How do I tell my new girlfriend about her fishy smell?!
Question: How do I tell my new girlfriend about her fishy smell!?
I met this wonderful woman who seems perfect for me in every way but one!. We have been intimate a few times over these past weeks, and each time she starts to get turned on, her vaginal juices (which are clear) have a VERY strong, nasty fishy smell!. This is NOT the normal musky vaginal smell - this makes me want to gag!. I can't even THINK of going down on her, and honestly it is such a turn off I even have trouble reaching orgasm during straight sex because of it! I've researched it and it sounds like Trichomoniasis or BV which can be easily treated by her OB/GYN!.
It's a new relationship and we have a deep attraction for each other!.!.!. I feel like she could be my true love connection!. I don't want to hurt her feelings, or risk losing her, but I have to say something because it's such a turn off!. She doesn't seem to notice the smell, or even be aware that it is preventing me from exploring her fully!.
I feel so awkward!. How do I tell her without hurting or embarassing her!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's a new relationship and we have a deep attraction for each other!.!.!. I feel like she could be my true love connection!. I don't want to hurt her feelings, or risk losing her, but I have to say something because it's such a turn off!. She doesn't seem to notice the smell, or even be aware that it is preventing me from exploring her fully!.
I feel so awkward!. How do I tell her without hurting or embarassing her!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
There's no way around it, she will be embarrassed, but it's better to get it out in the open now than have time go by & then tell her in like the middle of a fight or something, then she'll really be hurt!.!.!.
Just sit down and tell her exactly what you've said here!. Tell her you love her, and that you feel she can be your true love connection, but that this situation is preventing you from exploring her fully, as you say!. That you're not saying this to be rude or to embarrass her, on the contrary, you just want her to know so that you can give more to each other and get more from one another!.
Another thing, if she's had other partners, surely they must have noticed, maybe no one had the guts to tell her before; but if you want a long, honest relationship, you have to be upfront about this, otherwise it will end up eating you inside & there's no way you can build a strong relationship that may lead to the two of you growing old with each other with something like that in the way!. Who knows, she may be a little hurt or embarrassed at first, but in time she'll come to thank you because I don't know any woman who wants to walk around knowing there's a foul smell coming from her private areas!.
I wish you the best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just sit down and tell her exactly what you've said here!. Tell her you love her, and that you feel she can be your true love connection, but that this situation is preventing you from exploring her fully, as you say!. That you're not saying this to be rude or to embarrass her, on the contrary, you just want her to know so that you can give more to each other and get more from one another!.
Another thing, if she's had other partners, surely they must have noticed, maybe no one had the guts to tell her before; but if you want a long, honest relationship, you have to be upfront about this, otherwise it will end up eating you inside & there's no way you can build a strong relationship that may lead to the two of you growing old with each other with something like that in the way!. Who knows, she may be a little hurt or embarrassed at first, but in time she'll come to thank you because I don't know any woman who wants to walk around knowing there's a foul smell coming from her private areas!.
I wish you the best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
She definately has bacterial Vaginosis(BV)!. I know you may not want to tell her because you do not want to hurt her feeling but here is what you can do!.!.!.!.
next time you are intimate tell her that she smells different and that she may need to see a doctor because that is not how she smelled before(of course you will be lying) but her feelings will be spared!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
next time you are intimate tell her that she smells different and that she may need to see a doctor because that is not how she smelled before(of course you will be lying) but her feelings will be spared!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
take a shower together and then lick her out!?
or just dont wash your willy for a few days and wait for her to complain haha
seriously im not sure,it really depends on what type of person she is!
if my bf stinks i tell him,n there aint no way i go down there unless he has a shower lol,but he knows what im like!
buy her some nice soaps and take baths together!!!
if she likes you as much as you like her she will understand!
goodluck!xWww@Answer-Health@Com
or just dont wash your willy for a few days and wait for her to complain haha
seriously im not sure,it really depends on what type of person she is!
if my bf stinks i tell him,n there aint no way i go down there unless he has a shower lol,but he knows what im like!
buy her some nice soaps and take baths together!!!
if she likes you as much as you like her she will understand!
goodluck!xWww@Answer-Health@Com
just straight out tell her :) buy some nice smellin soaps or go see a doctor together and get tested together and tell the doctor to check that out so you wouldnt feel as bad!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
honosty is key in a good realationship talk in privateWww@Answer-Health@Com
Wow!.!.!.I find it hard to believe that she doesn't notice!. Because the female is usually the first to notice the change in odor!. But you're right it sounds like it might be BV!. And there's no way to get rid of it with over the counter things (i!.e!. douching or bathing), her doctor will have to prescribe something!. There's no way that you can really say it to her besides just being tactful!. Let her know that you care about her and you're not trying to hurt her feeling or embarrass her but that she might need to go see her GYN!. Hope that helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com