wanted to become big and you have! Please tell your mom and your sisters right away or a bedtime, and also talk about it in discretion!. You can tell them like-
Hey Mom! I've grown up!
Can you teach me how to dispose the sanitary pads!?
I've become a big girl now!
Keep it as hinty as possible :-)
Best of Luck Baby!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hey Mom! I've grown up!
Can you teach me how to dispose the sanitary pads!?
I've become a big girl now!
Keep it as hinty as possible :-)
Best of Luck Baby!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Seriously, your mom has been having her period for a LONG time, it is a NORMAL/NATURAL thing women live with and nothing to be embarrassed about!. Just say, hey, just wanted to let you know I got my period, that's it! No symptoms are NORMAL, some girls don't get them leading up to their period!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
HERE ARE SOME FUNNY ONE
HEY MOM WERE GONNA NEED SOME MORE PADS/TAMPONS!.!.!.!.
OR you can say mom
the red sea is in my under pants!.!.!.!.or aunt flow came to see me!.!.!.
i didn't even get to tell my mom my little sister did she was in the bathroom with me when i started that was like 5 years ago!.!.!.
HOPED I HELPEDWww@Answer-Health@Com
HEY MOM WERE GONNA NEED SOME MORE PADS/TAMPONS!.!.!.!.
OR you can say mom
the red sea is in my under pants!.!.!.!.or aunt flow came to see me!.!.!.
i didn't even get to tell my mom my little sister did she was in the bathroom with me when i started that was like 5 years ago!.!.!.
HOPED I HELPEDWww@Answer-Health@Com
just yell from the bathroom mom can you come here and say guess what i started!.!.!.lol
its not tht big of a deal because we all go through it
heck i even talk to my dad about periods well i actually just make him listen!.!.!.!.lolWww@Answer-Health@Com
its not tht big of a deal because we all go through it
heck i even talk to my dad about periods well i actually just make him listen!.!.!.!.lolWww@Answer-Health@Com
just go to your mom and be like"mom how old were you when u got urs,then shell get the clue then like try to keep the conversation going*good luck*Www@Answer-Health@Com
right just tell your mum dont be embrassed shes had she knows what its like, tell her so then if you have any problems later in life you feel more open with her so tell her now or soon xxx
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There is no need to tell any body this is quite normal to start of adult life!. Do not feel embarassed for it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Here is your conversation:
Mom, (your friend) wants to come over to check out my period!.
Step 2= !?
Step 3= SuccessWww@Answer-Health@Com
Mom, (your friend) wants to come over to check out my period!.
Step 2= !?
Step 3= SuccessWww@Answer-Health@Com
Tell your mom, i have some red stuff in my pants insetead of i got my period!. its much easierWww@Answer-Health@Com
Try telling your sister first!. As for cramps or discomfort!.!.!.i've never had any(I'm now 38)Www@Answer-Health@Com
just do itWww@Answer-Health@Com