Sex is unfair for women?!
Question: Sex is unfair for women!?
I've once heard the expression such as "Men just f**k and women tend to make love" or "Men have sex with their organs, women with their hearts and mind," and thus sex is really unfair for women!. However, I found these comments quite offensive because it portrays men as something less of a human, almost like beasts!. After all, isn't that all men can do with their 'thing'!? I mean!.!.like!.!.what else can we do!? And besides, who can think or behave properly when they are under control by hormones!? (I've also seen women go WILD and swear like crazy when they get really horny!.!.) We're are designed at birth to be like that!.!.hence the twenty times higher level of sex hormone (which we cannot control)!. And after all, when it comes to orgasm, women have way-more (I mean way-more) intense pleasure than men can possibly imagine!. So what do you think about the seemingly popular portrayal of men as being sex-driven animals!.!.!? Is sex really unfair!? If so!.!.for whom!? men or women!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I don't think so!. Sex can be awful for one (or both) participants, and it can usually be extremely wonderful!. In my opinion, it's all about chemistry!. If you love the person, and you have similar ideas on what feels good and what doesn't, it'll most likely be a pleasurable experience!. To be honest though, men are usually more driven by hormones and animalistic instincts than women!. However, this isn't always the case!. Alot of men are very emotionally connected during sex, and I don't think it's fair to say they aren't!. Likewise, many women are animalistic and hormonal, thinking only of their own pleasure!.
And to be honest, (I'm admitting this even though I am a girl), if men were naturally more emotionally attached and the roles were reversed, we'd probably complain anyway!. "Oh, I wish he was more of a beast in bed, boo hoo hoo" (You know it's true!)
And I don't blame you for being offended!. I certainly would be!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
And to be honest, (I'm admitting this even though I am a girl), if men were naturally more emotionally attached and the roles were reversed, we'd probably complain anyway!. "Oh, I wish he was more of a beast in bed, boo hoo hoo" (You know it's true!)
And I don't blame you for being offended!. I certainly would be!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
True!. But sometimes women also have to deal with the after party of babies and such!. Not so fun!. I guess we are more pre-cautious!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
women have ALL the control!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
depends on who your with , with the control and out of this world sex lolWww@Answer-Health@Com
The only thing I would say that sucks about being a woman and sex would be that men ALWAYS climax!. It's pretty much guaranteed unless you have some kind of health condition, whereas for women, it is never a guarantee and for some women sex rarely results in climax!. Most women need a decent amount of foreplay beforehand, while men do just fine with a quickee!.
The thing is, if I'm done having sex first, it would never be acceptable for me to roll over and go to sleep!. That's what many women deal with in relationships, sex is done when the guy climaxes regardless of whether she got anywhere!. Does sex have to be that unfair!? No, there's certainly plenty of other ways to get there even if one partner finishes ahead of time, but, most of the time the guy takes care of his needs and it's over with as far as he's concerned!.!.
Do men and women need different things during sex!? Most of the time yes, women need a state of mind, men just need to get some friction on!.!. I don't see how that's offensive though to either gender, that's just the way it works due to hormone levels and other factors outside our control!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The thing is, if I'm done having sex first, it would never be acceptable for me to roll over and go to sleep!. That's what many women deal with in relationships, sex is done when the guy climaxes regardless of whether she got anywhere!. Does sex have to be that unfair!? No, there's certainly plenty of other ways to get there even if one partner finishes ahead of time, but, most of the time the guy takes care of his needs and it's over with as far as he's concerned!.!.
Do men and women need different things during sex!? Most of the time yes, women need a state of mind, men just need to get some friction on!.!. I don't see how that's offensive though to either gender, that's just the way it works due to hormone levels and other factors outside our control!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm assuming you aren't that old as you refer to a penis as a 'thing'!.
Those are stereotypes!. Yes it's true that some men are just out for the fun of it and it's not an emotional thing, but that can also be true for women!.
Likewise with the 'heart and minds'!. If you love the person you're with, it's just as possible for men to 'make love' as it is for women!. In my opinion sex reaches it's heights when the two people involved are in love because it's both physical AND emotional!.
The problems come along when people aren't honest with each other!. If you're only up for the physical aspect of sex then let the other person know!.
When men say what they think women want to hear just to get her into bed, and the woman thinks he's being truthful, then sex is unfair to the woman!. She'll be using her heart and mind, getting emotionally attached and he'll just be using his organs!(I only use men as an example there because a lot of men do that, moreso than women, in my opinion/experience)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Those are stereotypes!. Yes it's true that some men are just out for the fun of it and it's not an emotional thing, but that can also be true for women!.
Likewise with the 'heart and minds'!. If you love the person you're with, it's just as possible for men to 'make love' as it is for women!. In my opinion sex reaches it's heights when the two people involved are in love because it's both physical AND emotional!.
The problems come along when people aren't honest with each other!. If you're only up for the physical aspect of sex then let the other person know!.
When men say what they think women want to hear just to get her into bed, and the woman thinks he's being truthful, then sex is unfair to the woman!. She'll be using her heart and mind, getting emotionally attached and he'll just be using his organs!(I only use men as an example there because a lot of men do that, moreso than women, in my opinion/experience)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hmm, actually this is a really good question!. I'm glad you're asking it, because I find comments like this offensive as well (even though I myself am a woman)!.
I think this type of mindset comes from the double-standard, "boys-will-be-boys" society the Western culture has developed!. Although it is true that men tend to be more impulsive than women, it does not mean that they are more driven by hormones than women!. It's just a matter of what KIND of hormones we are driven by (men are more physical and women are more emotional)!.
The reason women are more known to "make love" than to "f*ck" is because it is more socially acceptable for girls to show emotion than for boys, though it doesn't necessarily mean guys don't appreciate love as well!. Men don't want to be associated with feelings because they don't want people to look at them as feminine!. Also, it has been proven that when women have sex, it triggers the same hormones in their body that tend to be present when they fall in love, which is why women sometimes fall in love with men they only intended to have a "friends with benefits" relationship with, or a one night stand!. This is generally not so with men because they have a lesser amount of estrogen in their bodies!.
In these contemporary times, it is far more acceptable for women to sleep around, whereas before it was only acceptable for men to sleep around!. So you are very right when you say that women can be just as sexual as men; the only thing holding them back before was society's double standard that made them feel like sluts when they did it!. (In my opinion women who sleep around ARE sluts, but everyone has their reasons for what they do!.)
I think sex is unfair!. Not just for women, but for men, too!. It all depends on the situation, really!. A CEO of a big industry could use their position to force someone to have sex with them; and depending on who they abuse, sex is unfair to that gender!. If a guy rapes a woman and leaves her pregnant, sex is unfair to the woman!. Or, say a woman holds out on sex with her husband in order to manipulate him, sex is unfair to the man!. It really just depends on the situation!. Either way, sex just complicates everything, no matter WHO has the upper-hand in it!.
Bottom line!? Use your hand!. It's safer, easier, and you don't have to snuggle after sex!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think this type of mindset comes from the double-standard, "boys-will-be-boys" society the Western culture has developed!. Although it is true that men tend to be more impulsive than women, it does not mean that they are more driven by hormones than women!. It's just a matter of what KIND of hormones we are driven by (men are more physical and women are more emotional)!.
The reason women are more known to "make love" than to "f*ck" is because it is more socially acceptable for girls to show emotion than for boys, though it doesn't necessarily mean guys don't appreciate love as well!. Men don't want to be associated with feelings because they don't want people to look at them as feminine!. Also, it has been proven that when women have sex, it triggers the same hormones in their body that tend to be present when they fall in love, which is why women sometimes fall in love with men they only intended to have a "friends with benefits" relationship with, or a one night stand!. This is generally not so with men because they have a lesser amount of estrogen in their bodies!.
In these contemporary times, it is far more acceptable for women to sleep around, whereas before it was only acceptable for men to sleep around!. So you are very right when you say that women can be just as sexual as men; the only thing holding them back before was society's double standard that made them feel like sluts when they did it!. (In my opinion women who sleep around ARE sluts, but everyone has their reasons for what they do!.)
I think sex is unfair!. Not just for women, but for men, too!. It all depends on the situation, really!. A CEO of a big industry could use their position to force someone to have sex with them; and depending on who they abuse, sex is unfair to that gender!. If a guy rapes a woman and leaves her pregnant, sex is unfair to the woman!. Or, say a woman holds out on sex with her husband in order to manipulate him, sex is unfair to the man!. It really just depends on the situation!. Either way, sex just complicates everything, no matter WHO has the upper-hand in it!.
Bottom line!? Use your hand!. It's safer, easier, and you don't have to snuggle after sex!Www@Answer-Health@Com