Is it ment to hurt on your first time? =S?!

It can - but the idea that it hurts for all girls/women the first time they have sex, or the idea that it 'should' hurt is pure myth!.

It largely comes down to lack of experience and education, they have bad first experiences so believe this is true for everyone so the cycle continues as they tell others their experience!. Simple fact of the matter is this;

Sex should be pleasurable!
This is true whether it is the first time or any other time, if there is pain that is your bodies way of telling you there is something wrong, there is nothing wrong with stopping, resolving the problem and trying again at a later time!.It's very sad that so many girls think it should hurt so tell other girls this myth, sadder still that so many girls felt pain first time they had sex and just put up with it as if they had to!.

Think about it, biologically there is no difference between a virgin and a non-virgin, apart from in some cases a girls hymen (which may be painful, pleasurable, or neither when broken), thus there is no biological reason why a virgin should feel pain the first time having sex!. It

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